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01. Preface
Love is like the wind of April, the rain of June, always uncertain. It seems sharp and violent, but it often rushes by, as if it is a dream.
Duras said: "A man who loves you will have pity in his eyes, and if he does not love, there will only be desire." ”
In love, not all people will give their hearts; not all people who give their hearts can be treated and cherished.
In love, women long to meet good people and be cherished for a lifetime. However, in love, women often love too emotionally to judge whether men are sincere or false.
There is a clear difference between a man who loves you deeply and "just plays".
If you really love someone, you will have rational thinking after having an impulsive desire to fall in love. No matter how many obstacles you encounter, you are also willing to go forward and chase the other party with your heart. And, to accept everything she has, not to care about her flaws.
Without love, people will not see the future, feel a sense of security, and happiness.
02, the difference in action
True love is good at giving, not loving, often giving verbally.
Qu Lianjie in "Ode to Joy" fell in love with Fan Shengmei, and he asked Fan Shengmei to go out to play many times. 、
Moreover, when he got along with her, he constantly hinted to Fan Shengmei that he had strong financial strength and could do everything for her. After that, he prepared her a lavish dinner, expensive dresses, and took her in and out of high-end venues.
Fan Shengmei thought that she had met true love, so she was overjoyed and ran for love.
However, when Qu Lianjie got Fan Shengmei, he no longer offered her courtesy.
Fan Shengmei's father was sick and needed money, and her other friends around her tried to find a way for her, while Qu Lianjie only used a thousand pieces to prevaricate Fan Shengmei.
In his eyes, Fan Shengmei is one of many ex-girlfriends, and it is okay to spend a little money for her, but it is impossible to shoulder the responsibility of taking care of her family.
Men really love a woman and will stand by her side and face the ups and downs with her.
Men really love a person, will not verbally say how rich and capable they are, but will use practical actions to help women and give women more security.
Fake love, on the other hand, doesn't pay much. It's more about sweet talk and verbal commitment to women, and there won't be actual giving.
Only true love will run for love, will firmly guard women, and maintain each other's feelings with their hearts.
03, the difference in spending money
Love or not love a person, you can see it from spending money.
Men don't love a person, don't spend money for women, and even do everything they can to spend women's money.
True love, on the other hand, will be willing to spend money for women, willing to hand over their hard-earned money to women.
In "Let's Get Married", he and Peach are in love, and when he proposes, he takes out all his belongings and wants to give them to Peaches.
Looking at the man's real estate deeds, bank cards, household registration books, peaches moved to tears.
In a relationship, what a woman wants is not money, but wants to know if the man can give him a sense of security, whether he loves her completely.
Tu Lei said: "Men are willing to spend money for women, he may not love her, but men are not willing to spend a penny for women, he must not love her." ”
Men really love a woman, will work hard to make money, and are willing to spend money for women, just want to give women more beauty and happiness.
And men, if they don't love someone, will give the focus of making money to women. Moreover, in life, they will be reluctant to spend money for women, on the contrary, they will also spend women's hard-earned money on themselves.
Money may not be a measure of the depth of love, but it can determine whether a man has given his heart.
04, the difference in planning
True love and false love can be seen in life planning.
If a man truly loves a woman, he will plan her into his life, work hard, and look forward to the rest of his life.
If a man does not love a woman, he will enjoy the woman's efforts while making the woman desperately wait and not give her a future.
Love with a future is true love.
Men truly love a woman, and after the relationship is stable, they will take the initiative to propose marriage, hoping that two people can live together for a long time. I hope that each other can become each other's only lovers under the constraints of marriage.
True love will make men become very domineering, hoping that in the eyes of the other party, the heart can only accommodate each other. In life planning, the consideration is not the day and night, but the desire to get along for a longer time.
If you want to be with each other for the rest of your life, then men will not let women wait forever, but will plan each other's wedding dates, think about what kind of house to live in the future, what kind of life to live, and work hard for it.
And when a man doesn't love someone, no matter how good she is, he won't plan her into his life.
05. Summary
Two people together, love or not love, in fact, can see, but also can feel.
If you truly love someone, you will be willing to pay, and you will also care for each other with your heart and give each other a sense of security. And, willing to work hard for each other's future.
The writer Sanmao said: "I can't hide my liking for a person, and even if I cover my mouth, I will still run out of my eyes." ”
True love for a person, will give a lifelong commitment, two people have a common goal, will be in order to "be together" and seriously manage feelings and life.
And under the impulse of love, the expectation of the lover is often regardless of whether it is ignored or ignored, and only wants to satisfy one's own selfish desires. I just want to love once and never see each other again.
True love for a person, will insist for love, for love and work hard.
True love and false love are hidden in behavior. As long as you observe and judge with your heart, you can see it truly.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.