What kind of life should a woman be?
Some people say to be gentle and beautiful, some people say to be sensible and well-behaved, some people say to be independent and strong...
Opinions vary, and everyone has their own judgment.
In the modern era when women can stand up to half the sky, living with dignity, charm, and happiness is probably the value consensus of all women.
An attractive woman must be a noble woman.
Nobility is not a superficial pretense posture, but a bone qi emanating from the bones, a spiritual abundance, a posture of its own, gentleness and firmness, self-confidence and humility.
A woman, in the following three aspects, the cleaner, the more noble.
Speak clean
A person's language can best reflect a person's cultivation, and noble women speak cleanly and neatly.
The so-called clean speech, that is, to know what to say and what not to say, not to judge others at will, not to show off themselves.
As the saying goes: three women in a play, women talk a lot, early is not a new thing, but the uncontrolled "long tongue" is mostly not popular.
Nagging the child endlessly, with the eyes full of the child's no, will eventually lead to the child's estrangement.
Complaining about their husbands, they often compare their own men with other men, pushing their husbands farther and farther away.
Blame the in-laws, this is not done well, that is not brought well, making the family smoke miasma.
Talking about people behind their backs, constantly labeling others, appearing to be very "noble", and eventually falling into a situation of being isolated.
Once a woman doesn't speak cleanly, she is getting farther and farther away from good people.
Noble women understand that more words must be lost, they do not say words that add to people's blockages, they do not say words that deliberately elevate themselves, they demean others, they do not talk about others behind their backs, and they let themselves fall into a meaningless battle of words.
Because of their kindness and tolerance in their hearts, they can understand that everyone has their own difficulties, and they should not hurt anyone for the sake of their tongues, even those who have hurt themselves.
They tend to speak appropriately and give others a comfortable feeling.
Just like the feeling given by the host Dong Qing.
At a "Chinese Poetry" conference, a special contestant came, this is a simple farmer who has only been in school for four years, but loves poetry for half a lifetime, because he is a little nervous, he does not know what to say for a while.
Dong Qing then said to him: "Poetry, like a little green in the desert, brings you hope and desire, you use limited water to water it, slowly break the soil, and grow again, until today." So even if you get it wrong, it's a beautiful mistake. ”
Instantly, let the player's eyebrows stretch.
Although we can't export chapters like Teacher Dong Qing, we can learn her wisdom of speaking.
Truly noble women understand that a clean mouth is to accumulate virtue for themselves.
A woman who speaks cleanly must be a blessed person and a noble woman.
Behave cleanly
The "Confucius Language" says: Gentlemen speak with deeds, and villains speak with tongues.
Judge a person's character by looking at her behavior.
Noble women are true gentlemen, their circles are clean, they know how to clean themselves and discipline themselves.
The circle of a person's life reflects her personality, and a clean circle means a clean style and clean behavior.
When we were young, we always wanted to make friends from all walks of life, hoping to get high-quality networking resources, so we spent a lot of time on some ineffective social networking, resulting in our own mental exhaustion.
Often walking by the river, where are the shoes that are not wet?
In the end, I found that the so-called high-quality resources did not rely on the circle of the three religions and nine streams, but had a noble personality and unique value.
Fan Shengmei in "Ode to Joy" wants to get to know the upper class, and even betrays herself in order to seduce Qu Xiaoxiu's brother.
When she thought that she would fly up the branches and become a phoenix from then on, and turn to Qu Lianjie for help because of her father's serious illness, Qu Lianjie only threw her a few thousand yuan and sent her away, which was heart-stopping.
In "The Distant Savior", Rui Xiaodan said: There are only two ways for men and women to talk, either standing or lying down.
Compared with Fan Shengmei's "lying", Rui Xiaodan is the one who stands and talks to the man.
In the pile of men, like a holy white lotus, dealing with criminals is not humble, the people of WangMiao Village want to seduce her, send him a few boxes of wine, she will also find a way to return it, never covet a little cheap and degrade her self-esteem.
Rui Xiaodan is simple and noble, it is her independence, self-love, cleanliness, and has won the respect and appreciation of Ding Yuanying and all the people of Wangmiao Village.
In addition to the cleanliness of the circle, noble women are extremely disciplined, and they focus on improving their self-awareness and abilities.
They understand that the comfort of life comes from the freedom that comes with self-discipline.
They will cut off those things and feelings that are not beneficial to them and be a simple and pure person.
Only when the circle is simple and the behavior is clean, can you have the time and energy to improve your nobility.
True nobility comes not only from self-love, but also from the courage to insist on one's own attitude in life.
Clean inside
A person with a dirty heart looks dirty everywhere.
On the contrary, a person with a clean heart, her world will never be deserted.
People with clean hearts have simple minds, do not have too much utilitarianism, know how to shield the sound of external interference, like to do one thing, do not ask whether the value is worth it, do not ask whether there is a result.
Just like the national idol Gu Ailing, she often says that she is a particularly simple person, likes to sleep 10 hours a day, likes to ski, likes to write, she never considers what honor skiing will bring her, but from the bottom of her heart like to do it, it is this clean persistence, so that she finally gets the recognition of the world.
Gu Ailing's nobility is not so cold that people are respected and far away, but because of love, it shines brightly and illuminates the people around him.
The appeal of a clean person to love is simple and pure.
A writer once said that only clean eyes can see a clean soul.
They are loyal to their hearts, treat love, have nothing to do with interests and wealth, care about the most authentic appearance of love, and love when they like a person.
Even after experiencing several relationships, each one is treated with sincerity, and each paragraph has achieved a better self.
It's a love of life, as long as I want to, I love, even if it hurts, I still believe in love.
As Romain Rolland said: The real heroism is to love life after seeing the truth of life.
A woman with a clean heart is pure, transparent, and the most attractive, how can such a woman not be liked.
Zheng Juan in "The World of Man" is a woman that the whole network wants to marry.
The appearance is the fate of the widow, who has experienced being ridiculed by others and remembered by the little, but her heart is clean.
She was not afraid of her situation, she only loved Zhou Bingkun, and no amount of suffering could destroy her stubbornness.
From her, I saw that a woman with a clean heart is brave, confident, and noble, and such a woman deserves to be cherished by a man for a lifetime.
A noble woman is a person with a complete self, they are brave, confident, independent, kind, and humble.
A noble woman brings others a feeling like a spring breeze, they speak cleanly, their behavior is clean, and their hearts are clean.
There are no perfect standard women in this world, but a clean and noble woman must be the one closest to happiness in her life.
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