Sukhomlinsky said: "True love requires not only love, but also mutual insight into each other's inner world. ”
When encountering love, women must understand that if they want to know whether a man is sincere to you, don't just listen to what he says to you, but often ignore what he can do for you.
For some women, in their opinion, they always feel that love is a very simple thing, as long as the man is good to her, he really loves her. In fact, when a man wants to deceive a woman's sincerity, he will definitely pretend to be very good to the woman, and even create a lot of surprises to move the woman.
Just like Fan Shengmei in "Ode to Joy", because of her original family, Fan Shengmei has always wanted to find a man with rich economic conditions. It is precisely for this reason that in the matter of falling in love, Fan Shengmei's eyes can only see those men with good conditions. So when she met Qu Lianjie, because the other party gave her some small gifts and took him to some "high-level" parties, Fan Shengmei felt that this was a man who could be relied on.
However, in the end, Qu Lianjie was with her, but it was only a momentary freshness, and it was not long before this "good" was completely over, in exchange for the indifferent face and those words that did not care.
Therefore, when women get along with the opposite sex, they must avoid Fan Shengmei's thoughts, just look at each other's momentary "good", but ignore the real mind of men, so as to let themselves fall into the vortex of being hurt.
Shakespeare once said, "Don't swear by the moon, it is fickle, every month is full of profits and losses; if you swear by it, maybe your love is as impermanent as it is." ”
In the face of love, women should not only know how to see men's temporary performance, or vows on a whim, but learn to observe men's performance, and even those details of habits. These unintentional habits are the real thoughts of men about you.
Women should understand that in addition to being good to you, men who are willing to do these things for you are true love to you.
01 Will firmly remember what you have said and what is relevant to you.
Hugo said, "For love, what is the year?" It's both a minute and a century. It is said to be minute because in the sweetness of love it is fleeting like lightning; it is said to be century because it is the eternal life of happiness after it has built life in us. ”
Love is like this, as long as a man's heart truly loves a person, he will naturally feel the sweetness of this love. In addition to happiness and sweetness, I will also use my own efforts to guard this love, to cherish this love, to care about women's feelings.
Generally speaking, two people together, as long as the man is sincere, will be very careful. He will remember what you have said, what you have done, and what you have told him. Even if there are many things that you don't need to say much, he will notice it himself and remember it firmly.
If a woman wants to discern a man's heart, she must learn to observe these behaviors of men to see if he can do it for you.
02 When there is a contradiction, it must be him who is anxious to reconcile.
Wovinag said: "Habit is everything, even in love." ”
Men who truly love a woman will naturally know how to protect this love. Such a man in love, will certainly know how to please women, but also take the initiative to understand women's minds, understand women's hobbies.
Conflicts between lovers are also common, and in general, in such cases, women will be able to be pampered by men and be coaxed by men. After a fight, even if you are at fault, you will hope that it is the man who takes the initiative to apologize.
If a man cares about a woman, he will naturally understand the woman's mind. The more deeply he loves a woman, the more careful a man will be in front of a woman. Especially when there are some contradictions, even if the man's heart is unwilling, he will take the initiative to apologize to the woman and repair the relationship between the two as soon as possible.
03 Will give you companionship, will give you enough patience.
Marlinsky said: "Inexperienced first love is fascinating, but love that stands the test is priceless. ”
For women, it must be worth it to make them pay their true love, and it is possible to see that men care. Only when a woman feels the sincerity of a man will she feel that this love can stand the test.
In a love that can stand the test, a man's attitude towards love must be sincere and willing to pay. Such a man will definitely give women enough patience to really care about women and care about women's feelings. They will give women enough companionship, will guard the relationship well, and let women feel their attitude and sincerity.
When getting along with the opposite sex, women must understand that the man who really loves you is not just as simple as being good to you on the surface, because this is also the easiest to disguise. Men who truly love you, in addition to being nice to you, will also take the initiative to do these things for you.