Molière said, "If you don't harm each other, happiness will not be your share." Drive love out of life, and you drive out joy. Smooth love, in fact, is tasteless. ”
Two people in love, it is impossible to be together every moment. Even two people who love each other again will be separated for their own lives and their respective careers. Loving someone, in the time of separation, there will be concerns, there will be thoughts, if there is not even the most basic lovesickness, what to convince yourself that you love each other?
Such a bland love, even if it is told to the people around you, it is difficult to convince people that your love is sincere. This is also why, when we see a person saying "I miss you" to someone we like, our hearts will be sweet, and we will even feel a little numb. And when we can meet such a love, we will also feel sweet.
Sukhomlinsky said: "True love requires not only love, but also mutual insight into each other's inner world. ”
When the opposite sex gets along, both people want to master their own love and be able to control the direction of love, rather than loving passively all the time, and even don't know what the other person is thinking. If we can't be sure of each other's thoughts, we will lose our sense of security in this love, whether it is a man or a woman, in fact, we do not want such a situation to occur in our love.
For men, they are often more active in love and relatively pay more. At the same time, it is natural to hope that you can get the corresponding return and feel the response of the other party. Just like when two people are separated, the man misses the woman at the same time, but also hopes that the other person misses him.
It's just that men are easy to ignore that women are generally very reserved and subtle in love, even if they miss a person in their hearts, they will not use words to express it directly. If men only know how to look at these superficial things, it is easy to misunderstand women's minds.
When women miss you, they often give you these signals, and men should know women's thoughts when they receive them, but don't be silly and don't understand.
01 Will complain to you that you are bored alone.
When a woman is single, they don't actually get bored, or even if they're alone, they can find something to do. Maybe it's shopping with girlfriends; maybe it's playing games and chasing dramas; maybe it's chatting with friends.
But after falling in love, women's lives have also completely changed, especially when they are alone, they will involuntarily think of their other half, and when they see others in pairs, women's hearts will be envious, will be lost, even if there are some things they like, they will lose interest at this time.
When chatting with men, women often can't help but bring this emotion into the chat, and will often complain to men that they are bored alone. When chatting, men should pay attention to it, if a woman often complains to you that she is bored, in fact, the meaning of her words is to say that she misses you and wants to be with you.
At this time, as long as the man says something nice, the woman's mood will definitely improve, even if separated, her heart for your love must be unswerving. If men do not pay attention to these thoughts of women, for a long time, women's hearts will also have complaints and disappointments.
02 Some of the little things that happen in life will be shared with you.
Balzac said: "Love breathes life into the sad eyes, and makes the pale face rosy with roses." ”
When a woman has love in her heart, the appearance of the manifestation is naturally different. For men who don't like it, women's minds are very simple, and they don't have too much thought when they get along together, and their own things naturally don't easily share with each other.
But in front of the men she likes, women will take the initiative to find topics and will take the initiative to reveal their thoughts. Especially when two people are separated, the more the woman's heart misses each other, the more she talks when chatting.
Even if women don't actively tell the man that they miss him, they will use other ways to hint at the man and let the man know her thoughts. It's like some of the little things that women encounter in life that may seem unremarkable, but when chatting, women also share these little things with men. When women do this, they are nothing more than implying that they miss him all the time and want to share their lives with men.
03 Deliberately throwing a little tantrum with you and wanting to know when you're going to see her.
Ovid said: "Whoever says ,'I don't love', he loves.' ”
Men know that sometimes women like to say some contrarian things, just like when she originally liked something, but stubbornly told men that they did not like it; when they were angry, they pretended that they were not angry; even if they loved a man, they would not admit defeat and would tell men that they did not care so much about her.
In these cases, if a man really believes in a woman, it is easy to affect this feeling.
Especially when two people are separated, women will be very depressed at the thought of men, and occasionally they will have some small tempers. When a woman does this, she is not really angry, but wants to make the man care more about her in this way, and to understand her mind, to know that she misses him now.
Stevenson once said: "Because love has entered the heart of a person, it is not possible to scold." Since it has come to you, it will possess everything from you. Now that you're in love, that's the only way to do it, and the only way to do it is to think of the cheapest way to get it. ”
When lovers get along, men must understand this, when women think of you, she also hopes to grasp the initiative of this love, so she will not easily admit that she misses you verbally, but will send you these signals, but don't stupidly ignore it.