Smart people, when encountering love, often do not blindly impulsive, but will know how to use some love skills. In this way, to pursue a love, you will do more with less, you can easily stir the other party's heart, and get the happiness you want.
We all know that "men chase women across the mountain, women chase men across the yarn", in general, women take the initiative to pursue men, often much easier than men pursue a woman.
But the result is just the opposite, if the woman takes the initiative to pursue love, when getting along, women tend to look humble and will be very bottomless. In the active love of men, women can boldly enjoy love, and they can also do a lot of confidence to fall in love.
Therefore, if a woman is in love with a man and wants to stir the other party's heart, don't easily lose herself and become blindly impulsive. Rather, it is necessary to maintain the most basic sanity and be good at using some techniques about love. In this way, women can not only maintain their own image, but also stir the hearts of men and let men take the initiative to pursue you.
Stevenson once said: "Because love has entered the heart of a person, it is not possible to scold." Since it is in you, it will possess everything from you. Now that you're in love, that's the only way to do it, and the only way to do it is to think of the cheapest way to get it. ”
If you want to stir a man's heart, the woman has to find the cheapest way to get her wish.
I like Qiao Jingjing in the TV series "You Are My Glory", although in high school, she failed to confess to the way, but she was not discouraged, but made herself better and seemed more worthy of the way.
She knew Yu Tu's ideals, and she had been supporting him in his efforts to his ideals, so Qiao Jingjing had never changed. Although I missed it ten years ago, the encounter ten years later, Yu Tu is still moving. In the process of getting along, although Qiao Jingjing did not seem to do anything, she easily touched Yu Tu's heart.
In fact, as long as we carefully observe, we can find that Qiao Jingjing is very familiar with yutu's hobby before she has her own love. To love a person, you have to do what you like, so that you can attract his attention and easily stir his heart.
From Qiao Jingjing's body, we can find that if you want to stir a man's heart, you must be familiar with these "hobbies" of him, and there is no shortcut.
01 Familiar with a man's ideals and the things he cares about most.
In fact, most people around Yutu do not understand his choice, after all, this job is not only hard, expensive, and the income is average. Even his former girlfriend gave up the relationship because of his choice.
In the face of the people around her do not understand, or even look down, when hearing Qiao Jingjing's support, Yu Tu felt that she was very different, so he paid more attention to her and tried to understand her.
For a man, the understanding and support of the other half is far more important than love. If you don't get understanding and support, even if two people are in love, it is difficult to go to the end.
Every man has his own ideals, or has his own things he cares about most. They will hope that their other half can understand their minds and understand them, rather than blindly denying or belittling them.
If women want to stir a man's heart, they have to understand the man's world, know their ideals, and the things they care about most in their hearts. Women do this to impress men and attract their attention.
02 Know what kind of love a man wants in his heart, or what kind of object he wants to meet.
For the matter of love, everyone has their own expectations and fantasies. What kind of love you want to have, what kind of person you want to meet. This is true for women, and it is also true for men. Although they do not put love on their lips, in their hearts, they also have expectations.
Women like a man, not blindly to show their minds, but to know how to understand their hearts. Know what they think about love, know what kind of woman they want to associate with.
After knowing the requirements of men, women learn to do what they like, and it is naturally easier to attract men's attention and let men take the initiative to think about these issues. If a woman blindly pursues a love, the result is that the gap between herself and the man's ideal appearance is very good, and she will naturally be rejected by men.
03 Understand men's preferences to have more common language.
Shakespeare said: "Love is not a sweet word in the shade of a flower, not a honey word in the peach blossom source, not a light tear, nor a hard compulsion, love is based on a common language." ”
If a woman wants to stir a man's heart, she must first learn to create some common topics, so that she can have something to say and a chance to get along.
If women do not understand this, always like to talk about their own things, do not understand the inner world of men, no matter how enthusiastic you speak, men will not feel anything, but will feel bored, feel that there is no common language between you.
If you want to have more common language, women have to understand men's hobbies, as we often say, "know thyself and know each other to win every battle". Rather than blind impulsive pursuit, some premeditated love techniques are more likely to stir men's hearts and let them take the initiative to pursue you.
Isakovsky said: "Love, it is not one heart to beat another heart, but a spark of two hearts colliding together." ”
Only when two people love each other, this love will be more complete and they will be happier together. When encountering love, we must not only consider our own minds, but also learn to think about the long term. After all, if we are willing to start a love affair, we must want to go long and have a happy ending.
Therefore, if a woman wants to get the man's sincerity, don't be too anxious, and first learn to be familiar with his "hobbies".