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"You Are My Glory" is an urban love drama directed by Wang Zhi and starring Yang Yang and Di Li Reba, based on Gu Man's novel of the same name, which mainly tells the story of the popular actress Qiao Jingjing, who accidentally reunited with her former high school classmates in the game.
This drama conveys a very correct view of marriage and love, and also teaches lovers how to respect, understand, tolerate and trust each other.
It is a sweet drama for young people to watch, really go up, want to fall in love, want to get married, and it is also a good drama that makes people dare to chase their dreams and adhere to the ideal.
May the country be rich and the people strong, may the mountains and rivers be unharmed, and may each of us be able to realize the sea of stars in our hearts!
The social animals said that they were very in place, very empathetic; very excellent, very amazing.
Finally there is a drama, all the normal people.
Everyone has reasonable motivations and behavioral logic, none of them seem to be paranoid psychosis that needs to be hospitalized, and no bridge section makes me embarrassed and wants to cut the soles of my feet.
But today, what I want to talk about is Yu Tu's ex-girlfriend, Xia Qing.
Although Miss Jin Chen has only appeared a few times, the character image is portrayed very well.
She perfectly demonstrated how to arrogantly push a man farther away from The Divine Manipulation.
Every step she takes, she has stepped on the minefield of effortlessly and saved her ex-boyfriend.......
Xia Qing, such an excellent girl, why can't she get the way?
Does she have any love for The Way?
How did she push the road step by step?
(1) How to successfully push away the ex-boyfriend, Xia Qing made a "perfect" demonstration
Her first appearance was in a café, where she met her long-broken-up ex-boyfriend on the way.
Before Yu Tu entered the door, she deliberately sorted out her hair;
After YuTu sat down, she unnaturally sipped her lipstick again.
Subconsciously, she cherished her impression in the mind of the way, or wanted to consolidate the beautiful image.
There was no way, who let Yu Tu, it has always been her intention to be unhappy after reading a thousand sails.
She secretly and proudly hoped that she would be of equal status in her heart.
At this moment, Yu Tu also maintained the same polite nod of greeting.
The corners of Yang Yang's mouth also pulled out a smile, although the traces of this smile were almost nothing.
When seated, Yutu behaved very naturally and frankly.
He smiled and greeted him like an old friend: Come on a business trip?
In fact, I picked up my words and said that I came to Shanghai for a business trip, and it was a good excuse to visit my old friends by the way.
In this way, the two people start from friends, polite greetings, everyone has a suitable psychological distance, and they can attack and retreat.
Xia Qing directly put a big move, bluntly saying that he was actually on a business trip in Hangzhou.
You know, I came to Shanghai for you.
Everyone knows that the deceased who has not been seen for many years should not easily enlarge the move when they first meet, because you still can't figure out what the other party's bottom card is, and rushing to play the card will only increase embarrassment.
Yu Tu did not answer the phone.
I couldn't pick up on this, and I wasn't mentally prepared at all.
Everything is wrong, and you can only be silent.
If at this time, both people can fall into collective silence, maybe silence can also awaken the memory of the past, evoking a trace of old feelings or something.
But Xia Qing couldn't resist the impulse and directly questioned him why he wanted to leave.
Why is it that everyone who leaves is an adult, who is not like Spiegel in his heart, and it is not okay to save some face from each other.
If you are scattered, you can't get together?
I had to force my head to admit that the choice was a mistake?!
Alas, YuTu's heart was full of frustration with compromise with reality, and self-punishment and exile that betrayed ideals.
Otherwise, during this time, he will not use the game to escape reality, nor will he feel the dilemma when choosing.
Hearing Xia Qing's words, Yu Tu's face was very ugly, as always silent, his expression became more and more unnatural, and he kept fiddling with the cup in his hand.
It implied that he was nervous and uneasy in his heart, and he wanted to get up and leave, but he had to take into account the grace and restraint.
I have come to the appointment in consideration of the friendship of the past; I have not come to listen to your questioning and coercion.
Xia Qing added fuel to the fire and sneered, "I would like you to persevere, otherwise it will appear that I have no place in your heart, it turns out that you are not impossible to give up, but I am not worth it." ”
She sprinkled another handful of salt on someone else's wound perfectly.
Girls are accustomed to revealing the resentment in their hearts, I hurt, you and I hurt well together, as if poking each other can heal the wounds in their hearts.
It can be seen that at that time, Yu Tu promised to break up, and promised to be too happy to really stimulate her.
He actually agreed directly, without the slightest retention!!!
But what's the use of you poking someone else in the pain?
Their own wounds still can't get better, but they push others farther and farther away.
Yu Tu's expression was already very restrained, and he still said calmly, "Before you were with me, you knew that I was preparing for the examination in the direction of aerospace."
The translation is that when you chase me, you know who I am, why I chased it, and complained that I was such a person.
In other words, I directly took out the final words of the second meeting to end the battle, "We haven't been in touch for a long time, why should you?" "It doesn't matter if gentlemanly or not.
And there is a fatal problem in the dialogue between them, that is, Xia Qing has been asking herself and answering herself, talking to herself.
The starting point of each of her sentences seems to be very concerned about the male protagonist on the surface, in fact, the foothold of each problem is self-pity, always pulling the topic to herself at the end.
There's nothing wrong with self-pity, just getting the wrong person.
If you've managed to salvage yudo and he's already your boyfriend, self-pity is no problem.
But now just a familiar stranger, what qualifications and position does Yutu have to listen to and respond to your complaints?
Perhaps YuTu's indifference stimulated her again.
Xia Qing began to curse again.
Especially not in the novel, the magic stroke in the TV series: if you need it, I can give you a free consultation.
No, what do you mean? What's coming?!
I am a good young man, don't say that the income is not low, since there are connections, even if you are poor and jingling, you are forced to consult helplessly, please take back the two words of free!
It is really insulting, if you really regard me as a friend, if you want to help directly, I will also accept your human feelings;
If you treat me as a customer, directly and generously say your charging standards, I will pay for it.
Why yin and yang weirdly emphasize "free consultation"!
Sure enough, it was directly rejected by Yu Tu.
Xia Qing did not figure out one thing, the circle of friends is a circle, there is no impermeable wall.
She knew that Yu Tu was going to go to the investment bank, so would the other students not know?
Are people spirit, people with ideas will not look at the wind and move, to send warmth to Yu Tu?
Xia Qing was on a business trip in Hangzhou and got the news from the Dragon King that yu was going to go to the investment bank.
Like everyone else, she clearly understands how popular It will be when Yutu steps out of the closed research institute and enters the financial circle.
It's just a comparison between the two, who is sincere, who is perfunctory at a glance, and it is not strange that the way is categorically rejected.
If you want to help the ex-boyfriend who has been thinking about it, there are ten thousand ways, why is it not good to speak well, you have to respond to people?
(2) Xia Qing is so good, why can't she get the way?
In fact, Xia Qing's conditions, compared to Qiao Jingjing, are unique.
First of all, Yu Tu, as a straight man with a capital letter that is not close to a woman, the appearance of this big killer is basically useless in his place, he was the one who refused Qiao Jingjing's confession; even Jingjing's application for the trumpet of the beautiful woman's head was not approved twice.
Secondly, Yu Tu really wanted to find a girlfriend who worked hard with him, and at that time he simply thought that he was as good as he was in his studies. He really hated Qiao Jingjing's poor academic performance.
He and Xia Qing have been preparing for the aerospace direction since their junior year, and he really thinks that Xia Qing understands him.
As a result, one thought she had accepted, one thought he could change. Later, no one changed anyone and parted ways.
Again, Yu Tu's friends have been constantly assisting over the years. They are all sorry for Yu Tu, after all, Xia Qing is objectively smart and beautiful, subjectively took the initiative to pursue, and it is a pity that she lost it in reason;
Zhai Liang even thought that Yu Tu had been single for so many years because he still remembered Xia Qing in his heart; after all, Xia Qing was also a goddess of many people (such as Qu Ming), otherwise he would not have been matched to pass on the news in the middle of many things.
Therefore, when Xia Qing traveled to Hangzhou on business, when the Dragon King told Xia Qing the news, he did not necessarily have the meaning of continuing to match.
Unfortunately, a good hand of cards is played poorly.
Because she is too arrogant, she must be compared in her feelings, and she is too clear and clear.
As a woman, less than a decade after graduation, MD is mixed, and her IQ, emotional intelligence, ambition and luck cannot be underestimated.
The process of investment banks achieving MD is very long, ranging from 10 years to 20 years or more.
Fresh graduates who have just entered the investment bank start from the junior analyst, and they also have to go through several stages of Associate, VP, and Director.
And Yu Tu is now changing careers, indeed as Qu Ming said, starting from the junior analyst, the salary and fresh graduates, Ren Wang gave him this position.
Everyone is a human spirit, friendship is one thing, interests are another; without gold fingers on the way, it is impossible to have miracles as soon as they come.
The gap between MD and junior analyst is too big, after all, she needs a realistic husband, not an ideal husband.
Yu Tu's silence made her hurt, I condescended to come to Shanghai to find you, you are so cold to me?!
Xia Qing definitely did not really want to help, but the emotional intelligence was too low and annoying, and judging from the information she replied to Qu Ming in the back, she was not unable to speak the scene.
She simply wants the diaphragm to respond to the way, and Qu Ming's connotation of the way is "you come out now, and the price of fresh graduates" is no different.
They are all the same kind of people who are shrouded in the shadow of the way.
The chat broke up unhappily, and everyone once again parted ways, turning around and leaving on the way, with cold eyes and no nostalgia.
Is Xia Qing cool? Cool.
She let out a long-buried grudge.
However, it completely destroyed her image in the heart of the male protagonist.
So much so that the second time she saw the video of Qiao Jingjing and Yu Tuda's game, it was too late to really save it.
Lang's heart was like iron, and Yu Tu really didn't even want to see him.
Echoing the shot where she first sorts her hair in a café, it's really ironic.
Her original intention was to successfully save Yutu without harming her own dignity and interests, and even let Yutu chase her backwards.
However, the second time they met, Yu Tu saw the message, directly did not bother to reply, and turned a blind eye.
If it weren't for the fact that she had waited for three hours at the café near his unit, from six to nine.
If it weren't for his politeness and wanting to make it clear, he would never have gone to the appointment.
This time Xia Qing took the initiative to compliment, Yu Tu's IQ is still suitable for scientific research, knocking on the side of the connotation of Qiao Jingjing...
Where else is there any goddess of self-esteem and pride to speak of?
This time she was stupid again.
She didn't know what had happened between Qiao Jingjing and Yu Tu during this time, and she overestimated her position in Tu's heart.
I don't know myself, I don't know the other, I am very unwise in myself, and I like to rush to take a shot, I really don't know what to say.
With her cleverness, she had been on time for the first time and had not been late; the second time she had waited longer and longer, she should have noticed it.
Sure enough, yutu completely exploded.
He said sorry in his mouth, but there was a cold look in her eyes, where there was the slightest apology.
Xia Qing suddenly understood that he was not apologizing at all, it was clear that she had just hinted that Qiao Jingjing might be in the right position, and he couldn't wait to fight back for her.
It turned out that he had never really loved her.
(3) Does Xia Qing really love Tutu? I don't think so
Seeing this, do you think Xia Qing loves the way?
Do you really love someone and can't bear to sting him?
In their chat, whether it is a clear line or a subtext, Xia Qing always revolves around a money word.
Looking at Qiao Jingjing's poster, I stimulated Yu Tu to have good grades, but mixed badly.
About a commercial car, but also to connote the poverty of the male protagonist.
Yu Tu did not erupt, and indeed his cultivation was excellent.
Yu Tu is not without the ability to make money, but in his world view, money is not the first, and the sea of stars is his ultimate goal.
After graduating from undergraduate and taking so many offers, he could obviously have a lot of money opportunities, but he didn't.
Xia Qing and he have always emphasized money and money, did not find that it is chicken and duck talking, the opposite has been based on polite patience...
Yu Tu didn't tell her at this time, how did you become such a vulgar city servant?
I remember that you weren't like this before, and you really deserve her.
You may have experienced the beatings of society, and you know that each has its own difficulties. He just said lightly: Why do you have to ridicule me?
Xia Qing's girlhood is really fond of YuTu.
She had no reason not to like him, and when she saw him on stage to receive the award, there was light in his eyes and a smile on the corners of his mouth.
Among the many young girls who were infatuated with him in his youth, there was not only one Qiao Jingjing, but also her.
No way, who made him so good at that time.
The handsome is miserable, the good results are outrageous, the competitions are soft, and the basketball and football are all kinds of good.
But now Yu Tu is not so good, even mixed up, itself is not equal, how can you talk without condescending arrogance.
Why is it that when she first met, she was not afraid of arrogance and self-sufficiency, and the second time she was obsessed with ghosts and waited for the soul to be guarded.
Because although she despised Qiao Jingjing, she subconsciously had to admit that Qiao Jingjing was now stronger than her.
Xia Qing is very strong, a person who mixes better than you frequently favors something, although it may be that you have given up, but you must be curious about where this thing is good, and you want to take it for yourself again.
She can't wait to save yutu, not because she loves him, but because Qiao Jingjing, who is at the top of society, has a crush on him.
For Qiao Jingjing, Xia Qing has always had a delicate emotion.
In junior high school, she was the real proud daughter of heaven, the smartest and most beautiful, but in high school, Qiao Jingjing was even more beautiful than her, and she was also popular.
Qiao Jingjing's grades were much worse than her own, and she could feel at ease and boldly despise them. The male god she likes is her boyfriend, and there is nothing more satisfying than that.
At that time, in addition to the joy of her long-cherished wish, she also doubled her happiness when she remembered Qiao Jingjing, who had failed to confess.
At that time, she easily gave up YuTu because the loser Qiao Jingjing was already dispensable in her eyes.
But why, one day, a person you originally despised suddenly earned more than you mixed better than you?
And she actually looked at a person that her subconscious mind could no longer look up to? Where is yutu?
If I win again at this time, won't I just beat Qiao Jingjing again? Prove once again that I am better than Qiao Jingjing?
I can quite understand her knot about the way, she is really similar to some kind of beautiful girl around me.
She may not like Yutu much, but she needs a Yutu to decorate the façade and prove her excellence.
From a realistic point of view, from the perspective of marriage gradient theory:
Ten years ago, the university was still a simple era in which rural and urban students were equally divided, there was no beauty up master online to teach you makeup, and when you saw a girl who would use facial cleanser, you would think she was very advanced.
In universities where the number of boys is much higher than that of female students, there is a group of simple women who has a clear water out of the hibiscus, and Xia Qing, who naturally carves, can imagine her popularity.
So that when she threatened to break up, she did not necessarily have the meaning of "afraid of anything, I can meet better".
The problem is precisely that after entering the society, her high level makes her have to achieve a career, work hard like a man, and strive to stand on a high place;
Her tutoring makes her, although she values money, she can never provide emotional value like an Internet celebrity;
Her arrogance and delicacy have raised her mate selection criteria too high, so that she will not like men who take the initiative to chase her and offer their courtesy.
She's going to have her thirtieth birthday.
But in that dream, the person who was as smart and excellent as Yu Tu and as successful as her did not appear.
epilogue
When Jingjing was deliberately trying to find a way to meet the surface of the road for the camp step by step, he pushed three blocks and four obstacles and really had no choice but to agree.
And Xia Qing made her first appointment to meet after many years, and Yu Tu went directly. If you can still take a little initiative if you talk well, the result is that the output of a riot operation is as fierce as a tiger, and I am stunned and sad to see it.
If she does not use the breakup as a threat, supports the ideal of the male protagonist, and has a sense of responsibility in the way, no matter how amazing he meets later, he will not easily give up on Xia Qing.
Not to mention that there are not so many girls who can make him appreciate, after all, not every boy chooses a partner to look at the face, and sometimes the brains of the equal opponents are more amazing.
Unfortunately, there are no ifs in life.
So, the girl has nothing to do.