Recently revisited "You Are My Glory", Yu Tu and Qiao Jingjing's body, but also let me see the changes and growth that love brings to a person.
For Qiao Jingjing, love is her motivation, in order to make herself worthy of the person she loves, she strives to make herself better and more worthy of being loved. And Yu Tu is the one who has been changed by love. He was smart, he was self-sufficient, but after falling in love with Qiao Jingjing, he seemed to have become very silly and stupid.
When Yu Tu first had a good feeling for Qiao Jingjing, he considered many practical problems, so he evaded, and he tried to restrain this emotion. However, as this love becomes more and more intense, he also becomes more and more unable to control this impulse in his heart, this urgency to see the other party, as he himself said: "Am I iq already reduced to zero."
A man will describe himself in this way, and only when he encounters love.
Therefore, women should understand that whether a man has a good feeling for you is uncontrollable. Even if he hadn't told you directly, his actions would have revealed his thoughts.
In the body of the road, we can see that when a man has a good feeling for a woman, these performances often appear, and it cannot be wrong.
01 You will often lose your mind, become less like yourself, and be willing to do something for you that makes you happy.
Before meeting Qiao Jingjing, everyone around me felt that YuTu was an insulator. Although he is handsome and intelligent, he rarely has friends of the opposite sex around him. Even if you have been in love once before, the appearance of your girlfriend is the same as if you have never been in love.
However, after meeting Qiao Jingjing, Yu Tu was willing to spend a lot of his time and never cried tired. Whatever Qiao Jingjing asked, he would gladly accept. Although Yu Tu had not yet realized his thoughts at that time, it was obvious that Yu Tu soon had a good feeling for Qiao Jingjing.
Stendhal said, "Love is like a high fever, and it comes and goes without the will." ”
After men fall in love with a woman, although they can't detect the liking in time, they often want to act before their consciousness. They can't help but care for women and do things that make women happy. They are willing to do these involuntary actions, and at the same time they will reap happiness from them.
02 Willing to spend time with you, cherish the time with you.
Time is a very important thing for men. If they don't like a woman in their hearts, they won't be willing to spend their time on a woman. Even if they are idle at times, they would rather relax on their own and play games to spend time rather than spending time on others.
When a woman lives in their hearts, everything becomes different. They will always think about this woman they like, they will care about her joys and sorrows, and they will care about her life. The more obvious this feeling is, the more complicated the man's emotions will be. They will think about how to win the favor of women, and at the same time worry that they are not brave enough, whether they will be taken by others.
Men think like this, and naturally spend a lot of time to understand women and accompany women. As long as I have time, I will spend it on women. This kind of behavior is uncontrollable, and they are not willing to control it at all.
This feeling, as Jo Ford said, "Love is the tyrant of the heart; it makes the intellect unclear and the judgment unclear; it does not heed advice, and it runs straight in the direction of madness." ”
03 For your sake, he will take the initiative to maintain a very safe rejection with other members of the opposite sex.
An Yiru has such a sentence in "If Life Is Only like the First Sight": "Words are meeting the right person in the right place, looking up at the heart, and the heart blossoms in an instant, just like a woman under the peach tree, she does not expect to meet anything, but she meets love between her hands." ”
Falling in love with someone is a wonderful feeling that constantly leads us to get closer to each other and do something unusual for each other. There may be some things that even we ourselves find incredible, but love is so incredible and unpredictable.
After a man meets a person he likes, he can only pretend to be this one woman in his heart, and he will only care about the feelings of this one woman. Even if there are other opposite sexes around, men will only think about the woman they like, so they will take the initiative to maintain a safe distance from other opposite sexes to avoid some unnecessary trouble.
Men have a good feeling for a woman, and only by doing so can they make the other party feel that he is different from her, feel his singleness, so that they can attract each other and cherish each other. As Sanmao said: "I believe that people who really care about me will not be robbed by others, whether it is friendship or love." ”
Women should understand that if a man has a good feeling for you, this good feeling will have a great power to make men unconsciously appear these performances.
Women want to be clear about a man's mind, do not have to test too much, or temptation, as long as quietly observe, to feel, naturally understand his mind.