We all know that it is easy to fall in love with someone blindly impulsive, even if you try to restrain this feeling, but in the end, the more restrained, the easier it is to be impulsive.
Just like in the TV series "Why Sheng ZhenMo", He Yichen thought that Zhao Mosheng had left him, so when he met again seven years later, he showed a very calm and indifferent look. He thought that if he behaved like this, he would make Zhao Mosheng feel that he didn't love her anymore, and he could still live well without her.
However, this calm did not last too long at all, and soon, He Yichen admitted that he had lost, and he had lost very thoroughly. In love and face, he finally went against his own will and chose love.
It can be seen that when we meet a love, we can't pretend that nothing has happened. What we can do is to keep ourselves in the best state to meet it, to have it.
When women encounter love, they tend to be more blind and impulsive than men, as Zhu Yaoxie said: "In terms of love, women may be very strong or they may be very cowardly." Either she loves others or accepts the love of others, and once she is in love, she will be willing to obey if she is ordered to drill into the fire. ”
This is why women tend to be more reserved and passive before falling in love, and they will try to maintain their posture. But after determining the love relationship, the woman will want to keep this love, so as to pay a lot for the man, and all the thoughts in her heart will be completely frank.
It's just that in love, the more honest a woman is, the more she can't keep a man's heart.
Joe Byron said, "Joy and pain in love alternate. ”
If a woman wants to be happy in love, don't be too relaxed about love, and don't show everything in front of your other half. When meeting a man she likes, a woman can pay her sincerity, but at the same time, she must understand that since you want to keep a man's heart, you must have some "means" of love.
In a happy love, a woman is not to do her best to completely dedicate herself. Instead, you must know how to use some strategies to make yourself more comfortable. Only in this way will the happiness and happiness that love brings you will be greater than those pains and disappointments.
Women who are too honest will appear transparent in front of men and have no charm of their own.
I still remember watching "You Are My Glory", I especially liked the love between Qiao Jingjing and Yu Tu, both of whom had their own personalities and were also adapting to each other's personalities. Although Qiao Jingjing likes Yutu for more than ten years and has also taken the initiative to confess twice, in the subsequent relationship between the two people, Qiao Jingjing did not put herself in a humble or weak position.
On the contrary, she still maintains her personality, is particularly naughty, and always maintains a very honest state. The love we want must be the kind of love that is interesting at the beginning, full of freshness and passion. If the state of love at the beginning is particularly boring, it is difficult for people to feel the attraction of this love.
Women should know that if you have been in a particularly honest state, men will only feel that you are very boring, and they do not need him to spend time guessing and pleasing you. In the end, as Dora said, "Life is terrible and ugly." When two people are indeed together, love will turn from honey to chewing gum, the more chewed the lighter, faded to the later it is astringent and bitter, can't help but you not spit it out. ”
Once a woman makes a man accustomed to such a state, she loses her charm, and how can she retain a man's heart?
Of course, women's dishonesty doesn't mean lying to men all the time. But women must know how to maintain a mysterious state, to learn to keep their secrets, and many things must leave some space for each other.
Just like Qiao Jingjing is in love, she will create some plots to let Yu Tu feel this mystery. Some things don't have to be fully stated either, just give the man some hints. If a man truly loves you, he will naturally get used to this state of yours and know how to guess your thoughts, rather than just waiting for you to directly express your intentions.
If a woman doesn't know how to keep herself mysterious, it will make the man feel that he knows you completely. And such a you, what you want, how you want him to treat you, you need to express it directly. Men get used to your honesty and naturally become lazy.
In love, many habits, once formed, are very scary. It is a difficult thing to change again, and in the end, it is necessary to bear this disappointment and sadness yourself.
Addison also said: "Lovers' secrets should not be made to explore all of them." ”
Women should not be too honest, and do not let their secrets be completely explored by men. Once love becomes like this, women will really become very passive.
Women's dishonesty is not to lie to men, nor to maintain a hypocritical personality, but to know how to guard their hearts and keep some of their secrets. Otherwise, men will not love you again after they know you thoroughly.