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01. Preface
Marie Curie said: "The only true happiness in the world is that a family can work closely with each other." ”
Home is the warmest and most comfortable harbor, is the secret place where the two people's hearts inhabit, here, whether the two people have the resonance of the soul and the tacit understanding of the mind, can be seen at a glance.
The temperature of the home is the temperature of the feelings between husband and wife.
At home, if the husband and wife lack interaction, have no sense of dependence on each other, and do not even want to say a word, then it can only be said that this is just an empty house, which cannot be called "home".
The atmosphere in the home can reflect whether the husband and wife love each other and whether they understand and take care of each other.
If two people at home can do housework together, talk and laugh, and have a joyful atmosphere, it is happy.
A warm family is run by two people working hard together.
02, the atmosphere of home, see the depth of the husband and wife's feelings
After returning home, the tone of the two people's speech, the atmosphere of the family, can see whether they are in love with each other.
When Nan Jianlong and Cai Juying in the TV series "Little Shede" were at home, Nan Jianlong always hated Cai Juying's nagging and did not want to listen to her.
Every time Cai Juying came back from shopping for vegetables, she would show the bill to Nan Jianlong.
Nan Jianlong said why bother, but seeing Cai Juying walking away, he still took out a magnifying glass to look carefully one by one. He still has an element of distrust of Cai Juying in it.
Cai Juying and Nan Jianlong's ex-wife quarreled, and after returning, Nan Jianlong coaxed her, also in order to live a peaceful life. Although the words he said sounded good, they were not distracting.
The atmosphere in Cai Juying and Nan Jianlong's home is very calm, and it is more the tranquility that Cai Juying has exchanged through accommodation.
The atmosphere at home can reflect the feelings of two people from the details of getting along, and they can see what kind of feelings they have for each other. Between each other, is not mutual trust, is not dependent on each other.
The atmosphere in the home is happy, joyful, and happy, and often the husband and wife get along more easily and comfortably.
The laughter and disturbance of the two people is the fireworks in the life of chai rice oil and salt.
The deeper the feelings between husband and wife, the better the atmosphere in the home.
03, after returning home, the response of the lover can see your status
When I go home, some people feel warm, as if they are rushing to one happiness after another; when they go home, some people feel uncomfortable, like rushing to the place of prison.
A person, whether he loves to go home or not, can reflect the degree of harmony of the husband and wife's feelings.
There is a clip in "Why Sheng Zhen Mo", after He Yichen and Zhao Mosheng registered for marriage, He Yichen went on a business trip.
After the business trip, he seized the time to finish his work and rushed back overnight, just wanting to go home early and see his wife Zhao Mosheng earlier.
Back at home, seeing his wife lying alone on the bed, he gently walked over to help her cover the quilt and did not wake her up. He looked at each other tenderly and felt an inexplicable sense of solidity in his heart.
No matter what kind of socializing, He Yichen can always push and push, saying that the wife at home is tightly controlled.
In fact, He Yichen just didn't want to waste his time home because of low-quality social networking, he wanted to free up more time to spend with his wife. Because he loved him, he liked the taste of home.
True love for a person, will be anxious to go home, like simple three meals a day, like to go home to accompany the lover to eat. I hope to see her when I get home. Let's go down to the kitchen and cook her a dish that she loves most.
George Bernard Shaw said: "Home is the only place in the world where human flaws and failures are hidden, and it also hides sweet love." ”
Loving someone will give each other gentle feedback, and tell each other with practical actions that I like to be with you, and only with you will every day be vivid and interesting.
When you get home, the more your lover loves you, the more gentle your response will be, because you have a very high status in her heart.
04, after returning home, you can see whether each other is true love
The interaction at home can reflect whether the husband and wife are happy to get along.
Two people together, whether in good times or bad times, can help each other, share each other, understand each other, is true love.
Sanmao said, "Home, for everyone, is a fountain of joy!" No matter how bitter it is, it is warm, and even when the slave has a home, he does not feel that he is too pitiful. ”
Husband and wife are true love and like to be together. Go to the supermarket together, buy groceries and cook, one takes care of the children, and the other takes care of the other chores at home.
There is a tacit understanding between husband and wife, there is no need to wait for each other to make demands, always can support each other's life, so that each other's life is more comfortable.
No matter what happens, the other party will give help and advice, and can complete things more completely under the reminder of the other party.
The more two people love each other, the more interactions at home will make each other feel warm.
No matter which side has a problem in life, the other party can stand up without hesitation and use the wisdom and strength of two people to solve the problem.
Regardless of whether the family is difficult or smooth, two people who love each other will hold each other's hands, give each other love and warmth, and go down together.
05. Summary
On the road of life, whether the husband and wife are true love or not, you can see it when you go home.
Emerson said, "Home is the kingdom of the father, the world of the mother, the paradise of the child." ”
Husbands and wives get along, in the occasion of outsiders, may pretend to be very loving in order to maintain face. But at home, when there are only two people, it's easy to see what real feelings really look like.
If there is true love between husband and wife, there must be laughter, care, and warmth in the family. There are endless words between the two people, and the child's face is also a happy smile.
If it is true love between husband and wife, they will resist risks together and build a home together.
If it is true love between husband and wife, the two people will have an answer and go hand in hand.
Even if the days are difficult and encounter the bitterness of coffee, the love between husband and wife will be like a sugar cube, making the years mellow and sweet.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.