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01. Preface
There is such a sentence in the "History": "The world is bustling, all for the benefit of the world, the world is bustling, all are for the benefit of the future." ”
Everyone wants a better material life and doesn't want to live at the bottom of society all the time. I hope that I have enough financial conditions to support my desire to live a better life.
However, many people are always unable to become strong, and for decades, they still cannot change their fate, and they still struggle in poverty and hardship. If a person is poor and accustomed, he will have no confidence, no calmness and self-confidence.
A man, always poor, must have a reason.
Poor people are not hard enough, they do everything shallowly, they always have too many worries in their hearts, and they hesitate at the starting line.
For example: doing business is afraid of losing money, making hard money is afraid of losing face, and when it comes to going, it is reluctant to go out of the comfort zone.
Poor people sometimes want to spell out a new world, but they don't know enough, and choosing a wrong path is even worse.
A person is very poor, and there will be "traces" on his body that cannot be hidden.
02, long-term poor people, often do not work hard themselves
A person who is poor for a while may be unlucky.
However, if a person is poor for half a lifetime, or poor for a lifetime, it is often because he does not work hard enough, so he will always be poor.
In "Children of the Joe Family", Qiao Yicheng is the eldest child, and he shoulders the responsibility of taking care of his younger siblings.
At home, he does the most work and gets the worst resources. But with his own efforts, he has a good job and earns the most money.
And Qiao Erqiang, obsessed with watching TV, and a bunch of little brothers all day long, people grow up without understanding.
He obeyed his family's arrangement and went to the factory, but he did not work hard and his career did not improve.
Later, he felt that he should live a down-to-earth life, learned to cook, opened his own shop, and his life improved slightly.
People who don't work hard don't make money.
If a person's starting point is relatively low, he must work harder. When the starting point is low, don't be afraid of hardship, endure loneliness, and pay more than others.
On the road of life, only by working hard to struggle, there will be an echo. Staying where you are, not believing in yourself, not willing to try, will never become a rich person.
03, can't keep money, used to squandering money
A person who becomes rich needs to save money.
Shakespeare said, "Money is a good soldier, and with it one can make one more courageous." ”
There are crises everywhere in life, and money is the best weapon to solve them. If you can make good use of the money in your hands, you can make your life better and better.
However, there are many people who do not cherish the resources they have in their hands, but value fame and fortune more, value their image in the eyes of others, and always spend money recklessly where it is not worth it.
If a person is poor in the spiritual world, it is easy to fill the emptiness in his heart with money. Moreover, it is easy to make fox friends, in exchange for false praise and praise.
A person is very poor, often has the habit of high consumption, is accustomed to squandering money, and cannot keep the money in his hand.
If you want to really live a rich life, you must change from yourself, learn to save money, and let money make money.
People who are really rich know how to keep their money. Because, people with savings will have confidence and self-confidence. When the opportunity comes, it will not be let go of it in vain because there is no principal.
Only by not squandering money can we continue to grow our strength.
Take a longer-term view and use money as the best weapon to achieve a better self.
04, the direction of effort is not right
On the road of life, if a person's direction is wrong, no matter how hard you work, it is also a bamboo basket to hit the water.
Many people think that the path they take must be the right one. After holding on for a while, I felt that it was a pity to give up. Even if you know that the prospects are not very good, you are not willing to adjust your direction in time.
There is a word in psychology called "path dependence", which means: "Once a person starts to walk forward for a long time, he wants to go all the way, whether it is right or wrong." ”
Caught in the strange circle of "path dependence", people's lives will often become limited.
Because, do not dare to give up, do not dare to innovate, do not bother to try a new project. Keeping your old ideas will slowly become poorer and poorer.
A person has been poor, it is possible that the direction is chosen wrong, so no matter how hard you try, you can't make more money.
People, we must find the direction of their own efforts, if there is a deviation, we must have the courage to correct. Especially if you know that the direction is wrong, but you don't change, your life will go downhill.
In another direction, you may start from scratch, or you may encounter more twists and turns and sufferings, but all efforts will become gifts for the future and will make your life treasures.
05. Summary
On the road of life, don't complain, try to change your life.
"The World Without Complaining" writes: "If you stop complaining in your daily life, you can make anyone successful." ”
Don't always complain that you don't have a good background, but think about how you have to do it to change your destiny. If a person does not have a self-motivated heart and does not have the spirit of hard-working and hard-working, no matter how good his mind is, it is useless.
Make a little money, don't squander it, don't rush to enjoy life, but have a precautionary mind and a clearer plan for the future.
Saving some money to deal with a crisis can also be used as a ladder to climb higher on your own.
If you want to become rich, you must first learn to find the direction of your efforts. Don't keep going down the wrong path because you care about your input costs.
On the road of life, allow yourself to trial and error, and constantly adjust your rhythm, you will definitely be able to usher in a new situation.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.