This article is written for the post-70s generation who are getting older

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01. Preface

Life, but only a few decades. Busy life, time flies by, before it is time to wave, youth is like an arrow galloping away.

Say goodbye to the ignorance of youth and understand how to face life. In the blink of an eye, people reach middle age and understand that the years are not sparing.

Plato said, "The first wealth is health, the second wealth is beauty, and the third wealth is possession." ”

After the 70s who are getting older, they recall the past, there is a lot of warmth and happiness, and there is also the loneliness and pain of a person walking on a single wooden bridge, who has experienced great winds and waves, and has protected too many people.

When people get old, they finally understand that for the rest of their lives, they must learn to treat themselves well.

After the 70s, this generation has experienced too much suffering.

Although poor, he is still willing to use his hands to create a better future. Although he has suffered hardships, he is still willing to dedicate and use a fiery heart to meet a better tomorrow.

Although there will be a lot of bitterness in the heart, I am still willing to look down on the gains and losses.

The post-70s generation, which is gradually aging, is a simple generation. No matter how much suffering they have experienced, they still have a good heart and live a good life of rice, oil and salt in front of them.

02, taste the hardships of life, do not treat yourself badly

Life is alive, a lifetime, very short, and in the blink of an eye will enter the life of old age.

When I was young, I was always on the road to struggle for a living, for a meal and a meal. I feel that only by making more money can I make my family no longer suffer.

The post-70s generation is a generation that loves family and has a sense of responsibility.

Experienced ridicule and insults, experienced failure after failure, struggled under various blows, hovered on the edge of pain, gritted teeth, and kept moving forward.

Even if you are scarred, you are not willing to give up.

Along the way, just to make life better for the family. The happy smiles on the faces of the family are also increasing, but they often have back pain, and the corners of their eyes and eyebrows have quietly climbed up the wrinkles.

Even so, I still feel satisfied. Because, let the family live a solid and good life, is a manifestation of the value of life, but also the realization of the pursuit of life.

When people reach middle age, children grow up, and the generation after 70 should also take good care of themselves.

Spend some money on yourself and add some color to your later life. Take some time on yourself, do what you want to do most, and pamper yourself.

As the years get older, love yourself well, and still be able to live happily and lively.

03, you who are good to people everywhere, don't wronged yourself

After the 70s, it is a very simple generation.

The post-70s generation is not willing to calculate carefully, and is even more unwilling to fight with the people around them. Even if you suffer some losses and suffer some grievances, it doesn't matter.

Many times, with a slight smile, everything can go with the wind. Do things with a clear conscience, and face everyone with a tolerant and generous heart.

After the 70s, they are not willing to argue with others, let alone complain about life.

Willing to face all suffering with a calm mind, even if the world becomes a ruin, you can slowly clean up little by little. I believe that I can be reborn and transformed, and I can build a more beautiful world.

After the 70s, this generation may not have eaten the taste of mountains and seas, and there is no food and clothing, but even if they have money, they do not pursue luxury, but just hope to spend this life peacefully.

In life, hard work to make money, there is no too high demand, willing to use an optimistic and positive attitude, to face everything.

After the 70s, for the rest of your life, continue to maintain a kind heart, but don't easily let yourself be wronged. Kindness will be exchanged for blessings, but we must also learn to protect ourselves, follow our hearts, and treat the people around us.

04, life, look forward, set the right mentality

After 70, when you are old, please grow old gracefully. Life, no matter how much pressure, please correct your mindset and live well.

Jogilard said: I want to smile at the whole world, and when I smile, the whole world is smiling at me.

With a good mentality, you can maintain the vitality and vitality of young people, be enthusiastic about any kind of thing, and be able to actively participate in various activities, so that people can make life full of fun.

After the 70s, although you have tasted all kinds of sufferings in life, don't always sigh and sigh, and don't always immerse yourself in negative energy.

Even if you are no longer young and have a dull life, you must try to live your life with emotion.

Everyone can continue to satisfy themselves, give themselves a little reward every day, and let themselves feel a lot of happiness every day.

You don't always have to look at what you have lost, but you should think about what you can get.

List out some small wishes every day, and keep fulfilling them, and life will have a lot of fun and will be more and more exciting.

Growing old is also a very happy thing.

05. Summary

After the 70s, it is about to usher in the twilight of life, please adjust your mentality and live well.

Johnson said: "Seeing the good side of everything and developing a habit is really a treasure that cannot be changed." ”

People will grow old slowly, but don't worry in your heart, keep a good attitude, don't owe yourself, and live well.

When you have a good mindset, face the road ahead. No matter what choices you make, you can usher in a better life.

On the way to getting old, please be kind to yourself and stabilize your emotions.

Try to slowly free your hands, slow down the pace of life, re-plan, and focus all your attention on pleasing yourself, and you will reap more happiness.

The post-70s generation, after a lifetime of hard work, please let yourself slow down and welcome your old age.

Keep a warm heart and embrace the world. No matter what kind of encounter you have, don't give up on yourself. Even if life is mediocre, make your life better.

The post-70s generation, for the rest of your life, please take good care of yourself. Allow yourself to have a decent old age.

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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.