Don't panic, go with the flow, everything is arranged

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01. Preface

On the road of life, sometimes the wind and waves are calm, and sometimes the wind and rain are mixed. Sometimes they fall to the head and bleed, sometimes they need to fight alone, and sometimes they encounter warmth.

Balzac once said: "Life is not full of roses, but sometimes the thorns on the road sting you." ”

Sometimes I think about it, people are only tens of thousands of days in this life, what is the purpose of living? In the face of constantly appearing forks in life, in addition to survival, the most important thing is to learn to seek inner peace.

Everyone in the world will experience confusion, anxiety, and at the same time, maturity and aging.

Life is a labyrinth that will suddenly bring you the light of a bend when you are in a desperate situation, and it will suddenly add another wall to you when you are triumphant.

On the road of life, don't panic, you will be tired of running all the time. Slow down, even stop, what you should have will always come to you slowly.

02, in case of trouble, do not panic

In this world, everything will become the past.

No one dares to say that they can successfully complete this life, and the results of everything that happen have long been doomed. Whether it is good or bad, there are specific arrangements.

Maybe life is not as perfect as imagined, but imperfection will become a thing of the past, and everything is not as bad as imagined.

On the road of life, don't panic when things happen, you may be grumpy at the moment, with the erosion of time, those days that have not danced have become memory fragments, and gradually faded into oblivion.

Whether it's adversity or good times, live your life well.

Those who are lost in the trough, don't give up, don't be disappointed, don't worry, don't panic, learn to reconcile with yourself, and then try to run forward.

People, once they are too concerned about gains and losses, will amplify their emotions. Rushing to get results, anxious to see the rewards, will only make yourself anxious, panicked, and lose more beauty.

Life, need to continue, please maintain a good attitude, calmly face the gains and losses on the road of life.

03, go with the flow, is the best way to live

In life, ups and downs are actually the norm.

No matter how difficult it is, please do not panic, adjust your mentality, and go with the flow.

Baby Anne's Lotus says, "Later I learned that I had to accept the parts of my life that were destined to be mutilated and unattainable. Accept those things that are forbidden and cannot see the light. In this world, there are some unreachable places, people who can't get close, things that can't be done, feelings that can't be possessed, flaws that can't be repaired. ”

The essence of life is "suffering," and these sufferings are nothing more than dissatisfaction with the present state.

Nine times out of ten things are unsatisfactory in life, the best way to live is to go with the flow and accept the regrets and imperfections in life.

In the face of loss, in the face of regret, in the face of love and can not, please do not panic, adjust your mentality, live well.

In life, if things backfire, we must believe that heaven has other arrangements.

All the loss will come back in another way. All gains are also being lost in another way. Therefore, whether it is good times or bad times, don't pay too much attention to gains and losses, and go with the flow.

In the human world, if you maintain a natural way of living, your heart will not be tired, and your life will be simple.

04, accept the gift of life, everything is arranged

Life, there may be bad, there will be a sad side, but, do not panic, do not rush, with the heart to live the current life.

I once saw such a sentence in a book: "The white paper of life is all depicted by your own pen." Everyone fills in the file of the value of life with their own experiences. ”

Both good times and bad times are the wealth of life. The most important practice is to live a lifetime and learn to face everything that happens in life calmly.

Accept your own imperfections, accept the gifts of life, and all the pain in life comes from the obsession in your heart.

On the road of life, the fast runner may not reach first, and the fighter may not be able to win.

Once people are too eager for something, they often magnify their own efforts, it is difficult to endure small stumbles on the road, but they are prone to failure and are prone to more setbacks and tests.

People are fighting for mediocrity in life, poetry and distant places are ideals in the world, living a good life in the present with their hearts, precipitating their hearts, and living a sense of value.

Life is so long, everything is arranged, living without hesitation, it will always come.

05. Summary

On the road of life, don't panic, go with the flow, everything is arranged.

Kafka said: "Be calm and patient. You try to make bad things happen well. You don't dodge. Instead, watch carefully. You have to replace passive stimulation with active understanding. That way you'll deal with these things. ”

Instead of chafing at the past, suffering from the present, and worrying about the future, it is better to let go of uneasy emotions and live easily. Everything has been arranged in the dark, even if the world is difficult, we must maintain a passion in our hearts.

Live with your heart, the days are flat and long, and one day you will find that there can be light in ordinary life, and a faint sense of happiness surrounds you.

What kind of mentality you choose to live, life will give back to you in what way.

Life is a long journey, no matter whether it is cloudy or sunny, you can't miss the scenery along the way.

In the days to come, with the encounter, I believe that everything is arranged, what we need to do is to strengthen the heart, precipitate the self, live with the heart, and let the rest go with the flow, handing over to the years.

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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.