Many people do not succeed because they are entangled in the problem itself and forget the fundamental goal of life.
The reason why many companies do not continue to succeed is often because they are entangled in management issues or strategies themselves, and forget the fundamental goals of the enterprise.
Height is the greatest wisdom, wisdom is a realm, and the realm is also a height that can penetrate all kinds of small tricks.
A person who is not high enough, then, it is easy to get entangled in the problem itself. Why are so many people not succeeding? It is because they are entangled in the problem itself and forget their fundamental goal.
As long as you stand at a certain height, you can easily see the essence of the problem.
When you stand low, you often see problems, and when you face countless problems, you will be irritable, even complain, and you will feel that the world is full of injustice.
If you can stand on the overall height of human society, you will find that the world is much better than we think, which is called: there is nothing in the world, and the mediocre disturb themselves.
Too many people in this world have neither the patience to sharpen the knife, nor know where the knife is going to be cut, only know that the fiery slash is chaotic, and they always do something efficient, but there is no effect.
A lot of people are busy making money all day, busy meetings, busy socializing, busy dating, busy chatting, so do you know why you're busy?
Many people work hard all their lives, but they have not succeeded, and this is because of the problems with his "knowledge".
Most people, under the guidance of "problem knowing", embark on a "problem path", which eventually leads to a "problem life".
People who do great things are actually particularly pragmatic. He can seize all opportunities, has the ability to judge the situation, and has the character to withstand loneliness.
What kind of person you want to become, then what kind of difficulties and resistance will occur accordingly! The so-called pressure is actually the lack of one's own ability; the so-called difficulty is actually the lack of one's own ability.
1, mentality determines life
A philosopher once said, "Your mind is your master." ”
In real life, we can't control our own encounters, but we can control our own mentality; we can't change others, but we can change ourselves.
In fact, there is not much difference between people, the real difference is in the mentality.
Therefore, if a person wants to succeed, it mainly depends on his mentality. There are many people in this world who struggle in adversity because they have a good mentality and a strong heart.
2, have self-confidence to win
A big reason why many people fail is not because of incompetence, but because they are not confident.
Self-confidence is a strength, but also a motivation.
When you are not confident, it is difficult for you to do things well, the problems will be one after another, and you feel that you can't do anything well, then you will be even more unconfident.
It's a vicious circle.
If you want to get out of this vicious circle, you have to fight failure, you have to build strong self-confidence.
3, the heart is not as good as action
We have to be clear that life doesn't pay you for what you want to do, nor does it pay you for what you know, but because you do something.
Only if you pay, can you wait for the corresponding value return, which must be exchanged equally.
A person's goal starts from a dream, a person's happiness is grasped from the mentality, and a person's success is achieved in action.
Because only by acting can you earn back the food and spring water that nourishes your success.
4, angry is not as good as fighting
Life cannot be smooth sailing, there will be successes, there will be failures; there will be happiness, there will also be losses.
Everyone's life will have good times and adversities, life has peaks and lows, it can't always be good times, and it can't always be adversity.
Don't be arrogant because of favorable circumstances or peaks, and don't be discouraged because of adversity or lows.
If you blindly complain and get angry when you encounter setbacks, then you are doomed to be a weak person forever. In fact, most of life is a failure, but as long as you seize an opportunity, you may succeed.
5) Tolerance is a kind of wisdom
We often say take a step back from the sea and the sky, let the heart be calm. That is to say, there is a need for tolerance between people.
As long as it doesn't involve the bottom line of principles, and someone else comes to your trouble, you'd rather take a step back and things may settle out quickly. And if you take one step before, you may bleed five steps.
We should make big things small and small things small. Don't spend time and energy on these small things, besides, to be tolerant of others is to be tolerant of yourself.
6, do not take setbacks as failures
Everyone's life will inevitably suffer setbacks and failures, the difference is that the loser always treats setbacks as failures, so that each setback can deeply hit his courage to win.
Successful people never say defeat, in the face of repeated setbacks, always say to themselves: "I am not a failure, but not yet successful." ”
A person who loses temporarily, if he continues to work hard and intends to win back, then his loss today is not a real failure. On the contrary, if he loses the courage to fight again, he really loses.
7. Avoid worrying into heart disease
People who are troubled in real life are not actually suffering too much misfortune, but are rooted in the inner world of troublemakers.
Therefore, when troubles come, we should neither complain about others, nor should we give up on ourselves, but we should learn to loosen the shackles of the mind, adjust ourselves psychologically, and avoid the troubles from becoming heart diseases.
8, happiness is actually very simple
A knowing smile, a sincere handshake, a heartfelt conversation, is something very happy.
All wealth, fame, and status are external appearances, and mentality is the fundamental. Ma Yun is not successful now, he succeeded decades ago because he has a good mentality.
Many bosses do not succeed when they enter the gold every day, but the mentality at the beginning determines that he is already a successful person.
Final message
All the problems in life are solved by success, all the success in life is solved by growth, and all the growth in life is solved by learning.
To learn is to learn from the excellence of others and learn from your own strengths. You can't grow without learning excellence, and you can't stand on your feet without learning your advantages.
Those who want to succeed have no excuses. Everyone is very busy, so why is it that others are still growing?
Because growth is a habit. Your habits have produced today's results, and if you do not step out of your circle of comfort, you will never be able to catch up with this era!
It is not your ability that determines your destiny. It's your decision that changes your destiny.
Thinking is the problem, doing is the answer. Standing still, always the audience!
Success is the best practice, and success cannot be faked!
There is no one in this world who can embody a person's ambition, ability, quality and cognitive energy more than success!
Everyone aspires to success, and they all yearn to be surrounded by flowers and applause. But the road to success scares many people. If I don't have the determination and courage to do a good job and must succeed, then I am doomed to not be outstanding!
If you want to succeed, you must practice these four abilities.
Self-discipline; manage your time, do what matters most, and meet the people who matter most!
Self-healing; those who have achieved great suffering are all great tribulations, and they can heal their wounds in order to accept greater challenges.
Spontaneous combustion; no matter how tired and frustrated, as long as it appears in front of the public, it is immediately full of passion and radiance.
Self-knowledge; be humble and do things kindly. The pattern is large and the sense of responsibility is strong.
This is an era of walking the heart, the real routine is that there is no routine, only the true heart can change the heart! There are talents in the Jiangshan generation, why are you, why are they not you.
When a farmer does not work hard to cultivate, but only wants to rely on the sky to eat, he may not have a harvest;
When a boss doesn't try to get money from the market, but just wants to attract investment, he risks bankruptcy;
When a person does not work hard, but only wants to opportunistically, it is impossible to gain fame and status.
This is: although the rain is great, it does not moisten the grass without roots, and the Dharma is boundless, and only those who have a fate are crossed!
This article is excerpted from: Yu Dao said that the business public number!