Wen | Qingxu (Author of Fushu)
For the rest of your life, may you and I be able to live a better life in the vagaries of the world, without laziness or panic.
Read a sentence:
"A great life is never about getting a good hand, but about how to play every card in your hand."
Life is impermanent, and you never know what will happen in the next moment.
In the face of different situations, only by responding flexibly and stabilizing ourselves can we go forward steadily and steadily.
The best state of adults is: not lazy in good times, not discouraged in times of adversity, and not panicked when desperate.
When things are good, don't be lazy
Netizen @Orange shared a story.
She has a friend who seized the outlet of live streaming a few years ago and once earned hundreds of thousands of dollars a month.
She thought that her friend would rely on the money earned in the past few years to directly open the lying flat mode.
Until one day, she talked to her friends about this matter, and she knew that the most taboo thing about doing this line of work was to lie flat.
At the beginning, my friend also held the idea of "making enough money to lie flat", thinking that having money can be done once and for all.
But friends gradually found that the competition for live streaming with goods is extremely fierce, as long as the broadcast is stopped for one day, the traffic will immediately decline, and the money in hand will be greatly reduced.
Moreover, the money will always be spent, and when the money is gone and the traffic is gone, where should we go to earn it?
Therefore, even if you taste the sweetness brought by live broadcasting, friends do not dare to slack off at all.
In order to increase the stickiness of fans, she spends a lot of energy every day to study how to interact with fans;
In order to attract more fans, she painstakingly studies the characteristics of the products she carries every day;
In order to make the live broadcast screen clearer, she painstakingly studied various shooting angles, as well as various types of shooting equipment on the market...
Later, after continuous efforts, her friend's monthly salary not only doubled several times, she even became the head anchor of a platform, gaining a large number of die-hard fans.
There is an old saying: "Life is diligent, and diligence is not poor." ”
People's life lies in diligence, even in a good situation, only those who are willing to work hard can get the favor of good luck and have a steady stream of resources.
Because success in good times is a skill, but it is more of a momentary luck.
Some people catch up with the opportunity, all the way smoothly, thinking that the rest of their lives are smooth, and then become unenterprising, delicious and lazy, and eventually go downhill;
And some people, even if the spring breeze is proud, can still hold their breath, polish their skills with their hearts, spur themselves on at all times, and become outstanding at the same time, but also move towards a broader future.
The writer Gibran also said: "Laziness can make you disconnect from time and make you step out of the ranks of life." ”
No matter how easy the road under your feet is, you must also be steady and steady, down-to-earth, in order to walk freely and smoothly on the long road of life, and live a radiant life.
In times of adversity, do not be discouraged
Zhang Guimei, who is known as the "most beautiful rural teacher", said this:
"Giving up and confessing is an endless 'downhill road'.
Remember that in any moment that you are not aware of, including now, the opportunity to change your destiny through action is always there. ”
Many people complain about the uneven fate, but in fact, they have lost hope in life.
Whether you are stuck in a difficult situation and arrogant, or use struggle and struggle to change a transformation, everything is in your hands.
There was such a young man, at the age of 14, who found himself walking with his legs and feet shaking.
His parents took him around for medical treatment, but they couldn't find out why.
At that time, he fell into endless anxiety and confusion.
In his freshman year of high school, in order to save himself, he made a major decision: he studied medicine on his own and found the cause of the disease himself.
Therefore, he turned anxiety into motivation, confusion into strength, buried his head in hard reading every day, and studied day and night.
In his junior year of high school, his condition became more serious, and even when he was writing, his hands would always tremble unceasingly.
But the disease still could not resist his will to study, and when he took the college entrance examination, he was successfully admitted to Nanjing Medical University with a good score of 645 points.
In college, his condition deteriorated.
It takes ten minutes to get dressed, an hour to walk to school, and when the state is at worst, it is impossible to walk, and it is up to classmates to carry it to and from class.
Despite this, he studied hard and traveled to major hospitals to find a glimmer of life.
Later, through genetic testing, he learned that he was suffering from adolescent Parkinson's disease.
Although this disease has not yet been cured, he is still optimistic, positive, and never succumbs to the arrangement of fate.
So he walked into the gym on crutches and insisted on exercising his muscles every day.
After a few months, he was able to run five kilometers in one go and do more than a dozen pull-ups.
Later, he even threw away his crutches and became a "muscular macho" who could walk normally.
His name is Qiu Huaide.
Tagore once said, "The suffering you suffer today, the losses you suffer, the responsibilities you bear, the sins you carry, and the pain you endure will eventually become light and illuminate your way." ”
At the trough, can you really only admit to fate and surrender to reality?
Qiu Huaide, who turned his life around and achieved a counterattack, told us: either die with fate or be beaten down by fate!
You know, there is no exhaustion of mountains and rivers, where the willows are dark and the flowers are bright; there is no end to the road, where to bottom out and rebound.
You just have to look far away, just lie silently, after the wind, frost, rain and snow, you will surely be reborn in nirvana, or the pole will come.
When desperate, don't panic
Su Xun said: "Tarzan collapses in front of the front and the color remains unchanged, the elk is happy on the left and the eyes are not fleeting, and then it can control the interests and harms, and it can wait for the enemy." ”
Even if you are in a desperate situation, you must be calm and self-assured, not in a hurry, in order to survive in a desperate situation and turn the danger into a disaster.
I've seen a news like this:
In a community in Ningde, Fujian Province, a house suddenly caught fire.
In the face of the ever-spreading fire, others have long been panicked and do not know how to be good.
However, the female owner of the house was unusually calm, immediately sorted out her thoughts, and turned off the power gate at the first time.
Then, quickly knock on the neighbor's door and ask him to help open the fire hydrant to extinguish the fire.
Immediately after, he raced against the clock to call 119 and the property.
A series of actions in one go, without delay, successfully won the golden time for rescue for themselves.
In the end, the female owner was not only unharmed, but even the fire was controlled in a very short time.
Seeing this, I can't help but have a sincere admiration for the female owners.
At a time of life and death, it is very rare to be able to maintain sanity, think clearly, and achieve self-help.
Life is full of variables, and natural and man-made disasters are more common.
When life is seriously threatened by disaster, the only thing we can do is to stabilize our mentality.
As the saying goes, water to the end is the scenery, and people to the desperate situation is rebirth.
In a desperate situation, the difficulty is not to find a way out, but in the case of seemingly no way out, still calm and calm, still striding forward.
The state is born from the heart, the state turns with the heart, if there is no lamp in the heart, there will be no road under the feet; if there is a lamp in the heart, everywhere is the road.
As there is a line in the anime My Hero Academia that says it best:
"The so-called hero is a person who can gradually break the desperate situation at any time."
A person's greatest bravery is not to change his color in a desperate situation, even if there is a dead end in front of him, he must look for hope in the cold despair.
Don't let the heart be impetuous and wear down your will, don't let the panic consume your characterization.
As long as a person has a good idea in his heart, he will be in a dilemma, desperate to cross the boat, and try to turn the tide.
Things are changeable, and the years are long.
How to grasp life in the ups and downs of fate, the key lies in your attitude when facing the situation.
Don't be lazy when you are in a good situation, work hard, how diligent you are, how outstanding;
When adversity is not discouraged, do not admit defeat, how much determination there is, how much hope there is;
When the desperate situation is not panicked, not anxious, the more calm the heart, the more you see the way out.
For the rest of your life, may you and I be able to live a better life in the vagaries of the world, without laziness or panic.
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