We talked for half a year, quarreled twice with particularly serious fights, he dropped the mobile phone, insulted me, verbally attacked me, and then apologized to me, but he was usually very good to me, but when he encountered something in his life, he immediately got angry at me. I don't know if I should break up with him.
Last night we quarreled again, his negative emotional outburst affected me, he said that he was tired from work, he went home after work and didn't want to do anything, because of the epidemic I also rested at home, so I took good care of the house, don't worry about him, so he is more unscrupulous.
He lost the game and began to look wrong, I talked to him also have to be careful, especially cautious, afraid that the wrong sentence would provoke him to lose his temper, because there were mosquitoes at home I wanted to plug in the mosquito coil, wrongly unplugged the network cable, he was furious with me.
I apologized in particular, saying that I didn't mean it, and he began to be irritable, saying that he was stressed at work, asking me not to talk to him, and saying that I hurt his angry heart. I was so aggrieved that I went to the other room and cried and vented.
He said I was influencing him to rest and he was going to work tomorrow, and I was speechless! I don't know what to do, the next morning he was like nothing, but he didn't know that I hadn't slept much all night, and I was sad to die, and I couldn't be wronged, but he wouldn't comfort me.
Every time I cry he will say me, feel annoyed, let me get out and cry, I don't know if such feelings still need to be maintained? Because we're already getting married, I don't know if I should give up?
The above is a netizen self-statement. Gu Feng suggested: You break up with him, he doesn't care about you at all, after marriage, he is even more ignored, and may also be used as a punching bag. The game is at most to entertain the body and mind, and not a professional player, so why do you care about winning or losing? He loses his temper casually because he loses the game, and he is still his girlfriend, so this kind of person really doesn't want to be together. This kind of mind is immature and cannot distinguish between the important and the important.
He is often angry with you, then you should choose to break up with him for the following reasons.
First, as an adult, if you can't control your temper, then it is a disaster for the people around him, as the saying goes, don't do to others what you don't want, but he vents the pressure he bears on others, so that he himself is also happy, but others will suffer from the disaster of innocence, which is very unfair.
Second, do not know how to look at the problem from the perspective of others. He has left all his negative emotions to you, and who can understand your negative emotions. In the long run, you will be crushed by this pressure, and because you are the party who pays more in this relationship, leave your own tolerance and love to him, when you break up later, even if you want to accept the love of others, it is not easy to do, and even you will take it as a warning, with a diametrically opposite attitude to the other half of the future, which is also quite unfair to future partners.
Such people usually have violent tendencies. Now when the two of you get along, he has begun to expose his nature to lose his temper with you, then after the two people get married, he will be more fearless, and even beat you up, in this case you can only choose to divorce, rather than waiting for the time to regret, it is better to end the relationship with each other early.
Far from the negative energy people around you, negative energy is contagious, when a person always gives you catharsis, sadness, pain, unhappiness, complaining, you yourself will feel that the world is really so bad, really so painful, you will fall into self-doubt, negative energy people are difficult to be redeemed, only they want to open, will be positive and optimistic, others will only be more and more painful, you have to continue to comfort him, until you comfort yourself.
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