A philosopher said, "You don't go up the mountain lightly, and you don't give up when you go down the mountain." ”
The road of life is high and low, no one is smooth sailing, encountering lows and surviving is the choice of many people.
There are also some people in life, they are full of spirits in good times, in times of adversity, they are depressed, but they still find reasons for themselves, do not want to bow to fate, and are willing to live a drifting life, which makes people incomprehensible.
Someone on a street in Dongguan saw a strange woman, her dress was plain, she had short hair, she wore ornaments on both wrists, and a ring on her left hand.
Although she lies on the street corner, unlike other wanderers, she has stories in her eyes, sometimes does not speak, and there is a domineering spirit between her eyebrows, and insiders reveal that her past has been very beautiful.
The woman claimed to have been an executive in a hotel before, and the people around her called her "big sister", and then the hotel closed, she was also unemployed, originally had some savings, but talked about love twice, all looked at the wrong person, the money ran out, and the boyfriend also left.
She sees through life and feels that it is not interesting to be busy, it is better to bask in the sun every day and be at ease with the encounter.
Although she is wandering the streets, she will not go begging, and when she is hungry, she will go through the garbage cans in front of the supermarket to see if there is any food to eat, and when someone brings her a drink, she will politely say "thank you".
Normally, she would sit there in a daze, and if someone handed her a cigarette, she would smile, and sometimes she would mention her past, and kind people would introduce her to work and have a stable place to live, but she refused.
Some people have noticed that no matter where the woman goes, she will hold a small doll in her hand, and she will hold it when she sleeps at night, and perhaps that little doll has a special meaning for her.
The woman's experience makes people sigh, she has changed from a bold manager to a wanderer, and the image of the past is very different, in addition to the stubbornness in the eyes, the experience has not left her anything, I really don't know what her family will think when they learn her information.
A nearby neighbor said: "The woman is only about 40 years old, fully capable of finding a job, just lying flat, now it looks nothing, but miss such a good age, when the age is not guaranteed, you will regret it." ”
Yes, it's easy to lie flat, but if you lie flat all the time, it's too much of a waste of life.
It reminds me of another tramp, a man.
The man lives under the bridge all year round, he does not collect waste, and his clothes are clean.
He picked up an old single sofa, sat on the sofa every day to read the old books he had picked up, and when he was hungry, he set up a pot of porridge to boil, which was very drunk and I woke up alone.
A kind person saw that he was cold, gave him a quilt, and brought him 2 bags of rice and oil and salt and other items, he was not happy, but said lightly: "Thank you." ”
When it comes to his life, the man feels very satisfied, he does not think it is hard, but feels that going to work every day, earning money is not enough to spend, is not worth it.
We are very pessimistic and must have experienced setbacks, but we not only live by ourselves, but sometimes we also have to consider our own responsibilities and the needs of our families for ourselves.
Under the guidance of well-wishers, the man followed together to do public welfare, and after using his ability to help others, his attitude slowly changed, agreed to work, and decided to change his life.
Not all of the wanderers in life are mentally abnormal, and some of them are pessimistic after being hit by setbacks.
They have the ability, they have a story, they just don't want to work hard anymore, they just want to live a free life, if they meet someone who can give him some warmth, maybe he can change his mind and be active again.
Someone said, "It is very difficult for a person to achieve success if he does not trust himself." ”
Anyone can soar in good times, and in a state of headwind, one can see one's ability.
When the actor Chen Daoming first debuted, no one cared about him at all, he could only take on some small roles without lines, sometimes he couldn't even shoot a straight face, and it was common to encounter the staff's grumpiness and being scolded.
He shuttled back and forth every day, and some people who ran dragon suits at the same time as him slowly couldn't stay up, some gave up, some simply lay flat, played games during the day, and went to the park to sleep at night.
But he did not give up, but also use his spare time to study acting, slowly, he mixed with the staff, once got a chance to play a supporting role, he carefully pondered the character of the role, the effect made the director impressed.
This is the power of precipitation, surviving the trough, Chen Daoming ushered in the glory of his career, and his professionalism was also admired by insiders.
In an interview, Chen Daoming said: "I don't think there is any adversity, when it is not smooth, it is the opportunity to test us, as long as we do not give up, promotion is also sooner or later." ”
Very airy! Only by believing in themselves can people gain a firm foothold in the wind and rain.
Remember Lai Min?
Her parents died of penguin disease, and at the age of 21, she was also diagnosed with penguin disease, which doctors judged might be 9 years away.
But she does not admit her fate, still lives seriously, and her optimistic attitude also impresses her old classmate Ding Yizhou, who decided to take her outside to see the world.
When I set off, I only had 200 yuan in my pocket, but the two were happy, watching the scenery during the day and sleeping in a tent at night.
In the long-term relationship, the two also established a deep relationship, they got married, and also had a healthy and lovely child, the two also opened an inn in Litang, life is getting better and better, but also broke the spell of pessimism.
I like a quote from Romain Rolland: "True heroism is to love life after seeing the truth of life." ”
Life is changeable, we can't change it, but we can adapt.
Life is really hard, only self-transit.
Surviving the troughs and difficulties is a new piece of the sky, if you also have depressed people around you, you can have a little more encouragement.
Kindness and love between people can give people a sense of strength and give us the courage to persevere.
May there be light in your eyes and faith in your heart, and any wind and rain will not affect the pace of progress.