In life, we often fall into endless anxiety, feel that nothing is going well, feel that our life is very unlucky, there are three hundred and sixty-five days a year, and we spend almost three hundred days in a sigh.
Even at a certain moment, we feel that even living is a pain.
We have always tried our best to change our lives, but in the end we find that not only can't change, but also let ourselves live in pain.
Knowing that this is the case, will you try your best to change it?
Born as human beings, we seem to be very strange, always wait until something goes wrong to regret it, feel that everything does not matter when there is no problem, always hold a fluke mentality, and always feel that their bodies are particularly healthy.
All along, we have fallen into a misunderstanding, thinking that as long as we try to make money, we don't know that this is wrong.
Even if you desperately make some money, once something goes wrong with your body, is this money not enough for you to treat the disease?
Of course, I am not saying that everyone should not make money and sit at home and eat mountains and skies, but I hope that each of us, everything has a degree, do not force ourselves, and know how to let ourselves rest.
Only in this way will there be no major problems.
01: It's hard to make money, don't push yourself
Why are people now prone to anxiety?
This is mainly because there are many ordinary people who counterattack on the Internet, for example, in the short video, we will see some ordinary people instantly promoted to big Internet celebrities and earn a lot of money.
Watching their videos, we felt that it was too ordinary and did not understand why they could make so much money?
As a result, I began to feel anxious and uncomfortable, feeling bad luck.
Someone told me this joke:
There are many people, obviously do not even have 10,000 yuan in their pockets, but they feel that it is a shame to earn 100,000 yuan a year, as if the people around them are rich people, and only they are the poorest people.
I am deeply convinced of this, as if we often encounter such people in life. Some time ago, I watched a video on the Internet, and after watching it, I was not calm in an instant.
An Internet celebrity bluntly said that if there is no 2 million in the hands of 30-year-olds, then there is no need to live, he feels that this is a very humiliating thing, such a person is a pure waste of air.
30 years old, there are 2 million.
Frankly speaking, every word of this deeply stung me, and even I felt that I was holding back the people of the whole country alive.
But think about it, it seems that this is not the case, try to ask if you don't nibble the old and don't fight daddy, how many people can have 2 million people in their hands at the age of 30 or so?
That should be very little.
In this world, making money is not so easy, personally feel that there is a comfortable nest, do not have to worry about three meals a day is enough, there is really no need to think so much.
Why were people happy before?
Because they know how to be satisfied, such as wives and children hot kiln head, they are very satisfied, but how many people are satisfied with the status quo now?
Crazy persecution of oneself, on the surface, is to make oneself self-motivated, but in fact it is harmful to oneself, which will make one's spirit sick and make the body sick.
If you are mentally sick and depressed, you may not really find the hope of living.
If the body is sick, once you go to the hospital, you will find that the money you made so hard is not as good as the medical expenses, and you have to fight to fight and finally spell an empty, there is no happiness not to say, but also to let the body suffer with the crime.
Bacon once said:
"A healthy body is the living room of the soul, and a sick body is the confinement room of the soul."
At any time, you must know that money cannot be earned, do not spend the longest night with the most expensive life, and do not desperately overdraft your body for the so-called freedom of wealth.
In this life, the best investment is never a project, but your own body, only in good health, you can feel the beauty of living.
02: Taking good care of the body is the biggest winner in life
Sometimes, we seem to be very much, obviously very simple truths, but we can't figure out anything.
Although money is very important, but you have to have a life to spend, ah, the biggest tragedy of people, should be that the money is still there, life is gone.
Living in this world, there is no one who does not make money, and the person who does not make money has no sense of responsibility, he does not consider his family or himself.
So it's right to make money because it's about a family.
For example, the child's tuition fees have to be paid, the family has to spend every day, the mortgage has to be repaid, the car loan must be repaid, for this reason we can't stop, we can only make money.
I admit that making money is important, but to be leisurely, if you always want to make money, do not consider the body at all, or even at the expense of health, then it is the biggest stupidity.
Although each of us is carrying the weight forward, we must also pay attention to the body, only in this way can we live a long time, and we can live better and feel the beauty of life.
Don't feel that your body is not valuable, in fact, it is too valuable, when you take good care of your body, you are the biggest winner.
Some time ago, I saw a value list about the body online:
As can be seen from this table, if a person changes a heart, it costs 750,000 yuan, and you don't feel it when your body is good, but when you need to change your heart, you will find out how expensive a heart is.
In addition to the heart of 750,000 yuan, if you change the kidney, it is more expensive, the price has soared to 1.65 million, which is difficult for ordinary people like you and me to bear.
In addition, if you change a cornea, it costs 150,000 yuan, and for every gram of bone marrow, it costs 140,000.
Isn't that too expensive?
When people say how important it is to take good care of the body, you may not think so, and when you have a problem with your body and need to change a certain part, you may completely understand it.
03: Conclusion
Schopenhauer once said, "The greatest mistake a human being can make is to trade health for something else outside the body." ”
I think so!
In fact, there are many truths that we understand better than anyone, but we can't control it, especially when we see others of the same age, one by one, living a bright and beautiful life.
But have you ever thought that in fact, you can do the same, but you want too many things, so you will force yourself so much.
In this world, money can never be earned, so you may wish to rest properly, don't let your string be tight all the time.
For the rest of our lives, may each of us be a person who eats well and sleeps on time, rests when it is time to rest, and exercise when it is time to exercise.
Only in this way can we take care of people's bodies and make ourselves live freely and easily.
Promise me, okay?
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Su Xiaobei is a cutting-edge emotional writer and marital psychological counselor. If you have a problem and don't know how to solve it, you can ask me a question and look forward to your consultation and message.