Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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Middle age is a watershed in life! Good points, lucky luck is easier, bad points, the rest of life suffering is the norm!
People are alive, they must not reach middle age, and they are still stupid!
No one wants to be bothered by the evaluation of "ignorance", and often the "ignorance" of self-talk is a form of self-deprecation to listen to praise. It's just that no one wants to admit it sincerely!
The human heart and human nature of the real society divide people into two groups: one group of people who are working hard to run themselves; and one group of people who are running away from survival.
The former, steady, steady, clear life goals, but also easy to achieve the wish.
The latter, impetuous, lack of self-awareness, the road of life is getting narrower and narrower, and life is difficult step by step.
Why are they ordinary people, some people can climb step by step, and some people can only stand still and suffer from the scourge of reality?
The difference is the word "bottom"!
When people live, what is the greatest confidence? Relationships or family lineages? Neither!
A person's greatest confidence, in addition to health, is money!
The more realistic the moment, the more obvious the importance of money! Everyone says something outside the body, and everyone has to do it. Money is a necessity of life, so making money and saving money is the most instinct and ability that a person should have to survive in the world!
In real life, we often see some people spending money like a land. It is also common to see some people walking "pretending to be poor".
Perhaps, people will scorn people who are "pretending to be poor" in superficial perceptions. When we go deep into reality and the method of life management, we can't help but give a thumbs up to those who "pretend to be poor".
Because, people draw from in-depth understanding and personal understanding that people who "pretend to be poor" are not "stingy", but a calm, low-key, and humble attitude towards life!
In particular, when people reach middle age, people who know how to skillfully "pretend to be poor" are not simple! If you're smart enough to learn to "pretend to be poor", it's good! Believe it or not:
1: Cleverly pretend to be poor and avoid useless consumption
Learning to pretend to be poor will make you not waste too much savings because you are a "wronged boss".
Money, hard to earn! Every penny takes countless efforts to stack up. When people reach middle age, there are elderly people who need to be supported, children who need to be raised, and the needs of the people in front of them, relationship management, and even more inseparable from money.
I have seen many middle-aged people, who are old, and they also have to punch their swollen faces and fill them with fat. No matter who you are with, use money to show your face.
In fact, what is the point of buying such a face with money? Interpersonal relationships exchanged for money are not low-quality contacts?
People are middle-aged, don't spend money indiscriminately. Your generosity will not be exchanged for someone else's sincerity!
The relationship between people is an equal exchange, but if you are willing to pay more in one direction, others will only treat you as a "big head". I don't really think you're a good person.
Otherwise, in terms of money usage, it will be equivalent to the transaction!
When people reach middle age, learn to say goodbye to low-quality social networking, especially the relationship that consumes your money, you must break it as soon as possible! If you think your relationships are all reliable, test it out in the form of "borrowing money"!
2: People who pretend to be poor are more respected
To test the strength of a relationship, money is the best is the touchstone!
It's often said that if you want to break a relationship, borrow money!
But I would like to say that a person who can automatically lend you money without having to open your mouth during your really difficult time must be the most deserving of deep friendship!
Most people who pretend to be poor will not show off their wealth and do not deliberately use money to maintain it in order to cater to any relationship! It is precisely because of this that they really exchange a loyal relationship in a worthy relationship in exchange for a true and intersecting relationship!
People who pretend to be poor are not generous in people or things that are not worthy, and in people or things that are worthy, others cannot hold on to them!
As the saying goes, what kind of person you are, what kind of person you will attract! Those who are different in the Tao do not conspire with each other! People whose three views do not match will never be compatible!
What is missing in the heart of a person who is falsely generous is a solidity that comes from self-sufficiency.
People who pretend to be poor have always been people with a rich spiritual world and a full inner world. Therefore, they are more free and at ease. They know better how to run their own lives, use the best confidence, and give themselves a solid feeling.
Whether it is for others or for oneself, there is a clear grasp, no vanity, no comparison, no ostentation!
As a result, they attract worthy people in a worthy relationship, and they appreciate each other, learn from each other, improve each other, and wonderful each other!
In real life, we often see some people who are generous with a bottle less than half a bottle. In the end, the ideal life is not obtained, the worthwhile relationship is not obtained, the hard-earned money is not saved...
A person, if he has a strong sense of vanity and comparison, he must be a generous person! It will also be easy to go astray because of material desires.
When people reach middle age, if they still can't figure out the importance of money, squander, waste, and pretend to be generous, they can really "have no heart and no lungs to harm themselves" Lord!
The middle-aged people who cleverly pretend to be poor are setting the most reasonable bottom line for running their own lives. Anyone or anything that consumes themselves can keep a clear distance. Are you saying that such a person is sober in the world?
When people live, they must understand that their lives have nothing to do with others after all. After all, the evaluation of others has no specific impact on their own lives.
As long as you are working hard to make money and saving money in a positive way, your truth will make you infinitely solid. Your non-waste will make your life better and better. You choose the right people to interact with, which is the best icing on the cake for your life.
Outside, you don't have to pretend to be generous, and the money you spend is painful and painless, and only you know best. If, in middle age, you still behave as "money is like dung", it can only mean that you are too naïve!
In real life, too many people want to get any and praise from the outside world, but they never understand that acceptance and recognition of themselves are the most important.
In this life, only a hundred years, the age of being able to fight, leaving aside youth and old age, there are only a few. People who don't know how to work hard for their own lives will not be able to take good care of the people they love after all. At the same time, you can't repay the people who love you!
When people reach middle age, they must understand that your profligacy must be just the hair you have. Your generosity should be worth it!
The really powerful people, their cleverness lies in:
Know how to use low-key, do not show off, leave room for yourself! Use muffled self-improvement to achieve yourself.
People live a lifetime, cold and warm self-knowledge. Positive self-interest, nothing bad! Don't let the poor be generous and fake exquisite, let yourself gain more than you lose!
You tell me?
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Topic Discussion: Are you a person who knows how to "pretend to be poor"? Leave your truth in the comments section below.