Kaoru Inoue, founder of The Japanese Sanyo Company, said:
"What is the root of management? I think it's about "making people." ”
One company is like that, not to mention one person.
When people reach middle age, in addition to knowing how to live well, they must also manage themselves well.
To manage yourself, you can't just stand on a simple point of view to see and think, but know how to observe, analyze, and change from all angles.
The Tao Te Ching says:
"The winner is strong, and the winner is strong."
Overcoming others may not necessarily be how strong you are, but if a person can overcome himself, he belongs to a powerful person.
1: Business mentality
Why does a powerful person have such a great charm?
It's that they have a strong mindset.
Haruki Murakami once said:
"When we learn to deal with 'giving up' with a positive mindset, we will have the huge wealth of 'growth'."
In life, no matter how good the conditions or resources were before birth, everyone cannot live smoothly.
Understand the impermanence of life, have the necessary reverence, and in life, do not complain, do not get angry, do not calculate, do not calculate
You will find that living under such a frank and open mind will have more beautiful experiences.
Many people are unhappy because they do not know how to learn a contented and happy mentality in time.
With a contented and happy mindset, we can achieve when to pursue and when to give up.
For many people, the pursuit is understandable, but it is also incomprehensible to abandon this view.
There used to be a neighbor aunt, and her husband was a teacher who taught primary school in the old home, and she had long lived a life of iron rice bowls.
Because both husband and wife have a high level of teaching, there are always some relevant people in the county primary school who want to poach them and teach in a better county primary school.
But they all refused, and the reason they refused was that they did not want to teach from afar.
Later, the society developed too quickly, and the children in the village gradually moved to the county town to go to school, which led to the lack of students in the township school, and the aunt and her husband eventually lost their jobs in their hometown.
Many years later, their lives became worse and worse, and the two of them often talked about each other, blaming each other for why they had the opportunity to teach at a better school, but they wasted it.
In fact, many times, the reason why people feel that the psychological gap is large and the reason why they are very unhappy is that they cannot predict what the future will be.
Since you don't know, according to the reason, you should do a good job of yourself, manage your own mentality, and let yourself have the ability to keep pace with the times.
In this way, even if the future development process is still not imaginable, but because of their early growth and accumulation, they will not be busy and chaotic in the face of sudden new challenges.
On the other hand, if a person is not prepared accordingly, he only thinks about getting by with everything, waiting for things to come and see, and then talk about problems.
Sooner or later, such a mentality will be swept away by the torrent of the times, and even never return to the state of life that he once thought was normal.
If a person has a good and strong mentality, then he will have a more cautious and calm preparation for his life and life.
2: Business experience
The cultural scholar Yu Dan once said:
"Managing your own strengths can add value to your life; operating your own shortcomings can devalue your life."
A smart person does not depend on how many fields he can master or achieve all-round development.
It lies in the fact that they can really find their own strengths, and then continue to dig and operate in depth, and then they can really create greater value.
That is to say, a person can only focus enough and focus on one thing that he will develop for a long time, and in time, he will achieve something.
Many people seem to understand everything in life, understand some here, understand a little there, but there is no "one skill".
Such a person, placed in society, can usually only be reduced to the status of "laying hands", because others want to give him the opportunity to take on greater responsibilities, and do not trust his ability.
It is true that a person's ability, to put it bluntly, is his experience.
Because a person has a deeper experience and insight in experience, he can become a technical backbone and a professional in something.
That's the power of professionalism and the charm of experience.
Ibn Mugafa once said:
"Reason is the fruit of experience, it is hidden inside the human body, just like fire hidden inside a stone, two stones collide, a spark bursts out, the more experience a person has, the more reason there is."
When a person accumulates life experience, it usually develops in an unconscious situation.
Because in the process of setting goals and implementing goals, on the one hand, they are taking practical actions to treat things, and on the other hand, they are also giving back with corresponding reason and experience.
This is because the premise of the implementation of micro-motivation is that it requires constant observation, thinking and weighing, which is also a process towards reason.
Therefore, don't underestimate what you are doing at the moment, because its bits and pieces, and the process of development, are doomed to what kind of person you will become.
Therefore, managing your own experience is like treating your life well and treating your life sincerely, in order to harvest a better life outcome.
Even in the process of this struggle, we can live a fuller and more meaningful life.
3: Business life
The reason why people want to operate the mentality and business experience is ultimately in the business life.
At the end of the day, the meaning of life is how to live better.
Therefore, only when we manage our lives well with our hearts can we be worthy of our own life.
I like a sentence that Mr. Yang Dai said:
"Although people are small, although life is short, but people can learn, people can cultivate themselves, people can improve themselves,
The value of man lies in man himself. ”
A short sentence tells us a simple truth, people live, lies in self-cultivation, self-improvement.
Know how to cherish the present, know how to manage life, in the process of constantly improving themselves, improve themselves and change their destiny.
Yu Bondarev also said:
"It is happiness that people find the meaning of life."
The meaning of life lies in finding it from life, and it is also looking in the details of life.
When a person finds his own interests, hobbies, and is willing to pay for it to the end, and also perceives that it has better development prospects and vitality, he will naturally know how to treat it well.
In this way, even in the amateur life, you will know how to cherish the present and manage your life and life well.
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