Text/Flying Fish
Original/plagiarism is a must
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I am fifty years old this year, I have walked through the half of my life, I don't know how long there is still a long way to go in the future, I don't expect to be rich and noble for the rest of my life, as long as I am safe and healthy, healthy and healthy in the second half of my life.
In the second half of life, do not extravagantly hope that you can have more money, nor do you want fame and status, as long as you live smoothly, your family is alive, and your friends cherish it, then it is enough.
After the age of fifty, people gradually understand that in fact, the present is the most important, do not expect the sky to last, the happiness of the moment is well grasped. Cherish the people around you, run your own family well, and family happiness is the best gift.
After people reach fifty, they suddenly understand that the fame and status they pursued before are actually nothing, life in addition to life and death, the rest are floating clouds, life does not have to engage in too many nihilistic things, really, a little more down-to-earth life, in fact, tiptoeing, you can meet happiness.
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I am fifty years old this year, the children are also adults, and gradually enter the society, I am also relieved, all these years, for the family, hard work, now can slowly unload the burden, do a good job of themselves.
For children, it is very supportive for them to have their own ideas, let them go out to work outside, and find their own home and ideals.
And for yourself, you should also properly relax, enjoy life well, when the weekend, often ask friends to take their wives out to play around, do not need to go to a far place, just find a beautiful place in the surrounding quietly enjoy the beauty of the moment, it is very comfortable.
In the past, there was always a line between work and life, there was no time to play, there was no time to think about other things, just thinking about making money to support the family, giving children a good life, worrying about children, now that they have grown up, we should let go, and our obligations have been fulfilled.
I used to bend down for life, cry bitterly, grievance, lose, and even depressed, but now at the age of fifty, I have gradually learned to reconcile with myself and live open-mindedly.
03
When the flowers reopened, no one was a teenager anymore, this year entered the fifty years old, a few more emotions, a few more desolation, how many days and nights have passed, how many wind and rain and ups and downs have passed, and now everything has been seen through and opened.
In the face of life and death, in the face of gathering and dispersion, in the face of the impermanence of life, I learned to be calm and calm, learned to look down, and learned to let go.
When people reach this age, they can't see lightly, they can't see through, they can't put it down, they will live a very painful life, in fact, fifty know the destiny, only by learning to look down, can they make themselves relaxed.
Over the years, I have experienced a lot of things, and I have gradually looked down on the beauty and ugliness, evil and goodness of the world, no longer casually angry, released love and hate, and understood that anger can not be cheaper than anyone, but is torturing yourself and is not good for your body.
The more you hate a person, the more miserable you will be, and the more you can't let go of one thing, it will be difficult for you to start a new life.
04
Fifty years old, see open, people live, the most important thing is to make yourself happy.
No one's life will not pass, we are all slowly getting old in the years, do not tangle too much, do not care too much about success or failure and gain and loss, many times, it is often fate that sometimes has to be, and fate is not forced at any time.
No one's life has always been at the top, life is like a roller coaster, there are peaks and valleys, after the scenery, there may be embarrassment, and after the wind and rain, there will be a rainbow.
Fifty years old, learn to wave away the past, let go of the past, don't dwell on some things in the past, we are no longer young, the years are gone, don't fantasize anymore, face the real life, return to reality, and live plainly.
05
I am fifty years old and my parents are old, and I feel the importance of family affection more deeply.
Sometimes watching the old people of other people's homes go, remembering that their parents are old, looking at their waddling figures, lamenting that their parents are healthy, there is still a way back in life, and they will always be a child.
At this age, although our parents have their own homes and we have our own homes, we will often go back to accompany them, talk to them, and talk about home, which is really a good feeling.
At this age, all those who can't put it down are still worried about their elderly parents, hoping that they will always be healthy and happy.
In the face of many things, I finally learned to laugh, get my luck, lose my life, and everything just goes with the flow.
Someone said, "The best feeling in the world is to find your heart smiling." ”
For the rest of my life, I will live with a smile and be as brilliant as a flower.
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