What do people live for[I]

Introduction:

Man does not live entirely for himself.

Living like that, you can't get rid of selfishness! Nor can it be separated from narrow-mindedness.

Whether it is "doing what you like to do" or "creating a job", the most important thing is that people must be "passionate", have enthusiasm for life, and have enthusiasm for pursuit.

With enthusiasm, a person can continue to learn, create, and seek a way out.

With enthusiastic people, they will not be willing to go from nine to five, just to make a living.

People live, there is a lot of space is not for their own, so alive, in order to live out a different taste!

In my opinion, to be a happy ordinary person, you don't need to be too smart.

Polite, honest, self-reliant, loving for others, enough.

【1】

I've interviewed my former neighbors and asked them -- what is this life all about?

Their parents were in agreement.

"Not for the kids yet!"

"I hope the children will have a future."

These two sentences speak the voice of the vast majority of parents in China. If accidentally having a child is ignorant when you are young, since the child has landed, parents have no choice but to take care of themselves and retreat!

They all have a lot of kids in their house and have a lot of mouths when they eat!

He also often came to our house to "borrow this and borrow that".

Neighbors' parents rarely spend money on their own, and the money is basically not enough.

Basically, it's all spent on the kids.

They are very hardworking, and they are also doing odd jobs during their breaks, and they can be said to have practiced their own two sentences all their lives.

Their children aren't all contentious either.

Two of them were never filial, but the other two daughters both walked out of life and eventually moved away with their parents.

Parents, after middle age, have realized that no matter how much food and clothing are warm, it is like that.

The happiest thing about people is that they are living and working hard for a goal,—— children are pulling up, they have a chance, they have a saying, there is no vain life.

【2】

I had two students, very good, and the first batch of the college entrance examination was admitted to the military academy.

They chose a highly sophisticated science and engineering specialty, studying complex secret equipment and weapons.

Moreover, since I was a child, I have wanted to join the army and become a soldier, and others have no interest.

After they left, they hardly ever went home.

I only vaguely heard where the quarantine was for several years, and the rank was raised.

They are absorbed by another closed world, without the freedom, spontaneity and space of ordinary people to play cards according to their own life trajectory.

Everything is kept secret.

Everything is more demanding.

Everything is not a big change in life.

I think that if they don't have any greater values and outlook on life in their hearts, they won't have the "persistence" of "staying unchanged" for decades.

Ordinary people can't understand their lives, perhaps because the mind can understand the volume is not enough!

【3】

People come together, people live together, in fact, every day is looking forward to.

Commonly known as having a "hope" [hope].

This means that everyone has to turn around and look at the people around them and ask them what kind of life they desire!

If living together can bring value and joy to family, friends, lovers, children, colleagues, and subordinates, I think people will not live in vain!

We're always talking about altruism.

In fact, altruism is not a task, and if it is treated as a task, it will not last long.

Personally, I feel that altruism is a need for the self.

We are very happy to see others happy and happy, so we are eager to do things and live for the people around us!

This means that we don't see them as outsiders.

Especially those who [live together] must take care of their partner's ideas and needs.

Maybe, our partners -- they don't need us to make a lot of money.

They may just need a sense of security, a positivity, a passion and a living "mutual responsibility."

Brief summary:

Fate, what kind of fruit we have, no one knows, nor does it need to know.

Because fate only comes to an end when we are convinced!

Whether the fruit is sweet or bitter is not so important, what matters is that you haven't experienced it yet, and it's all you're expecting.

You are waiting for this fruit with anticipation, and that is enough.

Sweet fruit is a life.

Fruit bitterness is also a life.

In fact, most fruits are sweet and bitter.

The key is that when we look back, we feel that we have a taste!

Man, in essence, is a mass animal.

Other people's emotions and feedback are also part of our lives.

Man cannot exist only for himself; nor can he see his ideals and go crazy to realize himself at all costs.

George. Elliott said:

"The growth of kindness in this world depends in part on the actions of those who are insignificant; and what happens around you and me does not get so bad, thanks to those who live by faith but never get the attention and finally rest in the silent grave."

I think we should think about it every day -- how to make the people around us happier and better.

Because their feedback is still an integral part of our own happiness!

Appreciation to the author