Text/Wei Chen
As a person, you must know how to leave a way back for yourself.
Many things in life seem to be full of accidents, but in fact, they are all inevitable that involve cause and effect.
How a person should spend his life, the initial decision is in his own hands.
We can take into account the feelings of others and ask for their opinions before making a decision, but we do not necessarily have to make a decision according to the other person's point of view.
Everyone's life is their own, and if they don't even know what kind of life they want to live, then this person will not only often go the wrong way, but also fall into regret.
In interpersonal communication, it is always necessary to master a degree.
Others will not decide to get along with you because you are good, so you can be kind and generous, but you can't lose the bottom line.
As the old saying goes, "Raise the rice to raise grace, and fight the rice to raise the enemy." ”
Human nature is always insatiable, and if you are unrestricted in being good to others, the result is often that the other party does not take you seriously.
Dong Qing said in "Readers": "If you are good without reservation, the other party will dare to be bad to be unscrupulous." ”
In fact, the relationship between people is never fixed, and every contact is a temptation.
If you turn a blind eye to someone else's excesses, they are likely to make more excessive moves the next time.
Feelings are always two-way, unilateral pay and good talk, will not achieve consummation.
When you meet someone who doesn't know how to be grateful, be sure to put away your smiling face.
If you don't show your bottom line when you get along with people, you will find that everyone around you is constantly crossing the line.
Psychologically, society's attitude toward a person depends largely on the person himself.
Life is like a mirror, and the attitude of others towards you is what you show to others.
If a person wants to live this life well, he must not only work hard, but also constantly reflect on himself.
There has never been absolute good or absolute bad in this world. Even if you are kind to others, the more good thoughts are not the more the merrier.
Kindness and generosity that are out of proportion will only aid in abuse.
Be a person with a bottom line, generous and principled.
Everyone is responsible for their words and deeds, and doing the right thing will not necessarily bring rewards, but doing the wrong thing is highly likely to be held accountable.
Being born as a human being is indeed a good thing, but being too generous is becoming unclear.
When a person is generous, he will slowly find that there are many things in life that make his life impossible to continue.
As a person, you must first take care of your own life before taking care of others.
Some people may think that this is a manifestation of selfishness and low consciousness.
In fact, what really annoys people is the hypocrisy of those mud bodhisattvas who cross the river themselves and have to reach out to interfere with the suffering of others.
Eat as much as you can, and don't punch your swollen face and be fat. Generous can not be exchanged for the recognition of others, excellent.
The more face-loving people are, the more faceless they tend to end up.
Be sober enough, for some people, there is no need to be too generous.
There are many things in this world that can't be hidden at all, such as coughing, love, and poverty.
Interacting with people is something that no one can avoid. But in the process of interacting with people, different people will see different landscapes.
Some people make good friends, and some people always get into trouble.
Generosity can indeed bring people closer together. But if you want to maintain the stability of the relationship, only generosity is not enough, more need is emotional recognition.
You know, not all relationships can be sustained by economics.
When getting along with people, you can't cut the door too much, if you don't pull out a dime, the people around you will inevitably leave you.
But don't be too generous, always sacrifice yourself to complete others, over time everyone will take your sacrifice for granted.
Even sometimes, if you don't make the sacrifices the other person wants, you will attract resentment.
If people are too kind, they will not be cherished by others; if people are too generous, they will only make people despise you.
Outside of your own ability, you must not help.
People are self-aware, and it is not feasible to punch a swollen face and become fat.
As a person, it is necessary to make yourself selfish.
Gu Quan himself is not wrong, blindly generous, and will eventually lead to difficulties in his life.
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About the Author: Wei Chen, freelance writer, writing mentor. Normally quiet, occasionally humorous.
I hope that through words to bring you spiritual relaxation, may your life be more beautiful after encountering my words.