Text/Wei Chen
Bai Yansong said: "Life is a negotiation with the years. Many people have a screwed life, just want to win unilaterally, and ignore the power of the years. By the time people reach their 40s, their hair will be white and their eyes will be flowered. You change your lifestyle and compromise with the years, and the years will compromise with you. ”
No one's life can always be smooth, setbacks are the norm, if you want to live freely, you have to accept the arrival of accidents from the bottom of your heart.
What makes us tired is never the mountains in the distance, but the sand in our shoes.
For most people, doing what they are doing right now is the most important thing.
Each of us is emotionally fragile and helpless, and you can't imagine what others are going through or avoid what you're going through next.
Only when the mentality of being a person is good, everything in front of you can be better.
Growth is inherently painful, it is a person's process from dependence to independence.
Sometimes we can even say that a person has never grown. After all, there are always people in this world who, even if they are physically adults, still have children's thoughts in their heads.
No one can become mature without experiencing pain, and the only thing that years can change is age, not a person's thinking.
There are too many people around us who seem happy but are just pretending to be happy.
Everyone is carrying the weight forward, and everyone has a desperate situation in their lives, but some people will choose to talk around, while others prefer to remain silent.
In fact, it is useless for most people to tell. You think others can understand your bitterness, but you don't know they're just having fun.
I once heard a story about a little monkey in the forest who accidentally scratched his belly from a branch while climbing a tree.
The little monkey felt that the wound was very painful, so he told it everywhere.
Whenever it encounters other monkeys, it will open its fur and grin its teeth and tell its encounters while reminding its companions to pay attention when climbing trees.
At first, the monkeys would surround it to show sympathy and comfort.
Later, everyone got tired of hearing its so-called encounter and walked around.
The monkey then disappeared from the forest, supposedly because of an infection in the wound.
In fact, people are like monkeys, if they are injured in life, don't rush to talk around, and find a way to heal the wounds to alleviate the pain.
Mature people understand that there are too many wounds in life that can only heal themselves.
Life will inevitably encounter lows, in the difficult days, you must not let your heart be too lonely.
No one can be with another person forever, and most of the time we have to accompany ourselves.
You can pursue excellence, but you can't force perfection. You know, there are always some wishes in our lives that can't be fulfilled.
He is not wise that is not wise for himself. Not embarrassing yourself is a person's greatest intelligence.
Some people, when faced with certain things, have the idea in their minds, "Others can do it, why can't I?" ”
There are some things that really don't just work hard. We cannot ignore the elements of talent and luck in life.
What is difficult for others is gentle, and what is difficult to not be strong is wise.
Born as a human being, it is inevitable that there will be injuries on the body, and self-healing can not be confused.
Rogers, a master of psychology, said: "The most important thing in life is to have the ability to create happiness." It comes from three aspects – letting go of the past, facing reality and enjoying the present. ”
There is never a perfect person in this world, and all perfection is just another explanation of self-reconciliation.
The reason why some people say that the road of life is very long is mostly because they are experiencing hardships on this road.
Happy time is always short-lived, and the remaining bitterness and sadness make people reluctant to taste. But the struggle is useless, and fate is there to control everyone's joys and sorrows.
When a person puts down something, it is the time to reconcile with himself.
There is no way to change some things, only acceptance.
The ancients said: "Gold has no feet, and no one is perfect." ”
Jade is not flawless, and if it is flawless, it is most likely a fake.
Accept your shortcomings and inadequacies calmly, after the wound heals, it is not necessarily a scar, it may also be a flower.
Life is a process of continuous self-discovery, the discovery of deficiencies is not terrible, the real terrible thing is that there has been no change and progress from beginning to end, and even a lifetime of blind arrogance.
To reconcile with oneself is to know that you are not perfect, but not to be inferior.
Self-healing can make a person strong.
For the rest of your life, don't expect others to heal your wounds, self-recognition, good mentality, everything will be fine.
Content source public number: Wei Chen [ID: weichenip] It is very easy to meet the author.
About the Author: Wei Chen, freelance writer, writing mentor. Normally quiet, occasionally humorous.
I hope that through words to bring you spiritual relaxation, may your life be more beautiful after encountering my words.