City government deep people, common 5 characteristics, do you have?

Text/Wei Chen

Everyone has a city house. It's not unusual that this situation is like every normal person has a secret.

In particular, there are two kinds of people in the city government, one is far-sighted, and the other is sinister and cunning.

Humans are the best at disguise, and the world we see is often not the real world, it is only a superficial phenomenon.

As for the real world, in everyone's heart, there are different appearances.

"Cai Gen Tan" has a cloud: "The heart of harming people must not be there, and the heart of preventing people must not be without." ”

We can be simple, but not too simple. Everything in this world requires a degree of mastery.

In interpersonal communication, having a city government is never a bad thing.

On the contrary, how deep a person's city government is, how reliable things are.

There are often the following five characteristics in people with city governments.

Talk and do things without leaks

From ancient times to the present, people have regarded speaking as a profound art.

"Xunzi" has clouds: "Talking to people well is warmer than cloth; words that hurt people are deeper than spears." ”

In interpersonal communication, we must grasp the skills of speaking, and we must have a sense of proportion in dealing with people and things. Otherwise, if you are not careful, you will cause trouble for yourself.

There are so many things in this world that we can't do. All we can do is keep our bottom line and manage our logic.

The smarter the person, the deeper the city government. They don't do something without a plan, and everything they do is not only to convince themselves, but also to give reasonable explanations to others.

If you want to live in the world easily, you must have the ability to justify yourself.

The people in the city government never act blindly, and they always talk and do things without leaks.

Speak properly and communicate smoothly

Verbal communication is inevitable in interpersonal communication, and first impressions between people are particularly important.

Therefore, a person's politeness is always a plus.

Bacon once said, "The person who interrupts others and interjects is even more annoying than the speaker." "It's important to be true when communicating with people.

If you want to get good popularity, you must know how to make the other party accept you and like you.

Communicate with people in the right language, and communication is often very smooth.

There is a cloud in the "Augmented Sage Text": "A good word is warm in three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June." "The way and the wording of communication is very important.

Once words hurt, it will be worse than a knife.

The people of the city government know how to control their language, and they are always tolerant and warm.

Because you can fully take care of the feelings of others, it is easier to achieve your own wishes.

Do things in a high profile and be low-key

Regarding the view of "doing things in a high profile and being a low-key person", I believe that everyone is not unfamiliar. But as for how to do things in a high profile and how to be a low-key person, few people give specific answers.

In fact, high-profile work is not something that everyone can do, after all, we are all mortals, and some things cannot be done with enthusiasm alone.

However, being low-key is something that everyone can do as long as they want to.

Low-keying is not caution, but modesty and prudence at the right time. The more excellent people behave more low-key, they are not without achievements to show off, more are not willing to show off.

The more low-key you are, the more you can accumulate the energy to do things in a high profile.

The more nurturing people are, the deeper the city government. Because of the broad mind, we can look down on the prosperity, no matter what happens, we can show a calm appearance.

Be kind and calm

It is well known that newborn calves are not afraid of tigers.

A fledgling person always likes to highlight himself, and in the process of getting along with people, there will be friction from time to time, which is a very normal thing.

Life is the process of growth, and the deeper the city government, the more kind and stable the character shown by people.

People who know how to survive in the cracks are truly advanced people.

How deep a person's city is, how round they are when they are dealing with people, because they are erased by life, so they will not easily scratch others.

Having a city government is not a bad thing, it can make a person kind and calm.

It can also be said that not being impulsive is the root of the city government.

Just doing the analysis does not lead to conclusions

The people in the city government will never make decisions for others, they are not unwilling to help people out of the predicament, but they understand better the truth that "it is better to teach people to fish than to teach people to fish".

After all, everyone's life path can only be followed by themselves. All the choices in life and the consequences of the choices after them can only be borne by themselves.

Not making decisions for others is actually a sign of responsibility.

Doing analysis can guide the other party to see the truth of the matter.

And to conclude, whatever the relationship is a cross-boundary situation.

No decision is guaranteed to be the right decision, its impact is never incalculable, if you are not a party, please be sure to take care of your thoughts and statements.

If there is a kind of cultivation, it is not easy to draw conclusions about others.

Then there is a kind of city government, which only does analysis and does not make judgments, so as to avoid burning the body.

Content source public number: Wei Chen [ID: weichenip] It is very easy to meet the author.

About the Author: Wei Chen, freelance writer, writing mentor. Normally quiet, occasionally humorous.

I hope that through words to bring you spiritual relaxation, may your life be more beautiful after encountering my words.