Uncle Lover's Introduction:
A lot of people care about what other people think of themselves, but they're actually self-inflicted. Although the opinions of others are necessary as a reference, we should pay more attention to our own true feelings. A lot of times we think about why a person treats themselves the way they do, and the way others treat them is actually decided by yourself a lot of times.
Many people don't understand why they decide how others are treated, because this society is like this, and most people watch people get off the plate. So we don't pay too much attention to other people's opinions, we need to pay attention to how to become a better and more authentic version of yourself, and then you will live the life you really want.
How others treat you depends on your personality
Everyone has their own personality, and their personality is also cultivated by themselves. We always care too much about the outside world's perception and neglect our own growth. How others treat you has a lot to do with your personality. If you are an introvert, then the cheerful person may not talk much with you, if you are a cheerful person, maybe you can win the favor of more people. Of course, none of this is absolute, but it just shows that the way others treat you is largely influenced by yourself.
The quality of the personality is really important, because the good character is destined to be liked by many people, of course, this kind of good is not to make you resigned, nor to make you bend the bend, this kind of good is an advantage of your own, you can calm down when you encounter things, and you will not be preoccupied when you meet others.
We don't always want to be cynical, there's a reason anyone treats you including when something happens. We must cultivate our own mentality, which is conducive to our own development.
How others treat you depends on your achievements
The world is inherently unfair, and if you want to be recognized by others and you want to be treated better, then you have to learn to grow hard, and there will be a lot of things you have to give up.
Don't always dwell on how others treat you, even if others treat you badly, you don't pay attention to it, which only shows that you haven't had a position in others. At this time, if you work hard to achieve yourself, you have a car and a house and your own career, and even have more rights, then even people who did not like you before, people who are not good for you are estimated to have to change their attitude.
The way others are treated is less important, because it is easy to change. All we need is to ignore the ideas of others, as long as you feel that it will help your own growth, then you can do it boldly.
If others treat you, it depends on your self-perception
How others treat you has a lot to do with your own inner world, and your self-awareness is also very important. When you feel that others are not important enough, you naturally do not take his opinion to heart. People will only care about what they like and what they value.
We need to learn to improve our self-awareness, you must know that we are all independent individuals, although the way others treat us will affect our mood, but even so, the most able to control our emotions is ourselves. When you understand this, you will find yourself the master of your emotions, and happiness will follow.
Uncle Epilogue:
You decide how others treat you, and you decide whether you want to be happy or not. As long as you are a person with a bright heart, as long as you do something to improve yourself, then your future will surely bloom brightly, and you will also gain more attention and attention.