Thurber and White say, "Love has a wonderful magic that makes one person fall for another. ”
Falling in love with a person, in fact, our hearts will be very entangled, especially in the beginning, we will worry about being seen through by the other party, but we are worried that the other party will not receive their own hints and do not know their own thoughts. As long as it is still in the stage of crush, this tangled complex mind will always accompany you.
When the opposite sex gets along, in general, men fall in love with a woman and tend to express their thoughts very directly. But women are different, because women's personalities are more sensitive and delicate, so even if women fall in love with a man, they will try to suppress their feelings and avoid showing too much initiative in love.
Most women are very clear in their hearts that if two people want to start a relationship, they generally need men to take the initiative, so that love is easier to last, and men will care more about and cherish this relationship. If the woman behaves too actively and directly, it will make the man feel that since you love him so much, you naturally can get your sincerity without paying too much.
This kind of easily obtained feelings, men naturally will not cherish. Women understand the psychology of men, and when they get along with the opposite sex, they will try to avoid this situation. It's just that even if a woman wants to try to control her feelings, she can't fully maintain her sanity.
Smart women will not be too active and direct in front of men, but they will often use their own way to hint at men, so as to attract men's eyes and let men take the initiative to approach women.
Jo D'Rakki also said, "Beauty inspires feelings, and love purifies the human heart." ”
Men should understand that when the opposite sex gets along, women generally do not directly say their minds, but they often use these details to hint at you. Once a woman has these obvious characteristics in front of you, it means that she has already moved her heart for you.
01 Seeing you get along with other members of the opposite sex, her emotions will be very fickle.
Hugo said, "Love is not satisfied. With happiness, I still want to be paradise; with paradise, I still want heaven. ”
Even if a woman is still in the stage of a crush on you, in her heart, she still can't tolerate your relationship with other people of the opposite sex being too intimate. In such a situation, it is difficult for women to fully control their emotions and always maintain a very calm state.
Men want to test a woman's mind, and in this way, it is easy to probe the woman's heart. If a woman is indifferent to this, she either has no thoughts about you, or she is very rational and can control her emotions very well.
If a woman encounters such a situation, her mood changes significantly, and she will be inexplicably angry with you, the man should know the woman's mind, because she is likely to have a heart for you.
02 As soon as you see that you are in difficulty, you will not hesitate to take the initiative to help you.
Boccaccio said: "True love can inspire people, awaken the sleeping strength and hidden talents in his heart." ”
Once a woman's mind has love, it will no longer be from the former her. Maybe she used to be a very sensible woman, maybe she was a very independent person, or maybe she was a woman who didn't believe in love. No matter what the situation is, as long as women encounter love, or even fall into this love, then they will use their own ways and means to get this love, to completely conquer the man's heart.
Especially when men are in difficulty, women tend to help men without hesitation and will not make any demands on men. This kind of active, spontaneous help is not because the woman is too idle, but in the woman's heart, the man's thing is her thing.
Men should know that when a woman has such obvious behavior in front of you, it means that she has been moved by you, don't be silly and don't understand.
03 When she gets along with you, she will tell her true thoughts and will not care about the relationship between you.
Generally speaking, when a woman has a heart for a man, in the woman's heart, the man also has a very important position. When dealing with men in a normal relationship, women have a strong sense of vigilance and do not tell too much truth when chatting. For women, such men are men who will not be completely trusted.
But in front of the man she likes, the woman will let down her guard, and even hope to use this way to hint at the man that she has a good feeling for him. So when getting along, women often say some of their own heart words, and even share their secrets.
As Molloa put it: "Friendship is like love, and you will only feel happy living among friends who can live naturally with them, without pretense and lies." ”
When encountering such a woman, men should not ignore these obvious characteristics of women. You know, even if a woman does not directly state her intentions, as long as these behaviors appear frequently, it can also show that she has been moved by you.