precipitation
Indisputable,
Good.
Life is not a battlefield, there is no need to compete. Between people, more understanding will lead to less misunderstanding; Between hearts, more tolerance, less strife.
Don't judge a person with your own eyes and cognition, judge whether something is right or wrong. Don't demand that others have the same point of view as you, don't expect others to fully understand you, everyone has their own character and opinion.
People often take themselves too seriously to suffer from gains and losses, and feel that others must understand themselves. In fact, people should look down on themselves, less self, and more transposition, in order to be happy. The so-called how big the heart is, how much happiness there is; The more inclusion, the more you get.
Don't talk about people behind your back, don't care about being said. People who are good have nothing to say, and the more excellent people are, the more they will be said. There is nothing in the world that is not judged, and there is no one who is not judged.
We can't control other people's mouths, but we can hold an indifferent heart to see all the distractions. Only when the mind is calm can we hear the voice of all things, and only when the mind is clear can we see the essence of all things.
Precipitate your mind and watch the situation change. Getting along with people requires paying attention to methods and methods. There are some things that need to be endured and not angry; Some people, need to be let and not investigated.
Why not eat some losses on the lips, let him score three points. Everyone needs to be respected, and everyone wants to be understood. The water is deep and silent, and the people are stable and silent. Learn to fade and learn to hold back anger in the face of dissatisfaction.
Everything cannot be too fine, too refined and there is no way; Don't be too harsh and friendless. Know how to give in, only to show the atmosphere; Know tolerance, show generosity.
You must not hide your own shortness, and the more you hide, the shorter you get; The strength of oneself cannot be promoted, and the more it rises, the less it is raised. Mo Xuan when proud, Mo Xuan when frustrated. Flowers do not have a hundred days of red, people do not have a hundred days of decline, three points rely on luck, seven points rely on themselves, just work hard, do your best, the result is not the ultimate goal, the experience of the process, is the most true understanding. Do not seek ten in everything, but only wholeheartedness; Everything is not about perfection, just doing our best.
Some things, hard work to know the results, struggle to know their potential. Flowers are light and elegant, water is light and true, and people are light and pure. To be a person needs to be light, light and fragrant. No dispute, no sycophancy, no glamorousness, no goodness. True taste in light, real fragrance in light. If the heart is fine, I am helpless; If people don't fall in love, you won't hurt. Pain is due to comparison, and disturbing is due to the heart.
Calm, so it does not hurt; Indifferent, so not annoyed. Desire is the boiling water in the pot, the human heart is the tea in the cup, the water boils because of the heat of the fire, and the heart is not startled by the coolness of the cup. When desire is cold and precipitated in the heart, it is not troubled or annoyed.
Don't laugh at other people's efforts and don't trivialize their achievements. Everyone is worth different, and there is no need to be dismissive of anyone. The useless value in your eyes may not be really useless. Not one light, not one waste.
With a humble heart, look at the people around you; With a respectful heart, look at the things around you. Others always have advantages that you can't see, and there are always values that you can't find, so there's no need to judge the efforts of others.
The ruler is short, the inch is long, and there is no perfect person in the world. Give full play to your own strengths and learn from the advantages of others in order to better improve yourself.
Right and wrong, disturbed one after another, do not look, do not listen, do not think, you can have a clear mind. Sometimes, it's not because someone else hurt you, but because you care too much. Some things don't need to be counted, time will tell; Some people don't need to look, and different ways do not conspire against each other.
The affairs of the world, the world's degrees; Human reason, human self-realization. In the face of harm, a slight smile is open-minded; In the face of insults, ignoring it is extraordinary. Patience is not cowardice, but tolerance; Concession is not incompetence, but generosity. "Consider" right and wrong, "ignore" one's own tranquility. May life be as calm as water.