Regardless of gender male or female, whether online or offline, in the process of socializing, we must understand and learn to protect our hearts.
Because there are people with what kind of quality and what purpose people in this world, not everyone will talk and interact with people with a rational and kind attitude, and not all people are worth your heart and lungs and feelings,—— including friendship and love.
For those who have no upbringing quality, people who do not respect you, people who look down on you, people who have bad intentions, etc., their words and deeds, you should not reason, let alone go to the heart, so that there will be no things and troubles.
Everything is afraid that if you are too persistent, too truthful, and you can't pass this hurdle in your heart, you will fall into endless pain and troubles, and negative emotions will accumulate. If you don't take out your heart and give it to the other party, the other party will not be able to stick a knife in your heart and hurt you.
Therefore, many of people's ideological troubles and pains are self-inflicted, self-seeking troubles, if you really know how to protect your heart, then no one can hurt your heart.
The troubles and pains of thought will be less than half, life will be easier and happier,—— many friends who are younger, kind-hearted and simple, must understand this truth.
However, this does not mean that people should bury their heads in the sand as an ostrich, rest on their laurels, and there are two major principles to abide by as a person, first, do not waste time, but spend your time on meaningful things.
Second, to make money "legally and reasonably", to ensure that you are making more and more money, the absolute number of money made is not important, as long as it is more than the original.
The most important purpose of this is not to pursue material enjoyment, because "making money" is essentially a by-product of your labor to provide value (such as products and services) to society.
If you're making more and more money, state two things:
First, the efforts you have made and the things you have done have been affirmed and recognized by the society.
Second, explain the time you have spent in the past, what you have done, the choices you have made, the ideas you have adhered to, and the path you have taken is the most important thing, so you don't have to worry about any doubts and gossip.