Shakespeare said, "The love that is pursued is good, but the love that is obtained without the pursuit is even better." ”
After falling in love with a person, it takes a lot of effort to pursue this love, and even pays a lot for it, and when you finally get this relationship, your heart must be happy. But in love, if you want to continue this state, it is inevitably a little hard.
The ideal state of love is to appreciate each other and then come together naturally. When the opposite sex gets along, such a natural will not happen to everyone, if it is just a person's unrequited love, the last relationship will be difficult to achieve.
When we have a good feeling for a person, we can't help but get close to each other and silently pay attention to everything about the other person. At the same time, in the process of getting along, we will also judge whether the other party has a good feeling for themselves through some of each other's behaviors.
If we can meet a like-minded person, this love will also have a result; if we meet that person, it is difficult for us to guess his mind, and our hearts will begin to be entangled, anxious, and do not know what to do next, and what kind of attitude to use to get along.
An Yiru said in "If Life Is Only like the First Sight": "Words are meeting the right person in the right place, looking up at the heart, and the heart blossoms in an instant, just like a woman under a peach tree, she does not expect to meet anything, but she meets love between her hands." ”
Two people can come together, in fact, there are many signs, these signs are often manifested in the state of two people getting along. What a person thinks in his heart will appear in his subconscious and then manifest itself in behavior. When you are in love with a person and want to know whether there will be some development between you, you can guess his mind through some behavior in the other person's subconscious.
Simply put, whether two people can come together, in fact, the answer is hidden in these "subconscious".
01 When two people get along, look at each other's eyes and attitudes, you can clearly understand one or two.
Isakovsky said: "Love, this is not one heart to beat another heart, but the spark of two hearts colliding together." ”
If the relationship between the opposite sex wants to develop, it is necessary for two people to fall in love with each other, so that a love can occur naturally.
When we have a crush on someone, we also want to know each other's thoughts. However, when two people are together, how can they understand each other's thoughts and know that this relationship has developed?
We often say that the phase is born from the heart, and what a person is thinking in his heart is often revealed on his face. Just like we like a person, when we see him, our hearts are joyful, and the expression on our faces naturally has joy. The most typical thing is the enthusiasm on the face and the tenderness revealed in the eyes.
I don't like a person in my heart, I don't care about the other person's feelings, and there is naturally no obvious change in expression on my face. For people we like, we have no way to achieve no change in expression, and inner joy often dominates our eyes and our attitudes.
02 When chatting, whether each other feels very close, there is no end to the topic, or will feel very embarrassed, can not find the right topic.
Zhang Xiaoxian said: "Lovers will always say a lot of boring things and do some boring things, happiness is to have someone to accompany you bored, it is rare that neither of you feel bored." ”
Between the opposite sex, as long as there is a good feeling for each other, the heart will also look forward to the chat and get along between the two people. Especially when chatting, in fact, there is no need to deliberately find any topics, and many topics will naturally come out. And in the process of chatting, you will not feel embarrassed, and you will not feel that there is no topic between each other.
People who can come together will not worry about the awkward atmosphere when they are together, nor will they worry about being bored together. Because even if it is a little boring, two people will enjoy this kind of time and will feel that this is the tacit understanding of two people.
If two people are together, as long as there is nothing to say, they will feel that the atmosphere is very awkward, but if they deliberately look for some topics to feel that the atmosphere is better, it is difficult for these two people to go to everything. Even if the relationship is confirmed, in the future together, it will feel that the relationship is difficult to maintain.
03 Will feel that the state of two people getting along is very harmonious, can accept everything about each other, or there will be disgust.
Zhang Zhixin said: "Love is an indispensable, but it can only be an accelerator to push us forward, not a stumbling block to work and study. ”
A good relationship can prompt us to grow, let us continue to improve ourselves, and then become better, give each other a better self. If in love, both people think like this, the relationship can be better maintained. We will not only feel that this relationship is very strong, but also take the initiative to grow and enjoy everything that this relationship brings.
Between the opposite sex, if the state of getting along is not so harmonious, either they have to endure each other all the time, or they will dislike some parts of the other party, which means that this relationship is difficult to maintain. In such a situation, if you still have to blindly come together, you are doomed to endure a lot of hardship in the end.
In a person's subconscious, if he does not like the other party, then the natural expression is impatience and even disgust. When two people truly love each other, these things don't exist. Not only will we change our own shortcomings, but we will also give each other the greatest patience and tolerance.
Therefore, whether two people can come together is not based on those external conditions, but on some manifestations brought about by their subconscious.