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Author: Seven Seven
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Some people have said that in the world of emotions, when a person has a crush on another person, it is equivalent to a bright and beautiful flower that blooms in the deepest part of his heart, but he has never been cared for, not known, only alone to taste this sweetness, enjoy this excitement, enjoy this loneliness, and silently endure all this.
Deeply believed, in my opinion, the crush is a person's one-man show, but also a person's soldiers and horses, as depicted in the "Yue Ren Song": this night he xi xi, the middle of the boat; today he day xi, have to be in the same boat with the prince; shame and shame, not to be ashamed; the heart is a few troubles and incessant, learning of the prince; the mountain has wood and branches, and the heart is pleasing to the king and the king does not know.
In fact, in the relationship, whether it is a male friend or a female friend, each of us will have a "crush", but compared to male friends, female friends are more likely to hide their emotions, after all, female friends are often shy and shy, and they are reserved in their bones.
It may be precisely because female friends always like to hide their feelings for male friends, always too shy to express their feelings, so male friends are not sure of the intentions of female friends, always think that "women like themselves", "women are interesting to themselves" is their own illusion.
Not enough not to forget to love a person is not hidden, even if the female friend is well hidden, when a female friend likes a male friend, the heart is secretly in love with the male friend, there will be a lot of clues in daily life, especially these performances, typical is that the female friend is secretly in love with the male friend's performance, this is definitely not the illusion of male friends.
In the final analysis, in the relationship, when a member of the opposite sex secretly likes male friends and "secretly promises" to male friends, he will secretly release the following "signals", and when he receives one, don't be stupid to miss it!
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When facing you, it will be shy and blush;
You know that when a woman likes a man, has a man in her heart, and is sincere with a man, once she gets along with or contacts with a man, it will be easy to become shy, and it is easy to blush and beat.
So you male friends, when a man finds that the girl in front of him will be because of his own proximity, will be because of his own careless physical contact, so it is very easy to become shy and blush, which is enough to show that this woman likes men, is interesting to men, and now secretly has a crush on men in her heart.
After all, in general, girls will only be prone to blushing in front of the person they love in their hearts, and will become shy because of the man's proximity, and the faces of both people will be red, then at this time, the man should understand that she is in love with herself and is secretly secretly in love with herself.
And whenever a man approaches a woman, the woman's heart will feel very happy and excited, and at the same time will feel very nervous and worried, women want to have too much communication and communication with men, but do not know how to talk to men to speak well, so if there are men who encounter this situation, there are women in front of themselves have similar performances, then men must understand that this is not an illusion, this woman is already in love with men, there are men in the heart, is secretly secretly in love with men, seize the opportunity, You can get the love you want.
When facing you, there will be intentional or unintentional gaze;
Sanmao, a writer I like very much, once said: "I can't hide my liking for someone, and even if I cover my mouth, I will run out of my eyes." Yes, when a person likes another person and is secretly having a crush on this person in his heart, the eyes will always run to the other party unconsciously, and the eyes will always look at each other intentionally or unintentionally with deep affection.
Especially when men are with women, whenever men are working seriously, talking to colleagues about work, or whenever men are eating and eating together, men can always feel as if there are two very hot eyes around them that have been watching themselves.
And whenever a man turns back to look back, he will find that the woman's face has a very unnatural expression, and will deliberately pretend to be calm, so you male friends should know that only if you really like yourself, really care about yourself, and are secretly in love with your female friends, there will be this kind of performance, although women are very fond of male friends in their hearts, very concerned about male friends, and even want to be close to male friends, but at the same time they are very afraid of male friends finding their own intentions, afraid of being rejected by male friends. I was even more afraid that I would never have any excuse to approach my male friends from now on.
You know, like a person is like this, both want to let the other party understand their own love for ta, their own love for ta, but at the same time afraid to let the other party know that they like ta, their love for ta, afraid that the other party does not like themselves, afraid that the other party will hate themselves, more afraid that their liking can not get the response they want, that kind of entangled and contradictory feelings, will make women always involuntarily look at men, It will make women always unconsciously and consciously or unconsciously look at men.
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When facing you, it will be very gentle and considerate;
When men and women get along with each other, men will find that women's attitude towards themselves will be very gentle and considerate, and treat other people is completely opposite attitudes, may always be more powerful and cold in front of other men, but in front of men, but will be very gentle and considerate to men, even when speaking, the voice will be soft to two degrees lower, giving men a feeling of delicate warbler and pearl jade voice,
Whenever a man meets such a woman, then there is no doubt that women like men, men do not have to doubt whether they think too much, because this is the performance of liking a person, because women like you, but also have a crush on men, men are more special in women's hearts, so women will treat men differently from others, and will give men the most special treatment.
After all, in the end, the reason why women are so gentle and considerate in front of men is because of the love and concern of women in the face of men, and there is also the fact that women want to leave a good impression on men and want to get men's favor, so they will do so.
When facing you, you will be very eager to express yourself;
If a man finds that there are friends of the opposite sex around him, especially in front of himself, or when he interacts with himself, he wants to show himself very much and wants to attract his attention, there is no doubt that this woman is in love with men, interested in men, has a voice for men, and is secretly secretly in love with men in her heart, but women do not dare to directly confess their love to men, and dare not directly say "I like you" to men.
However, women do not want to miss men at the same time, do not want to miss the people they like, so male friends should understand that only women who like themselves and have a crush on themselves will try their best to attract the attention of men, and will try to express themselves in front of men, after all, only by attracting men's interest in themselves and strongly showing themselves in front of men can it be possible for men to see themselves, it is possible for men to notice themselves, and it is possible to let men notice themselves, and they have the opportunity to walk with men.
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When facing you, there is an attempt to enter your heart;
Male friends should know that if there is a female friend in real life, she will always come to talk to herself often, and will always intentionally or unintentionally come to chat with herself and talk, especially when the male friend is in a bad mood, or when the mood is not good, the woman will take the initiative to find a man and is willing to choose to accompany the man.
The main reason is because women like men, women care about men, nervous about men's interests, do not want to make men unhappy all the time, and the mood is so low. More importantly, women want to understand men's confusion and want to help men solve their problems, so that the feelings of the two of you will increase and heat up, and the relationship between the two of you will no longer be the relationship of ordinary friends.
Even women can enter men's hearts and become objects that men can trust, and whenever men encounter difficulties or setbacks in the future, they will not guard against women, and they will be willing to take the initiative to talk to women. So you male friends should know that girls like this who try to enter their hearts really like themselves, really care about themselves, and secretly have a crush on themselves in their hearts.
After all, to tell the truth, the rhythm of modern people's life is very busy, time is very precious for themselves, for those who do not like, do not care, do not care, not important in their hearts, will not waste a little time, not to mention have time to listen to this person's story, there is no effort to take care of you.
Dazai Osamu wrote in the book "Human Disqualification": You can't say you hate things you hate, and you always sneak around with things you like.
In short, in the process of intersex communication, when female friends fall in love with male friends, their hearts are secretly crushing male friends, and they want to be with male friends, they will hint at male friends through the above five signals to express their liking and love for male friends. And female friends will also hope that when male friends receive these signals, they will express something to themselves, you must not be stupid to miss it!
Perhaps some male friends will retort that if the above points are all said, why are they still the "spare tire" of the other party? How to say, maybe women do like men, but the fault is that men behave too late, or they are not active enough with women and are preempted by others.
After all, sometimes in love, even if the male friend is the "spare tire" of the female friend, but you are definitely the "spare tire" with the best inner quality of the female friend, obviously you have the opportunity to turn from the "spare tire", but the male friend himself has not cherished it well.
Therefore, if male friends also meet female friends like this, they may wish to learn to be brave, learn to be bold, and take the initiative with women, knowing that time is never waiting for people, and there is no next opportunity to miss!
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