01 Preface
In life, you always have to deal with others, but not every interpersonal interaction can end successfully.
When you encounter people with different views, people who do not speculate, and those who favoritism, in order to defend their positions and interests, many times you have to argue with them, or even turn their faces.
If you are an ordinary person, you are not afraid to offend it, it is a big deal to tear your face, and you will not come and go in the future.
But we must pay attention to the fact that there are always some difficult people around us, who are not afraid to tie the knot with you, and they are afraid of not being able to cure you.
Offending such people not only has endless troubles, but sometimes endangers the family.
When the stone is big, you have to learn to walk around. In interpersonal communication, never offend these three kinds of people, it is better to swallow your anger than to have a festival.
02
Those who have nothing, who are poor and wanton, do not be offended
As the old saying goes, "The barefoot is not afraid to wear shoes", drag the family with a mouth, don't provoke nothing, because you can't go out, but he can go out.
There was a reorganized family over there, and the two brothers were not related by blood. The old man is ugly and incompetent, so there is no object by thirty-four or five. The two were handsome and learned their craft, so they got married and had children early.
These two brothers, living in a courtyard, the eldest is unbalanced in his heart, often drunk and crazy at home, one will smash the window, the other will drop things, his life is not satisfactory, and he will not let others be happy.
The second brother was holding his stomach in his heart, but he did not dare to make a big deal out of it, because he still had to think about his wife and children.
He knows that the boss has nothing, has no worries in his heart, and is jealous of others' good life, this kind of person, just waiting for you to offend him, and then stir up your life is not smooth.
Later, the second brother built a house on another piece of land in his house, although it was not large, but he hid the boss far away. When he left, he did not say harsh words, went out in a low-key manner, and since then he has drawn a clear line with the rotten man.
A moment of patience, there is really nothing, meet that kind of person whose life is terrible, you must go around, he has been abolished, so I would like to pull a few more companions.
03
People who love face very much and are easy to annoy and be angry, don't offend
There are thousands of kinds of people, and some people you say to him in public, he can not be painful or itchy. But some people who love face very much, if you embarrass him in public, he can immediately turn his face to you.
When I used to go to school, I went to work part-time in a restaurant, where I met many waiters. There is a little girl with a straight nature who likes to ridicule people, but most people treat her as a little sister, and they don't care.
Maybe everyone was too tolerant of her, which caused her to be very fearless in that place, and then a boy came to the store, several years older than her, because she was very short, and she often made fun of this shortcoming.
What she didn't know was that the boy was a face-loving person, and his height was a sore spot for others, so she couldn't stand being called short in public or mocking him.
So, when she laughed at people in public again, the boy was furious, and immediately went to beat her up. Of course, this matter must be resolved by the law in the end, but this fight, she could have avoided.
A person with shortcomings is often inferior in his heart, so he is extremely concerned about face and extremely sensitive.
When you meet such people, you must know how to take care of their feelings, and don't be repeatedly sneering. If you don't like him, don't come and go, if you have to stimulate him and make him not come off the stage, then you can't complain about him.
04
Those who are heavy on revenge and do things by means, do not offend
There is such a person with a very small heart, what year and month have you done something that offends him, he has been grumpy all his life, as long as he seizes the opportunity, he will definitely make a conspiracy to rectify you, and you will not be able to prevent it.
When I was a child living in my rural hometown, we were children in an alley, always laughing and fighting together, sometimes it was inevitable to push and shove fights, but most parents did not go to their hearts, and rarely saw a face.
But I remember clearly that there was a family who was particularly short-sighted, and his child got into a fight with the children of the neighbors next to the wall, and he went out to make a big fuss with people, and people scolded him a few times in turn, and since then he has been calculated.
He deliberately dug a water canal in his own yard next to the roots of people's walls, and when it rained, it was full of water, with the purpose of flooding people's houses.
Because of the good relationship before, he knew that people had a lot of housework, and after the relationship was frozen, he had to publicize it everywhere he went, which made people's situation particularly embarrassing.
Offending the villain, the result is really not too good, the villain is sinister and cunning, the resentment in his heart can not be sprinkled for a lifetime, entangled by this kind of person, doomed to be difficult to be quiet.
05
epilogue
As a person, try not to make a vendetta with others, especially the above three kinds of people, if you offend them, I am afraid that you will have endless troubles.
When encountering people and things that are not going well, you must learn to comfort yourself, and there is no need to argue with people for the sake of being quick. You are a gentleman, you still have a happy life to enjoy, why should you entangle with the wicked, bad mood, chaotic measure.
Swallowing your voice is never a shameful thing, at some appropriate time, you can remain silent, but you will avoid a lot of unnecessary trouble and harm.
If you really can't figure it out, you can also console yourself with this: the wicked still need the wicked to grind.
He has the upper hand in you, and he will bully others in the future, and when he encounters someone more sinister than him, he will have a hard time.
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