In interpersonal communication, the ability to recognize people must be passed.
Because everyone is like a duckweed floating on the lake, and everyone who meets them depends on fate.
It's impossible not to communicate with people, so in order to protect yourself, you have to judge who is the person worth associating with.
To get along with the unwholesome, we must learn to "get out of the mud and not stain"; to get along with the good, we must learn their excellence.
It is often more important to find the one who is not good than the good.
If, in life, there are people who are so kind to you, then stay away as soon as possible, there is no need to continue to contact.
First: perfunctory people to you
There are cheerful people in life, and naturally there are also introverts.
But even an introvert would not be perfunctory to someone who cared.
If your relationship needs you to maintain, if you chat with him, he is always perfunctory.
That person definitely doesn't care about you as you think.
You may think you've been friends for years, but that's just what you think.
In the other person's heart, you are dispensable, after all, he does not care about your affairs.
A person who really cares about you will be able to echo everything.
It was said before that everyone has their own life after adulthood, and it is normal not to return.
But this is actually not normal at all, because modern people do not leave the mobile phone, even if they are busy, they will go to see the news.
Even if he forgets to reply to you one day, he will make it clear to you, rather than simply ignoring what you sent.
If the other party is so perfunctory to your topic, then he really does not deserve deep friendship, and your relationship is just a trend of interest.
Second: just picture your good people
Some people are just so realistic that they want to take advantage of you at all times.
Maybe you also know that the other party is such a snobbish person, but after a long time, you will find that such a person does not need to have deep friendships.
The other party will not bring you any benefits in life, but will continue to trouble you and use you as a tool.
They won't be your friends, and you'll just be the connections they occasionally think of.
What friends need to do is mutual respect, if he only wants you and does not help you, then break off contact as soon as possible.
Third: People who look down on you
Everyone in the world is not perfect, and naturally there will be many people who look down on you.
But if a person can't do even the minimum of respect, then why bother with it?
In daily life, people who look down on you and belittle you everywhere will only make you hurt and become inferior.
People may grow up in tempering, but they can't resist verbal attacks all day long.
It is an unfortunate thing to have people around you who belittle you.
Don't think you can warm the other person's heart, this is impossible, because the country is easy to change the nature and difficult to move.
People are actually quite tired of living, and your sincerity should not be wasted by those bad people.
Between people, only by being sincere with each other can the friendship last forever.
Some people are heartless, they only care about their own feelings.
Don't bother with them, either, because there are good people and there are evil people.
If you think too much, you will be hurt, and it is wise not to worry about hiding far away.
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