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Recently, I saw a very heartfelt sentence on the Internet:
"I met you at the wrong time, I can't be a lover, I can't be a confidant, I can't be a friend, I can't be a stranger, I can't put it down and I can't forget it, where should I put you?" 」
After reading it, it makes people cry.
Yes, it has always been shallow, but the affection is deep, since jin sergeant, why sheng zhen mo.
Once we all thought that "white tea Qinghuan has nothing else to do, I am waiting for the wind to wait for you", and later we learned that "bitter wine folds willows are separated from each other now, no wind and no moon and no you".
Sometimes, the order of people's appearance is really important, at the wrong time, when you meet the right person, you can only lament that fate is destined, and a business is difficult to balance.
There is a kind of encounter called fate
Zhang Ailing said:
With a good person in your heart, your eyes are full of passers-by, the people you should meet can't hide, the robberies you should experience can't escape, and the encounter between people and people is not accidental, it is all fate.
Yes, every encounter in life has its meaning.
Some people teach you to love; some people teach you to grow; and some people leave you with a lifetime of memories and regrets.
For example, some landscapes can only be liked, but not collected; some people are only suitable for encounters, but not suitable for long-term companionship.
I don't know if you've ever had a scene like this:
By chance, you pick up old things, see dappled old photos, and turn to a certain page of a yellowed book, and you suddenly remember the past, the person who was sealed in the depths of your memory.
The memories of the moments that came roaring, unconsciously, the tears had already wet the eyes.
The past that you think has long been forgotten has always been hidden in your heart;
The person you think has long since been put down can still hook your soft intestines.
It is not that you are not in love enough, and no one is betraying, but you have still come to the crossroads of fate, one to the left, one to the right, and no one can turn back.
Perhaps, this is called fate.
Destined to meet, to hold each other's hands among thousands of people, to taste the joy of love together;
Destiny is destined to part ways, to let go of each other's hands in the crowds, and to go to different futures.
There is a kind of love, called love
In this life, there must be such a person, it is your destiny.
He may not be the first person you fall in love with, nor the person who accompanies you to the end, but he is the person you will never forget for the rest of your life.
When you are sober, you may also be able to gently mention him, only to treat the past as a joke;
After getting drunk and sleeping, you will be too wronged to think of him.
How did two people who had obviously loved each other so much come to the point where they had to separate.
You don't know who to blame or what else you can do, you just accept the set ending and watch him silently withdraw from your world, just as he did when he burst in.
Heaven does not care for lovers, and must arrange for the two to be separated.
Sometimes I really can't help but blame the cruelty of heaven, and since I don't intend to let you have a happy ending, then why do you have to arrange for you to meet?
Know how happy you are when you are in love, how painful it is when you are apart; how beautiful your vows are, how sad your memories are later.
In the years after he left, how many times did he dream back in the middle of the night, how many times he was drunk, and he returned to your heart again and again to make waves, declaring that you had never completely forgotten him.
There is a kind of rest of life, called each other to be well
If you had the opportunity to re-choose, would you still choose to meet him when you knew that the ending was separate?
I think 99% of people, the answer will be yes.
Even if you say hard, "I'd rather never meet than leave in the future", in fact, even if you know that you can't go to the end, you can't afford to miss this short intersection with him.
Like a moth to a fire, for the light and warmth of longing, knowing that it is self-destruction, it is still so desperate.
Because a lot of times, feelings are simply not something we can control ourselves.
People who can make your heart move, meet a hundred times or will be moved;
Let the people you have loved, no matter what, still fall in love.
The hand of fate has turned the clouds and rain, and we have never been able to resist.
Someone once said that people who can't be together are the wrong people.
But I feel that even if there is no fate to the end, it is lucky to have a love.
The joy he once brought you is true, the stories you have experienced together are worth cherishing, the years you have walked together are worth remembering, and that is enough.
Every encounter is an incomparably beautiful gift in life. When fate comes, it is gladly accepted; when fate goes, do not force it.
Love must not be the norm of life, and there is no need to be surprised to forget it.
You don't have to worry about whether to turn back or put it down, just let some people and some things become secrets buried deep in the heart, and be properly placed for a lifetime.
From then on, meditate, meditate, meditate, and be well.
The wine glass is too shallow to be long; the alley is too short to walk white-haired.
There are always regrets in life, so no matter what the ending is, it is a great fate to have met and fall in love.
I am fortunate to be in the snow together in this day, and I can be regarded as a common whitehead in this life.
An encounter, a lifetime to remember; a companionship, a lifetime of peace.
For the rest of my life, hello, I'm on a sunny day...
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