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Do you believe in fate? I believe that many people will deny that there is no so-called fate in a person's life, and they will always think that everything they have experienced is just an accident or coincidence.
You will also think who you will meet, and who you will really be with in the end, but only by your own efforts and efforts, after all, the happiness and sweetness of a love are often inseparable from each other's efforts and efforts.
But sometimes it is often because of some so-called gains and losses in real life and feel overly emotional, it is difficult to really see very open, more often it will always become sluggish, or lose the courage to move forward, lose the direction of progress.
Instead of this, it is better to believe in the so-called fate, in fact, sometimes calm down and think carefully, a person's life, everything you experience seems to be in the dark arrangement, for some things, often no matter how hard you try, you can not really get.
Believing in fate, on the one hand, is to enable you to truly understand how to cherish the people and things you encounter in real life, rather than blindly relying on your own thoughts to do things, and on the other hand, it is also to tell that whether you get or lose, it is only fate, and there is no need to control your emotions because of gains and losses.
So in reality, you will find that some people's lives will always be very easy, it seems that there is never a so-called trouble, and every day is full of happiness and sweetness.
But in fact, it is not that they are not troubled, but their hearts are really aware that all this is the best arrangement, so why bother? Thinking too much is just adding to the annoyance.
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In real life, most of the time we always care about who we will meet in our lives, and whenever we meet someone we really like, we will go to the other party to confess to each other, eager to immediately take the other party for ourselves.
But when you have it and then suddenly lose it, your heart is more often unable to accept reality, and you will always complain blindly, complaining that your life has too many helplessness and twists, complaining about the injustice of heaven to yourself, etc., in short, a series of negative energies also follow.
In fact, many times all the unhappiness in the heart is often because of the troubles caused by thinking too much, not being able to face reality, but choosing to escape from reality.
We are always longing for a happy life, a partner who truly loves himself and can give himself a sense of security, but it seems that these so-called pursuits are just fantasies.
But blindly complaining often can not really solve the problem or problem, rather than this, you may wish to think from another angle or thought, I believe that you can naturally get a new answer.
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Who you will meet, in fact, has long been destined, for the word fate, itself has been full of countless beauty, people's lives go around, all the encounters are naturally all you should have experienced in your life.
"There is a reason to meet thousands of miles, there is no reason not to meet each other", because there is a fate, it will meet, it is precisely because of the debt between each other, will meet, in fact, every couple can be together, you have to believe that this is the fate.
You will find that although some people have a deep intersection with you, they do not seem to have too much affection between you, and some people have only met you a few times and have become the people you have been obsessed with.
For the thing of fate, it is often not that you can ask for it, the deep edge is shallow, it is all doomed, the fate is scattered, with the wishes of heaven, the loss of some things is actually just telling you that it does not belong to you.
There is a saying: "All encounters in the world are actually reunions after a long absence." "Many people will believe that some people's encounters are actually the debts of past lives, and this life is the continuation of past lives, which is also the meaning of fate initiative.
Back to reality, you will find that whether it is the right person or the wrong person, whether it is the person who brings you hurt or happiness, their appearance often brings you a certain experience of life and love, and is also an indispensable part of your growth process.
Therefore, the so-called different perspective mentioned in the second part of the article is also telling you that some people leave just to let you meet better people, and some people appear to make up for your regrets.
What belongs to you will always belong to you, and although you try harder, the final result is often just unsatisfactory, but it will also bring too many troubles to your life.
At the end of the article:
No matter what, I hope that you can thank the people who have come to your life, who you will meet, has long been destined, and it is also destined, so everything is the best arrangement.
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