The author ∣ ink language Qingqiu
Source∣ An Dongyue (ID:andongyue1)
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Understanding is a profound understanding and a fit for the soul.
Thousands of pets, not as one person understands you, knows everything about you, knows your heart.
Just as a goose understands the depth of the sky, it can fly higher; just like a fish understands the wonderful use of water, it can only accompany it for a lifetime; just like a falling leaf understands that life can be reincarnated, and it is only when it floats to zero...
"The saddest thing in this world is not that you are separated from your lover by yin and yang, but that you can never find someone who really understands you." 」
The person who understands you is the noble person in your life, and the rest of your life, spending time with the person who understands you, is the real happiness.
01.
Those who understand you do not have to explain; those who do not understand you need to explain
Every autumn, the geese will fly south and fly high above the sky.
Once, when the geese were tired and landed on the edge of the pond to rest and drink water, a frog saw it and asked, "Are you not tired of flying like this?" It would be nice to hide in a cave in the winter like me. ”
The leading goose smiled and said nothing.
After drinking the water, the geese took off, and one of the geese could not help but be a little curious, so he asked the leading geese.
The leading goose said: "No matter how much you talk to people who don't understand themselves, it is useless, it is better to smile slightly, save time, and do not waste your tongue." ”
The goose soon understood that every species has its own way of survival, and no matter how much you talk to people who don't understand, it will not help, it is better not to say.
Life is like this, there is no need to persuade others to understand themselves, and people who really understand you do not need words.
People come together because of their fate.
The edge is shallow, passing by; the edge is deep, straight into the heart.
The person who understands you is the one who has a deep fate. Looking back and smiling five hundred years ago, I have become a confidant in this life.
The person who understands you does not have to explain, what he thinks, thinks, pursues, is confused, painful, happy, happy, he knows everything in his heart, as if he is another self.
"A man who understands you is better than a thousand passers-by." A word that understands you is more than countless comforts. ”
Words are not much, the heart is the warmest, the love is not hot, intimate is good.
People who understand you, often in a word, are simple and clear, do not need to use clever words to twist and turn, understand your situation, do not understand your people, only know to stand in their own position to speak, why do you have to explain it?
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People who understand you have a sharp mind
"Tacit understanding in the mind has nothing to do with matter and has nothing to do with profit. It is the affinity of temperament between friends and lovers, and it is the dependence of the heart and the heart. ”
Beware of reaching a closer distance between the heart and the heart, and a tacit understanding will be formed. The person who understands you is the one who is integrated into your heart, and that kind of spiritual connection is such a happy thing.
Imagine that the person you love is at any end of the world, at a certain moment or even a certain second, you send a greeting message at the same time, remember how wonderful this feeling is almost at the same time, even magical.
Love, of course, heats up more and more in the heart.
Although the people who love you may not necessarily understand you, the people who understand you must love you.
A friend said something she felt very happy about.
One day after work, she and her husband came home almost at the same time, and the two bought vegetables at the same time, because both of them looked at the refrigerator and there was no food. The two smiled at each other.
The friend's mind turned and he said to his husband, "Let's write down the dishes we bought and see how many of them are the same." ”
The husband laughed and said nothing, picked up a pen and wrote. A minute later, the two were stunned, almost identical.
Fish is her favorite, meat is his favorite, ribs are her favorite, potatoes are his favorite...
Each person bought their own love to eat and the other loved to eat, and the tacit understanding of the soul made the two people who loved each other feel warmer.
The person who understands you, who understands everything about your life, your habits, your work and rest time, all your subtleties, he will remember it.
Only by understanding can we have a sharp mind; only by understanding can we make life more exciting.
03.
Thousands of pampered, not as many as one person understands you
Walking through the red dust, it is a pity that you can't have someone who understands yourself.
"Happiness is love, warmth, encounter, the only you in my life." The happiness a woman wants is to have someone who loves herself and understands herself, and no matter how much ability he has, always leave the best and most to you. ”
Meet a person who understands you, even if the whole world is far away from yourself, it doesn't matter, there is sunshine with him, and there is hope with him.
The beauty of life is nothing more than to talk and laugh with a person who understands himself, grow old together, watch the sunrise and sunset together, and enjoy the time of life drop by drop, until both people are old, lying on the hospital bed, they can hold hands and face the final end of life together.
Thousands of pampered, how many people can enter your heart? When you are lonely, when you are lonely, who will accompany you? Spoiling you, just giving you love, can't really go into your world, relieve your worries, and take on everything for you.
And the person who understands you is the noble person in your life, who knows that you understand you, who is beautiful because of him in life, and whose life is wonderful because of him.
Thousands of pampered, not as good as to understand you alone, may we all find a person who understands ourselves, and spend the rest of our lives with him or her in peace.
Because knowing you is the one who truly loves you.
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