Opening Remarks:
In this life, flowers bloom impermanently, the moon has a full circle, and there will always be many unsatisfactory.
For amorous people, missing is often the most torturous and annoying thing.
For people who are connected with your heart, missing is a painful and happy thing. Just because the amorous annoyance, and the people who "understand you" will make people happy.
Shen Congwen once wrote:
Perhaps, love is like this, meeting is a kind of fate, and meeting someone who understands you is the icing on the cake of life.
The road of life is long, the more you live, the more you will find: time is hurried, many people, will gradually drift away from you; many encounters, will be dispersed in advance; many fates, gathered and scattered by people.
The years do not stop, there will always be "things are people and not things to rest", yesterday you still dig out your heart and lungs, and talk to each other about the people who are sincere, it is likely that today, you will learn to shut up for him and learn to enjoy loneliness.
The world is long, and what we long for is to meet a person who understands himself with warmth in his heart; he can know that you are cold and warm, and he can understand your sorrow and joy. However, on the road of searching, there will always be a smile at the beginning, but it will eventually become polite.
There is only one person, he approaches you, he is with you, he steps through the thorns with you, concentrates on you, lets you find the direction of life, so that you will not be in the gap of time, a person foolish persistence
He makes you understand that the original "people, the more they grow up, the lonelier they are" may also be a lie; it turns out that it is so beautiful to meet a person who understands you.
Soul Mate: Meet you, warmest
Liao Yimei once said: In this life, it is not rare for people to meet love and sex, but it is rare to meet understanding.
Yes, the person who loves you may not understand you, but the person who understands you, he will definitely love you deeply.
Even if he doesn't say anything or do anything, as long as he looks at you with one look, you will be full of strength, and you will know that no matter what you say or do, you have something to rely on.
Because there is a silent magnetic field between you, which is implicated in each other.
Just like, in the vast sea, you encounter wind and waves, and he is like the captain at the helm, always moored behind you to protect you, no matter what dangers and obstacles, he will avoid the reef, face the wind and waves, and escort you to a safe harbor.
In this life, you have met thousands of people, and the most fortunate thing is to meet him to bring you joy, bring you laughter, when you are lonely, he gives you comfort; when you are lonely, he gives you warmth.
The feeling he gives you is: in the brilliant fireworks, someone accompanies you to appreciate it; in the wind and snow, someone plays an umbrella for you.
Once upon a time, the carriage and horse were slow, so slow that they only loved one person in their lifetime. But in the present, you are accompanied by each other, side by side, whether it is the end of the world, whether it is far away from thousands of rivers and mountains, you are all dependent on each other's hearts.
When the flowers bloom, take a photo and send it to him in the distance; when the rain falls, he will write a piece of paper to write down the gentle affection; when the wind rises, he will pick up a fallen leaf to commemorate the current silk.
The ferry of life, in the comings and goings, he gave you, the most affectionate companionship.
Soul Mate: Magnetic field together, understand you best
Some of the love that people encounter in this life are close at hand, but their hearts are at the end of the world; some are thousands of mountains away, but they know each other.
Only because the companionship of the soul requires the communication of the spiritual level and the union of the magnetic field.
A sentence of understanding can solve all kinds of sorrows in the world; a hug can tread through thousands of mountains and rivers. Your persistence, in the eyes of others, is like a joke, but in the eyes of those who understand you, it is silently cherished and deeply dependent.
Love in this world, to say a word about the earth and the heavens, seems to have some years of long time; to talk about this life and this life, it seems that there are some illusions that are difficult to distinguish.
The man who understands you, what he gives you is always: I understand, I understand.
Even if you complain to him, even if you roar and complain to him, the attitude he gives you is: let you live innocently, make you laugh wildly, let you look up for the rest of your life, and be willing.
There will always be people who say that people who are too sensible, no one is distressed. Only because, a person's inner vulnerability, always eager to hide with a smile.
However, living in this world, there will always be some impermanence, there will always be some wind, frost, rain and snow, which will always make you covered with muddy water, and will always make it difficult to walk under your feet... Therefore, living timidly does not mean cowardice, but having someone to make you rely on is the most beautiful happiness in this life.
The so-called years are quiet, but someone has seen through your vulnerability, given you dependence, and when you are isolated and helpless, he has seen through the loneliness in your eyes and given you a solid arm.
Soul Mate: The magnetic field is the same, wordless and warm
I once saw a sentence: only love, more like an encounter, the beauty posed after the prosperity, the desolate gesture, the thought of the past, "the mountains have no edges, the heavens and the earth are together, but dare to be with the king."
Most people will know how to cherish it after losing it, and only then will they regret it after missing it.
Whether a relationship can last for a long time has never been determined by your original heartbeat, but when you encounter anything, you can clasp your fingers, no matter life or death, no matter whether you are sad or happy, no matter the end of the world, this life will never be separated.
Time is like a mirror, illuminating people's hearts, illuminating the past, and illuminating time. Some people come to you, even if they don't belong to you, but they will make you remember deeply.
People live in this world, seemingly humble, but in fact full of life. Fireworks are brilliant, flowers bloom and fall, although they are all instantaneous, but they are dazzling.
So, soul mate, the person who understands you, he will be the best memory of your life, and he will also be the most perfect hug in your heart.
In Jin Yong's novel, Ling Huchong once said: There are some things that we can't control in ourselves, so we have to control ourselves.
Soul mate is the bitter medicine that heals us, makes everything around you brilliant, and makes your inner incomprehension be relieved. You will no longer be sleepless and broken, nor will you be in a deep state of self-understanding, and you have given each other the most beautiful taste of love in the world.
Under the green brick eaves, you will always see the warmest sky.
The vicissitudes of life, the most fortunate thing, is that one day, two people have white heads, but still deeply love. Life is short, that person did not make you wait, did not let you spend your mind, let your love end without a disease.
Because he understands you, even if you are cold, he will use his patience enough to appease you; even if you scatter the love, he will use his obsessive love to provoke your heartache.
With this person around you, the years no longer make you a person, but let you bear a lot, and you will laugh and laugh; let you not be the frog at the bottom of the well, you can quietly gaze at the world in the vast universe.
Only because he gave you the warmest memories in the world, the most beautiful years are quiet, and the love he gives you is the same as you: the magnetic field is the same, and the wordless is warm.
Author, Frank Fox
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May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!