In "That Year the Flowers Bloomed and the Moon Was Round", Wu Ping said to Zhou Ying:
I just want to be with you, you, I think it's funny, you're in trouble, I think it's cute, even if you lie to me, I can't be angry with you. 」
It can be seen that a man is really in love with a person, and he cannot control himself.
Even if you are in the eyes of others, no matter how bad, you are very noisy, you are very noisy, but in his eyes, it is a kind of cuteness, a kind of "romance" that attracts him.
The real heart is often impossible to hide, and the true love is even more uncontrollable.
So, when a person, he put you into his future life plan, with you, as his task for the rest of his life, to take care of you, as his habit, then he must have identified you and wanted to live with you for a lifetime.
Life, many beautiful things are only at the moment of "first meeting", too much love, with the passage of time, will disappear little by little.
However, his deep affection for you has not dissipated because of the passage of time, but has tenderly touched every day you are together with strong emotions.
So, when a man is trying to do "these three things" for you, don't doubt that he is holding his "three hearts" and loving you affectionately.
Understand you "patiently"
Patience, for men, is a very important thing.
A lot of love, when first contact, men will be particularly patient with the person they like, but as the two people get along more and more deeply, his patience and the depth of love for you will be reduced accordingly.
Just because a man will be less concerned about what he can firmly grasp, and more and more interested in the unknown.
Like, his freshness to a woman.
So, if you have been together for a long time, he has not shown boredom, but more and more inseparable from you, more and more understanding of you, so much half, he has identified you in this life.
Understand, seemingly simple, in fact, is the sublimation of your feelings.
You will find that he understands more and more your desires and stops, understands your thoughts, understands your efforts, understands your sadness and sorrow... He will no longer always ask you questions as he used to, always not knowing why you "suddenly cry", suddenly "happy", he knows what you are thinking, he knows why you are doing that.
Most importantly, he has more understanding and more approval for your "understanding".
You have inadvertently established a tacit understanding, and inadvertently, with a look at each other, you can know each other's psychological activities.
In fact, the so-called "husband and wife", but the two people know each other more and more, because they understand, so they will know the efforts behind each other, will give her a silent, quiet waiting, will hold her hand tightly when others are against her, and give her support.
And, if a man, he does not want to understand you at all, his attitude towards you, is always that you just need to listen to him, you say anything, you have any point of view, if you contradict him, he will think that you are against him, you are defending yourself.
This kind of love will often be more bitter the more love, and the more two people love the stranger.
Therefore, if you and him, the longer you get along, the more interested you are in each other, the more you get along, then he must be the right person for you.
Take care of you "with heart"
The years are thin and cold, and the person that every woman longs to meet can avoid her disturbance and uneasiness in this life, and can calmly stay with each other and face the vicissitudes of the world indifferently.
Therefore, if this person next to you, he comes into your life, brings you calm warmth, brings you spiritual dependence, then he must be loving you with his heart.
There is a dialogue in "Rolling Stone Love":
"I am a very insecure person, and I can't really do it for a person, and I don't want to be trapped by love." 」
Someone replied to him: "But if you don't love, how can you know if you really love this person?"
Yes, if you love someone, you are always measuring your own gains and losses, measuring whether you will be hurt, then most of them are not so loving.
Therefore, in life, if a person, he pays you unreservedly, intimately and meticulously takes care of you, it must be very loving and loving. He doesn't have so many bells and whistles for you, and he doesn't have so many calculations, but just lets you experience the simple warmth of ordinary days.
Even if there is a dispute between you, he will let you, not willing to provoke you to be angry, even if it is a cold war, you "provoke" him, he still sees you staying up late at night, will hurt you, will silently bring you a glass of milk, hinting that you "go to sleep"... This kind of calmness will make you feel that he has put you in his bones, and every detail can reveal a strong affection.
In love, the most sincere thing is the heart.
A love that does not have a heart, no matter how many sweet words are said, no matter how many romantic routines are used, it is difficult to escape the punishment of time, so that the more two people love, the lighter.
And the person who wants to take good care of you must be the one who wants to live with you for the rest of his life.
"One heart" just wants to "sleep with you for the rest of your life"
Perhaps, what every woman is most afraid of is the person you meet, who obviously looks very much in love with you, but in his heart, his attitude towards you is: take the kidney, not the heart.
The anxiety of life makes too many people give up the idea of ending from one end to another, treat a feeling, more impetuous, more enjoyment, but less persistence, less patience.
How many people in the bar, a few glasses of wine, turned around and went to open the room card arm in arm, and how many people, a few looked at each other, "talked about love", but did not talk about two months, they hated each other and broke up.
Love, in their eyes, seems to have become a fast-moving consumer, eating fast and digesting fast. Then, in the long run, time has passed, and then issued a sigh: Why in this life, can not find the person who can hold each other's hands in the wind and rain?
It's not that you can't find it, but you don't really look for it, you don't really love it.
Men really love a person, he will not treat you as a meal, eat it, but will take out the heart of care, seriously hurt you, love you as a career to do in this life, and treat you seriously.
He is not a saint, and he will be moved by chance, but when he faces temptation, he will tell himself, "There are already people who have slept together in this life", so he will restrain himself, be polite to others, and be responsible for himself.
He will not marry you home, even if he has completed the task of life, but will seriously guard your relationship in marriage, is really every day after getting up to eat breakfast together, cook together after work, clean up the dishes, and sleep with you on the sofa watching TV, holding hands and sleeping together.
The so-called love is nothing more than companionship, but sharing every fragment of life.
Conclusion:
Li Zongsheng has a lyric: Think but can't get, what do you want to live?
Yes, if you love someone but can't be together, you will definitely remember it for a lifetime. However, if you love someone very much, but do not cherish it well, it will be the biggest regret in this life.
Therefore, the meaning of love is probably to identify each other, to allow a lifetime, to hold hands for a lifetime, and not to let go again.
A man's true love for a person, he will not temporarily walk around you, bring you a good memory, but he will truly live with you, and paint every detail of life with a strong color.
If people meet the right person, most of the feelings are that you have companionship around you, you are no longer alone, your life, with sharing, your loneliness, someone to share.
Therefore, meeting is fate, and keeping each other is the duty.
If the person next to you, he has taken out a heart that understands you, knows that you are cold and warm, understands your sorrow and joy; he has taken out a heart that accompanies you, takes care of your diet and living, cares about your physical health; he takes out a heart that loves you, and is single-minded to you, not that you can't do it... Then, you must cherish him well.
The most feared thing in life is that they have loved each other for a long time, but then things are not human, parting ways, so that the love that was once there is full of irony and ridicule.
Therefore, if you love, love deeply, and don't let each other have regrets.
You know, in this life, it is easy to meet a person who likes you, and it is too difficult to meet a person who is sincere to you.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!