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Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
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As the saying goes: "The body is not as safe as the heart, and the width of the house is not as wide as the heart." ”
If the heart is wide enough, how can it be uneasy, and if the heart is not wide, it is difficult to sleep and eat! Especially in middle age, when you begin to learn not to worry about these things, your life can go over and become happier.
Happiness does not lie in having more, but in thinking less. Not being angry is a kind of wisdom; not complaining is a kind of cultivation; not thinking about it is a kind of maturity.
A wide heart means compatibility with the external world, and it also means that the inner world is open and generous to people and things.
As the saying goes, "Life is not satisfactory, nine times out of ten." "People will always encounter many helpless things in the world. When you stumble, you must learn to understand more, complain less, and learn to face all kinds of injustices and unbearables on the road of life with a non-complaining attitude.
Regardless of whether it is a kind of maturity. This kind of maturity is - "Let him argue for the long and the short, and my heart is as wide as the sea."
If the heart is wide, the road is wide, the heart is good, and if the life is good, you can see farther. Do not care about things, with an attitude of tolerance, letting go, understanding, and contentment to face the gains and losses of fame and fortune, sorrow and joy on the road of life, in order to harvest the beauty and happiness on the road of life.
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Silence is a kind of wisdom.
The more I grew up, the more I understood that the truly intelligent people were never people who talked a lot, but people who knew how to be silent. In this life, chattering is not a good thing, rather than making people noisy, it is better to be silent at the right time.
In a person's life, some condensed wisdom often does not need to talk more than one tongue. There is a way that more words will be lost.
Silence is not cowardice, it is not incompetence, it is a wisdom, but also a choice. See through without debunking, keep silent; selectively shut up and understand in your heart.
If a person says too much, things that are not a problem may make new problems. True wise people never compete for victory and defeat in words, but walk in life in literacy and morality!
The person who doesn't understand you is also talking in vain; the person who understands you, you don't say, he knows. Understanding or not understanding lies in the choice, how others think is not important, we ask the heart is not ashamed of it!
Can't speak, it's better not to say, how many good intentions have done bad things, all because of a mouth? When people reach a certain age, when they want to argue, they think about it and forget it, so they choose silence
Learn to be silent, let your heart calm down, let the accumulation of precipitation bloom in life, in order to go farther and farther on the road of life.
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When people reach middle age, there are elderly people who need to be taken care of, and children who need to be raised, and the pressure is like a mountain tsunami. A middle-aged man, if he does not have a strong heart, really can't withstand these pressures!
The panic of the world is only a few pieces of silver, but this piece of silver is a few pairs, which can solve all kinds of panic in the world. When people reach middle age, they must put down their faces and do whatever they can earn.
Money gives us convenience, and it is a necessary medium for our survival in today's society. A person who has no money means that he has no qualifications to choose, and at the same time, he has to endure all kinds of grievances and suffering.
Money can't buy everything, but it can give people the confidence to survive. All human suffering comes from poverty, so too many people are poor and afraid.
If people want to be self-reliant, they must be self-reliant, and self-improvement must be autonomous, and autonomy is to work hard to make money.
It is better to rely on who is better than to rely on yourself, there is money in the card, there is oil in the car, there is electricity in the mobile phone, and this sense of security of stepping on the implementation cannot be given to anyone except himself.
People live well in middle age and work hard to earn money, which is the greatest happiness in the world.
A girl who likes words, I am glad to meet you in my words, and I am willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.