Life is like a journey. On this journey, you will meet a lot of people.
Some people may pass by and will no longer have any intersection; some people, but a general friend in life; some people, will become the most important people in your life; some people, friends, but go their separate ways.
In the vast sea of people, encounter is fate. It is even more difficult to further develop the relationship. Therefore, for those who appear in their own lives, they must know how to cherish.
Especially these three people, if you meet, please be sure to cherish them.
01 People who understand you
Writer Liao Yimei said that in this life, people encounter love and encounter sex, which is not rare, and what is rare is to encounter understanding.
It can be seen that "knowing you" is such a precious feeling, that thoughtfulness that knows cold and knows heat, and that good feeling of pity for each other... Not everyone can easily give it to you.
The most frightening thing in life is that you treat others with enthusiasm, but in exchange for indifference; you pour out your heart and lungs to be good to a person, but when you are in a difficult situation, you are shot in the back by him.
All your expectations have turned into disappointment, and the other party does not care about you at all, trampling on your affection. When encountering such a person, no one can smile and face it.
If a person really understands you, he will not be willing to hurt you easily, nor will he always give you a surprise blow when you are at your most beautiful.
In this life, if you can meet a person who understands you, whether the other party is male or female, it is the greatest happiness in your life.
He may not be very good, nor may he be perfect, but he can go to the depths of your soul and always be in tune with you.
He can understand what you say; he will support what you want to do; he will support you when you take a detour; he will accompany you without hesitation; you fall into a low point, and he will pull you out of spite of himself...
He will not be like some people, just say beautiful things and do not do practical things, but put himself into practice and do things that really care about you.
He understands your pain and troubles, is willing to face you together, gives you reasonable advice when you hesitate, and points you in the right direction when you are confused...
Such a person is a good friend of your life, and you must not easily lose your feelings.
02 Initiate contact with your person
In this life, decades of time, it is not long to say that it is long, and it is not short to say that it is short.
There are many people who have walked with us all the way, but as we walk, everyone gradually disperses and their feelings fade.
Someone has since disappeared into the vast sea of people, there is no longer contact, your joys and sorrows, your everything, are no longer related to him.
Perhaps, once you said "forever together" with wine and drunkenness, but these words dissipated in time with the passage of time.
However, there are still some people in your life who will worry about you wherever they go.
Even if you may lose contact for a while, he will find a way to contact you again. He wants to know your information, you're doing well, he'll bless you, you're having a bad time, and he'll help you get out of trouble together.
Such a person is someone who really cares about you, and it is also a friendship worth maintaining for a lifetime.
03 The person who has been with you all the time
Miyazaki said that life is a train to the grave, there will be many stations on the road, it is difficult for anyone to accompany the whole journey from beginning to end.
Some people, you and him are only a few stops of love; some people, but they will not abandon you all their lives.
He cherishes the time with you and enjoys the years with you. He is willing to accompany you with his life and draw a complete end to this life.
It is said that companionship is the longest confession of affection. Such a person must love you from the bottom of his heart.
The red dust is rolling, the temptation is everywhere, and there are a few people who can still maintain a heart that will never change. The world is cumbersome, life is a chicken feather, there are many people who start with a vigorous, but finally gradually drift away.
And the person who has been by your side despite all difficulties and has been by your side without complaint or regret is worth your life to respond to the warmth he gives you.
In this life, many things may not be decided by us, but our feelings are controllable by ourselves.
Who you really love, who you should cherish the most, in fact, you know best in your heart.
On the road of life, not everyone is worth our hearts and lungs to be good to him, but these few people who can always accompany us in this life, you must not easily fail.
In the vast sea of people, you can meet people who are really good to you, which does not know how much luck it has taken you, please be sure to learn to cherish.
Don't hurt those who are willing to accompany you for the rest of your life because of your own carelessness.
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