There are many celebrities in the entertainment industry who dot on children, and we can always hear some negative news, most of which are over-indulgent and lack of discipline for children, which leads to some troubles for children, such as Li Shuangjiang and Mengge's child Li Tianyi.
There is also a type of maternal love, which is completely deformed, breaks through moral boundaries and violates ethics. Mother's love is great, but it also needs to abide by the bottom line, and mother's love without a bottom line will definitely damage the child's physical and mental health.
Previously, Hong Kong sister Li Jiaxin posted a photo of her eight-year-old son bathing in Zhihu, which caused widespread controversy among netizens.
In the photo, Li Jiaxin is only wearing a narrow bikini, and her eight-year-old son is huddled in the bathtub and playing in the water, not only that, but also frequently posted photos of hugging and kissing with her son, and even one is in the pool, her son pressed on her and kissed affectionately, I don't know, I thought it was a couple.
Some people say that before the age of 6, same-sex parents and children can take a bath together, which helps to give children sex education, for this, most people say they can accept it, but it is absolutely unacceptable for opposite-sex parents and children to take a bath together, not to mention that Li Jiaxin's son is 8 years old, and it is really inappropriate for mother and son to play in the bathtub together!
The interaction between mainland star Dong Jie and her 7-year-old son is also quite strange and unacceptable.
After Dong Jie's divorce, she and her son depended on each other, and it was completely understandable that mother and son depended on each other, but the interaction between her and her son became more and more like a pair of lovers, rather than mother and son.
first took wedding photos with her son, asked her son to kneel down and propose to her, and heard her son say "I want to marry you", Dong Jie was shy like a bride who was about to go to a cave house, and then kept calling her son father every day.
A 36-year-old young woman calls her 7-year-old son Dad, what kind of deformed psychology is this? It's a little confusing, who lacks fatherly love between her and her son?
What's more, when he found that his son ignored him, he shed tears of grievance, and then said to his son, "If you ignore me again, I will cry!" Seeing this, the son hurriedly came over and hugged her and coaxed her, "Little baby, be good, Daddy loves you!" ”
Is this really the normal interaction between a mother and a 7-year-old son? The answer must be no!
Calm down a little, the big melon is behind.
The next mother, in comparison, Li Jiaxin and Dong Jie are pediatrics!
She is the famous Taiwanese artist Di Ying, she has participated in singing dramas, TV dramas and variety shows, and was a smash hit in Taiwan in the eighties and nineties, with the masterpiece "Bao Qingtian", "He Rijun Comes Again", and mainland audiences should be very familiar with the 93 version of "Bao Qingtian".
Di Ying has a sweet appearance, a hot body, a straightforward personality, and a hot temper, but she treats her son so spoiled that she has no bottom line, and has repeatedly revealed her deformed love with her son on variety shows, which makes people unable to bridge their tongues and surprise.
Di Ying has experienced two failed marriages and has no children, in order to be able to have a child with her third-married husband, she sought medical advice everywhere, and even did three IVF, all of which ended in failure, but fortunately, God favored Di Ying finally successfully conceived and gave birth to her son Sun Anzuo.
Because breast milk is more nutritious than milk powder, Di Ying has always insisted on feeding her son, other children will be weaned at most two years old, Di Ying's milk has been fed to her son for 12 years, and other children's children can eat normally, Sun Anzuo is still breastfeeding in her mother's arms.
It is conceivable that the amount of milk needed to feed babies is not comparable with that of teenagers, in order to ensure that her milk is sufficient, Di Ying often has to take injections and medicines to promote lactation, and also eat high-protein foods to ensure that there is enough milk to feed Sun Anzuo.
This is an incredible thing in the eyes of outsiders, but in Di Ying's eyes, there is nothing wrong, the child is her baby, and she just wants to give him the most extreme love.
Her son has become the whole of her life, watching her son grow up day by day under her nursing, she feels very proud and satisfied, and feeding her son is also very ritualistic, which is the best interpretation of her son's maternal love.
Since the birth of her son, she has slept with him every night. Her son has a habit of touching her chest every day to sleep soundly, for this reason, Di Ying has always maintained a habit of wearing only underwear when she sleeps, she thinks this is the best expression of love between her son and her.
Just imagine, a 15-year-old boy has to hold his mother's chest every night when he sleeps, and his mother still cooperates so calmly, every time he thinks of this picture, he feels weird and terrifying, how far has a mother's deformed attachment to her son become?
In this way, the mother and son have been sleeping in the same bed until Sun Anzuo is 15 years old, on Xiao S's variety show, Di Ying broke the news herself, saying that Sun Anzuo couldn't keep up with her milk when she was 12 years old, and she had to be weaned, and the reason for sleeping in separate beds was that 15-year-old Sun Anzuo had a physiological reaction in his arms, and there was really no way.
Listening to Di Ying's unabastinous recounting of the affectionate actions between her and her son, Xiao S and Cai Kangyong were shocked to drop their jaws!
After quitting breast milk, Sun Anzuo almost didn't know how to eat, and his stomach function didn't seem to be very suitable for food, and it took 7 hours to eat for the first time.
This is not outrageous, outrageous in the back, Di Ying, her son and her husband went to participate in the kissing competition, There is no doubt that the participants are all lovers, but Di Ying put her husband Sun Peng aside, and she and her son hugged and kissed for 3 hours, and finally Sun Anzuo was tired of lying on Di Ying's body before giving up.
In order to give her son a better education, Di Ying sent Sun Anzuo to the United States to study, Sun Anzuo, who let himself go, learned to smoke, drink, and fight, and he threatened to shoot the school with a gun, and was reported by his classmates, and the American police found illegal guns and a large number of bullets in his residence, and finally sentenced Sun Anzuo to 10 years in prison for intimidation and illegal possession of firearms.
Di Ying and her husband sold luxury cars and villas, and it took more than 100 million yuan to commute Sun Anzuo's sentence to 200 days, and he was deported from the United States after completing his sentence.
Sun Anzuo's private life has been chaotic when he returned to Taiwan, and the mother-love complex he has developed in the past 15 years has made him like a sister and brother relationship, has relationships with multiple girlfriends, and even made two Internet celebrities nine years older than him pregnant, all of which Di Ying chooses to ignore, still thinking that her son has no problem, but his hobbies are different from ordinary people.
Di Ying's connivance and doting finally caused a catastrophe, one night in 2020, Sun Anzuo was arrested by the police for making drugs and taking drugs, no matter how rich Di Ying is, she can't do anything!
Deformed maternal love must not be, maternal love must also have a boundary, can not lose the bottom line, even between parents and children, can not cross the line, no matter how cute the son is, he can't be a husband, take excessive intimacy as a spoil, it will definitely endanger the physical and mental health of the child, and eventually cause a big disaster!