Have you ever seen such a strange mother?
Because I love my son too much, I chose to breastfeed my son for 12 years, and shared a bed with my son for 15 years, until my son had a physiological reaction at the age of 15, and he had to share the bed!
Not only did he accompany his son when he ate and bathed, but he even slept "honestly", and he kissed his son for 3 hours until he fainted.
Such a "deformed" maternal love finally made her son fall into the abyss step by step and go to prison, she is Di Ying.
Although maternal love is the purest and most selfless love in the world, sacred and cannot be desecrated, excessive pampering will cause this kind of love to become tasteless, and even make people feel a little perverted.
When she became pregnant with her son, Sun Anzuo, she was already an advanced maternal age, and before that, she had already gone through three failed test tubes, and finally succeeded in getting pregnant at the age of 38.
For this hard-won child, Di Ying is very fond of her, and she chose to breastfeed in order to ensure the health of her son Sun Anzuo.
Surprisingly, she has been breastfeeding for 12 years!
While other children were already able to eat on their own, Sun Anzuo was still breastfeeding.
Even in order to ensure that the breast milk is sufficient, Di Ying often takes injections, just so that Sun Anzuo can eat his breast milk on time.
Di Ying once proudly said in a show: She can raise her son to gain 5 kilograms in a month.
Yilai stretched out his hand to eat to open his mouth, this kind of spoiling made Sun Anzuo also lose his ability to take care of himself, and he couldn't do anything.
At the age of 11, he only entered elementary school, and he couldn't go out alone, and he didn't dare to go out shopping alone until he was 18 years old.
In addition to serving her son to eat and drink, Di Ying also shared the bed with her son, and the two slept in the same bed for 15 years, until Sun Anzuo entered puberty, and the two slept separately.
Such behavior obviously went beyond the normal mother-son intimacy, and laid the groundwork for Sun Anzuo Ling's imprisonment later.
What's even more shocking is that the two of them, as mother and son, also went to participate in the kissing contest and kissed for 3 hours in a row.
Afterwards, Di Ying also proudly showed off: she has the best relationship with her son, and no one can compare with their mother and son.
Di Ying not only controls all of Sun Anzuo with her son, never lets anyone interfere, but also stays by her son's side 24 hours a day, whether it is eating, bathing, or going to the toilet, Di Ying follows her son step by step.
If Sun Anzuo does not listen to him, Di Ying will use both soft and hard means until he conquers his son.
Sun Anzuo's cooking requires Sun Anzuo to finish eating, if Sun Anzuo encounters something he doesn't want to eat, in order to ensure that the child does not secretly throw out the food, Di Ying will stare at his son throughout every meal until he finishes eating.
After a long time, Sun Anzuo became disgusted with eating, a mouthful of rice had to be chewed many times before it could be swallowed, and the time to eat alone was as long as 7 hours a day.
Di Ying's doting behavior continued until Sun Anzuo became an adult, and as Sun Anzuo had his own ideas and no longer blindly obeyed Di Ying's words as before, Di Ying's doting behavior slowly weakened.
At the age of 18, Sun Anzuo came to the United States alone to study at university, without the control and discipline of his mother, he felt very relaxed in his heart and began to live a life of doing whatever he wanted.
When he was at home, his mother never let him smoke and cause trouble, but in the United States, he was very fascinated by what his mother did not let him do, smoking, drinking, fighting, he was omnipotent, and he completely became a delinquent teenager.
In addition to this, Sun Anzuo is also obsessed with strength and weapons, and he often wears a military jacket and a gas mask, playing the "superhero" in the movie.
One day, Sun Anzuo said to his classmates in a calm tone on the road: I want to strafe the entire campus.
This relaxed and happy tone said this sentence, as if he was talking about the trivial things in life, but this sentence also made the students around him vigilant.
Seeing the reaction of his classmates, Sun Anzuo hurriedly smiled and said: I'm just joking.
Later, the two went back to their respective homes, but Sun Anzuo's sentence "I want to strafe the entire campus" always lingered in the minds of his classmates, so he told the teacher about it.
The school thought that this was just a child's lip service, so they planned to give him a verbal lesson and contacted the police.
But unexpectedly, during the interrogation, the police found that Sun Anzuo seemed to be carrying a large number of qiang branches, which attracted the attention of the police.
So, the police went to Sun Anzuo's residence to investigate, and in Sun Anzuo's home, the police found 1,600 rounds of dan, as well as various homemade hand qiang, dan medicine, etc.
In the end, with all the human and material evidence, Sun Anzuo was arrested by the American police for terrorist threats and sentenced to ten years in prison!
Knowing that her baby son was arrested and imprisoned, Di Ying immediately flew to the United States to solve the matter.
In order to bail Sun Anzuo out, the couple spent a lot of money on running around, found a lot of contacts and relationships, and even sold their villas and luxury cars, spending a sky-high figure of 100 million, trying to rescue Sun Anzuo.
In the end, through the efforts of the couple, Sun Anzuo's sentence was reduced to 200 days and he was required to be barred from entering the United States for life.
Afterwards, Di Ying said in an interview: In order to save his son, he is willing to give up everything, even his life.
It can be seen that from beginning to end, Di Ying didn't realize that her son made a mistake, let alone that it was her doting that pushed her son into the abyss.
After returning to Taiwan, Sun Anzuo did not change his mistakes, but relied on his mother to settle anything for himself, and became more unscrupulous.
Sun Anzuo is obsessed with beautiful women, mansions, luxury cars, drunk money every day, and his private life is also chaotic, and he has talked about several Internet celebrity girlfriends, but they are not long-term.
Perhaps because of the influence of his mother, Sun Anzuo's girlfriends are older than him and enjoy the woman's care very much.
In 2020, Sun Anzuo held a luxurious party, invited his friends from all walks of life in the United States, and called a large number of people.
At the party, everyone cheered and was lively, and when everyone was having fun, Sun Anzuo even took out the du product and let everyone carnival together.
Just when everyone was in the middle of the sea, the police suddenly came to the house and arrested a group of people.
Sun Anzuo thought that this time it would be the same as before, and his mother would help him solve the trouble, but he forgot that his mother could not help him make the mistake he made this time.
The police not only found a large number of DUPINs in Sun Anzuo's home, but also found a complete set of zhidu tools in the basement.
In the end, Sun Anzuo was recited to prison again, and Di Ying was powerless to return to heaven.
Sun Anzuo has come to this point, which has a lot to do with his mother Di Ying.
Di Ying's unfortunate childhood life made her a very controlling and extreme person, harming both herself and her children.
Di Ying was born in Taiwan with a total of four children, her mother is an opera singer, and her father is a director.
The family of 6 should have been happy, but due to a sudden car accident, the father lost his life, leaving behind four children waiting to be fed and a panicked mother.
In order to make ends meet, her mother goes out early and returns late, works two jobs a day, and sometimes she can't take care of her busy meals.
Di Ying dropped out of school at the age of 11 to help out at home, and followed her mother to perform at the opera house.
Although her father died, Di Ying did not become cowardly and timid, on the contrary, she developed a very tenacious character.
's mother is honest, and she is often bullied by others in the troupe, every time she sees this situation, Di Ying will not hesitate to help her mother out.
Looking at her mother's weak appearance, Di Ying became more and more reluctant to let herself become a weak person like her mother.
When she grew up, Di Ying stepped into the entertainment industry with her sweet looks and the support of her uncle Fang Jun.
In the dire entertainment industry, Di Ying's personality has not changed, and she is still very protective.
During the filming of "Bao Qingtian", Di Ying and her husband Sun Peng fell in love because of the play, and the two came together.
Once, Di Ying heard her boyfriend being reprimanded by the boss in the dressing room, because her boyfriend made a mistake in shooting props and wasted everyone's time, the boss angrily scolded and threw the props on the ground.
Di Ying saw that her boyfriend was being bullied, so she picked up the props without saying a word and chased after the boss.
In Di Ying's view, whether it is right or wrong, bullying the people around her is bullying herself, which is unforgivable.
Di Ying's fierce character, no one in the crew dared to provoke her, during the filming of "Half a Life", Di Ying had a grudge with Lan Jieying.
At that time, Di Ying and Lan Jieying had a rival scene, but Lan Jieying played a big name and did not show up for a long time, so everyone waited for her.
In the end, Di Ying couldn't bear it anymore, so she came directly to Lan Jieying's residence, and gave Lan Jieying a kick when she went up, which was not light, and directly made Lan Jieying collapse to the ground, holding her stomach and not standing up for a long time.
If it weren't for the staff to stop her, Di Ying would have gone up with her second foot.
In addition to kicking Lan Jieying, Di Ying also slapped Xie Lijin.
Afterwards, Di Ying was also ashamed to say to the media: "People who have been beaten by me will be very popular, like Wang Yaoqing and Chen Zhaorong, how much they love to be beaten by me." ”
Di Ying's pungent personality was also called a "wild horse off the leash" by netizens.
So this kind of character also indirectly caused the distortion of Sun Anzuo's personality.
In Di Ying's eyes, everything her child does is right, and even if it is wrong, it is someone else's fault, and it has nothing to do with her son! If possible, the sun and moon in the sky will also be plucked by her and given to her son.
epilogue
As the saying goes: "Children avoid their mothers, and daughters avoid their fathers", and when children grow up, they should not be dependent on their mothers.
seems to be a deep maternal love, but in fact, Di Ying's body reflects a strong desire for possessiveness and control.
Di Ying's motherly love is too deformed, which makes her son Sun Anzuo deviate from the trajectory of his life, causing irreparable.
At the same time, it also gives us a warning that parents should not spoil too much when educating their children, and do not turn great love into a heavy burden.