Like a person, there will always be these 4 kinds of performance, you have won several of them

The book says: "Until one day, you meet such a person, share his happiness with you every day, interpret your sorrows, report the whereabouts of the day, laugh and talk about the trivialities of daily life, this is the performance of liking you." After all, time flies so fast, who wants to talk too much to people who don't care. ”

Oh, yes! All the fates start from the four eyes facing each other, when they meet that person, not sooner or later, just because in the vast sea of people, the two people have met and looked at each other more, and the story of the two people has begun.

This is not to say that all feelings are love at first sight. But all feelings actually begin at the moment you look at each other.

It's just that feelings always have to go through some necessary stages to change from like to love. You know, the first source of all love is only because of liking. Finally, as time passed, the relationship between the two people became closer and closer. In the end, the feelings of two people go from initial liking to eventual deep love.

Liking someone is also a science in itself. So, what does it feel like to like someone?

No matter what reason you have at the beginning, because of the appearance of the other party, or because of the talent of the other party, but the initial performance is basically the same, there will be these 4 performances.

1, can recognize him at a glance

I probably meet someone I like, and that's all of them. Even in the sea of people, we can recognize him at a glance. Even at great distances or when there were many people, he could be recognized.

Maybe that's telepathy! It felt like that person was him, and it turned out to be really him. It was as if a friend had once said that he and his girlfriend were just starting out together. They weren't in the same city at the time.

Whenever he rested, he would take the train to her city. When he got off the train at that time, he was always able to recognize his girlfriend who was waiting for him in the sea of people at the first time. And every time he came out of the station door, he could recognize that his girlfriend was the same.

Of course, if you are a crush, if you like this person, you can also recognize him at a glance in the sea of people, even if it is a back, because he has appeared in your mind countless times. Therefore, even if the crowd is noisy, it can be recognized at a glance.

2. When there is physical contact, it will be shy and overwhelmed

The safe distance between people is one point and two meters, and when this distance is exceeded or less, we can see the degree of closeness between us and others.

I remember reading a book that mentioned four types of interpersonal distance, namely: public distance, social distance, personal distance, and intimate distance. And this process is actually the determination of our relationship.

Not sure if you meet someone you like at the beginning, the first physical touch with him is, like holding hands. How would you feel?

Do you feel sweaty palms, feel blushing, and feel overwhelmed and don't know what to do? And this ability to hold hands actually shows that your relationship has been confirmed.

Because in the beginning, your relationship is in an ambiguous period, and the distance between two people is between personal distance and intimate distance.

At this time, your feelings have just begun to heat up. When exposed, it is natural to be shy and overwhelmed. And having such a performance can also prove that you like him.

3, will want to chat with him, and smirk

When we encounter this situation, more often than not, our first reaction is that he is chatting with someone he likes. And this situation is that the person holds the mobile phone and keeps typing, and from time to time looks at the mobile phone and smirks.

If we have that reaction, we're mostly chatting with people we like. I remember reading such a passage: "The person who loves you, busy with the matter at hand, will contact you immediately, for fear of snubbing you." People who don't love you, get busy and disappear. ”

Yes, the chat history of two people is the most able to see the relationship between these two people, if you put your chat history out, you will find that you chat with people you like, there will always be a lot to say.

And chatting with ordinary friends may break off while chatting. And this is also a proof of the closeness of the relationship between the two people, of course, it is not applicable to be able to be together every day.

But when we like this person at the beginning, we will always unconsciously want to know what the other person is doing now, so we can't help but send messages, and when the other party is quick to message you, you will also smirk happily. I don't know if this is talking about you.

4, will unconsciously do some small actions

I don't know if you've ever had a crush on someone, someone you liked but never said. If you remember what you did most often when you found out you liked him?

Yes, you will do some small actions, you will always unconsciously want to observe him, but you don't want the other person to know that you are looking at him. So you'll demonstrate it with all sorts of small movements.

For example, pretending to look at time, pretending to pick up things, pretending to pluck hair. Pretend to borrow something from him, in short, you will use a lot of small movements to observe him.

And when he meets your gaze, you will always have a rapid heartbeat and quickly shift your attention, for fear of being discovered by him. So when you have this experience, don't think you must like him.

In short, if you like someone, there will be clues that we can detect. So, if you meet someone you like and you're not sure, see if you have these four situations, and if you do, it means that you like this person.

Love is about to be spoken out loud. Being brave will eventually succeed, as "Spirited Away" says: "No matter how hard the road ahead is, as long as you walk in the right direction, no matter how bumpy, you are closer to happiness than standing where you are." ”

So, are you like him? Just look at the above points and you will know. If you have the above situation, then you must like this person, then work hard and cherish it. Tell him you like him.

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