Often people ask, they are with one person, and they like another person, and they don't know how to choose. When a person is asking this question, in fact, it is just that no one loves much. Because they don't love the first person so much, they will be moved to the second person, because they don't love the second person so much, so they will hesitate between two people, and neither one wants to lose.
In fact, if it is true love, then there will be no such problem at all, true love will also be a choice, in the vast sea of people to choose which person, but rather than say that it is a choice, it is more like a choice. It's just that after that person appeared, after I met that person, before I knew it, I had already identified him, and there was no way to look at others, and I didn't want anyone else at all. Also, find someone who can accommodate you, not someone who wants to change you. Where in the world is there any perfect person?
Loving someone is not only about accepting her good, but also about embracing her shortcomings. It's not that you're perfect, it's that in the eyes of the people who love you, you're perfect in everything you look like. Girls look for the other half, don't take your good as a decisive factor in measuring, don't, don't. Because it is good for you, it will change, it is the most uncertain factor, and it is also the most confusing factor. Financial independence, it will be more refreshing to fall in love. I want to eat something, I like to buy my own bag, I have my own bread, just find someone to give me love. If you don't like it, you can separate, and I can support myself anyway.
Financial independence, you will not be because you do not have money to rent a house, do not break up, will not be because you need the other party to spend money for yourself. The premise of loving each other is to love yourself first. If you don't love yourself enough, how can the other person love you enough? In the relationship between two people, you are not humble, you should be equal, if the other person counts how you are not good enough every day, see only your shortcomings, picky, hit your self-confidence, let you listen to each other in everything, be sure to leave this relationship that has been PUA as soon as possible.
Finally, the girl looks for the other half to see if the boy has a good tutor and whether he has personality traits that attract you, which are the most stable factors. Growing up with a good tutor and a loving environment, his inner roots are rich, and he knows that true love is that both parties are equal and independent, and it is to help each other become better people. And there are personality traits that attract you, you will really appreciate this person for a long time, only if you appreciate this man from the bottom of your heart, he will feel respected by you, he will be more motivated to love you, and the relationship between you will have a stable and lasting positive link.