01
Shakespeare said that a thousand readers will have a thousand Hamlets in their hearts.
In the eyes of different people, the scenery of this world is different, the experience of this life is different, and the meaning of this life is even more different.
In this regard, we may wish to think about a question - why is everything in this world "different"?
If people's lives are different, the encounters in that life will be different, and the things they do will be even more different. In the end, a colorful world will appear, and a colorful and different life will come to us.
When it comes to "life", in fact, it is simple and simple, and it is also complicated to say that it is complicated. In your opinion, how can you have a "good life" life?
From the perspective of ordinary people's solidified thinking, as long as they work hard, they can have a good life; and from a multi-level point of view, people's lives are closely related to many conditions.
Whether you can meet a noble person is one of the key conditions for whether you can achieve a career; you can meet opportunities, which is also one of the key elements of whether you can achieve a career...
Don't underestimate the complexity of life, don't underestimate the variability of fate. You know, fixed numbers and variables, some of which we can grasp, and some of which are difficult for us to control. Everything was realistic.
But as a result, unfortunately, everyone's life will end.
02
What kind of life you have, what kind of life you will have.
Ten years ago, the two brothers Ah Fei and Ajie came to the big city together to work hard, anyway, their academic qualifications and background conditions are similar, and they are not prominent in the crowd.
Ah Fei chose to work in sales, while Ajay chose to work for an Internet company. These two people, each struggling on a different life path.
Four years later, Ah Fei had already become the head of their company's department, and there were more than a dozen people under him to open up the market with him. Ajay, on the other hand, has not been able to rise, and his career has not been smooth.
As soon as these two people met, they always lamented their college days in the past. When it comes to career, Ah Fei feels that Ajie's Internet position has a future, and Ajie also feels that Ah Fei's market sales have room to rise.
After another six years, this is the tenth year of their hard work in the city, Ah Fei pulled a team to start a business by themselves, anyway, the entrepreneurship was successful, and their own business was also on the right track. On the other hand, Ajay, because of his age, was dismissed and could only take hundreds of thousands of dollars to return to his hometown to live.
Both of them came from the same school, so why was the gap so great?
Again, some people are born with "boss life", then he will go up step by step. And some people are born with "part-time life", then no matter how hard he tries, he is still empty in the end.
03
Fate is related to many factors.
In your opinion, if a person wants to have a "good life", what exactly does he need to do? Generally speaking, we must grasp these five points.
First, the original family should be good. Your parents are big bosses, and your parents are farmers, and the gap between these two families, and the starting point, is huge after all.
Second, personal talent should be outstanding. Some people are very good, some people have good logical thinking, some people are very good at controlling people's hearts... All of this is the embodiment of personal talent.
Third, the academic qualifications should not be too low. In this society, if you want to start better, you can only improve your academic qualifications. Academic qualifications are something that seems to be incapable of being important. But, yes, it's better than nothing.
Fourth, meet Bó Lè who appreciates you. Maxima is often present, but Bole is not. Generally speaking, people who have strong abilities but cannot meet Bole are easy to be buried. Only those who have strong ability and meet Bó Lè can achieve something.
Fifth, meet the opportunity. Whether or not he can meet the opportunity and reach the cusp of the times is the key to determining whether a person can cross the current class. You know, in the face of opportunity, even pigs can fly.
These five points are the portrayal of people with "good lives". If we can account for two or three points, then we should be able to mix well in the second half of our lives. And there is no occupation at all, that can only silently struggle, waiting for the day when the willows are dark and bright.
04
After a person lives for a lifetime, he will not be able to do it after all.
The above has talked about the direction of different "lives" and also talked about the factors that affect "life". In this regard, some people will sigh, is life so unfair? Why do I need to suffer so much?
Life, no matter how to calculate, is only a few short decades, what is so great?
No matter how many opportunities there are, people may not be able to live to be two hundred years old, and no matter how strong their ability is, they will eventually have a day when they can't move. Therefore, there is no need to be overly anxious.
Professor Zeng Shiqiang said well that life will only "fail" in the end.
What is "no more"? To put it bluntly, people leave without doing their own thing.
Some people originally wanted to become multi-millionaires, and in the end the money was not earned, and people left first, and they did not get it; some people wanted to become famous, but in the end they actually made a chess difference, and they could not succeed in their whole lives; some people always wanted to be rich and rich, and they returned to the pre-liberation on the last night, and they could not do it...
We are wandering in this journey of life, just to experience the process of these decades, how the result, how much suffering, how much wealth we have experienced, we do not have to dwell too much.
Good life or bad fate, everything is just an embellishment among thousands of stars, as long as you have shown your own light, then you can do it.
Wen/Shushan has deer