Text/Wei Chen
There is no way to turn back on this path of life. Everyone will strive for a wonderful life, but not every struggle can have results.
Life is not so much a climb as a game. We are in the chess game all the time, winning or losing, and no one can see clearly until the end.
There is no need to think too much about many things in this life, only to be conscientious and not to let the rest of your life be burdened in the memory.
Everyone has dreams when they are young, and everyone longs to one day become what they once wanted to be.
However, time is tight like a white colt passing through the gap, the years are fleeting, and there are many ups and downs.
Life has always been a grand trade-off, and this life is destined to be sweeter and more bitter.
You and I are moving forward in the vast sea of people, looking for only a scenery that can calm the heart, and why should we care too much about whether it is wind and snow or clear skies on the way.
The real society has always been bitter, no matter how sincere you are, if you meet a suspicious person, you will still be weighed again and again.
Life is alive, and it is not easy to go smoothly and worry-free. As long as there are people where there are rivers and lakes, as long as there are rivers and lakes, it is inevitable to fight with each other.
We can choose kindness, but we cannot ignore principles. Kindness is, tolerant but not weak, gentle and strict.
Life is not long, and I can't care too much about whether I am willing or not. If you choose, you will be firm, and when it happens, you will accept. Regret is useless, after all, no one can go back to the past.
In life, there is never a so-called perfection. Being as expected can only be a good blessing, and perfection can only appear when a wish is made.
Life is full of regrets, and regrets are the norm, and only by accepting them can we be comfortable.
Regarding good fortune, no one can influence it. Don't embarrass yourself, don't force others, and go with the flow is the greatest happiness.
In this vast sea of people, we are only a tiny speck of dust.
Feelings between people are inherently incomparable, and your joy or sorrow may be understood by others, but it cannot be experienced by them.
On the road to growth, who has not suffered, wandered, and struggled.
Life is never a color. Where there is bright sunshine, there is darkness and cold, and where there is light, there must be shadows.
Life is not easy for everyone, and who can have a complete and satisfactory heart.
The happiness or success we see of others is the result of their struggle step by step in hardship and hardship.
Only by gritting their teeth and insisting on the darkest and most painful times can people usher in the arrival of beauty.
In fact, it is not difficult to live a smooth life for the rest of your life. Just take care of the following 3 things, good luck uninvited.
Don't admire others, take care of your own life
Everyone is more or less envious of the lives of others.
That's because what we see is the happiness of others, but we don't see whether this happiness is suitable for ourselves.
I once heard a story that a long time ago there was a farmer who had to work hard every day, and he felt that life was very tired and tired.
One day he met a fairy in the mountains, and the immortal said that he could fulfill his four wishes.
The farmer immediately begged the immortal to free himself from his present life, saying that he wanted to become the sun in the sky and do nothing as long as he hung in the air every day.
When he turned into the sun, he found that there were always dark clouds that would block him, and it was very difficult for the sun to penetrate the clouds.
So he made a second wish, to turn himself into a fierce wind. The fierce wind blew away the dark clouds, but they were blocked by a big mountain.
He immediately demanded that he become a mountain again. The days when he couldn't move were boring, and it reminded him of the beauty of being a farmer. So he used his last chance to ask the gods to turn him back into a farmer.
Other people's lives always look dashing and beautiful. Only through experience can you understand that there are setbacks and obstacles in everyone's life.
Only by not blindly envying others and managing your own life can you have your own blessings.
Don't remember the old scene, keep the current life
Life is never as good as we think it is, and certainly not as bad as we think it is.
After all, human imagination is something mixed with feelings. We have no way to see the real scene in reality, we can only try to keep ourselves as objective and fair as possible.
Any memory carries a filter of emotion. When almost everyone recalls the past, they selectively remember the things they prefer to remember.
So it is wise for one not to obsess over the past.
Since we have chosen a good direction, we must move forward steadily without fear of wind and rain. Too much entanglement in the past will only make the next life difficult to stabilize.
Some people, some things, pass by and let it pass. When it is time to put it down, let it go, know how to give up, in order to travel lightly and live the rest of your life.
The old scene is finally in the past, and living the life of the present is the most important thing we should do. If the obsession is too deep, it is destined to be rarely calm.
Stay affectionate and live up to the family around you
Life is long and tortuous.
Long life, the road is already very long, if you choose the wrong direction, take a detour, then it will become longer.
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, it is white. Looking back, it is inevitable that we will fail in this life.
Learning to cherish has always been a very important thing, because it can avoid the pain of regret and regret.
Han Bao wrote in the "Biography of Han Shiwai": "The tree wants to be quiet and the wind is not stopping, and the son wants to raise and not to be kissed." ”
This sentence does not have too deep meaning in the ears of young people, but once people reach a certain age, they will have tears in their eyes when they hear this sentence again.
This is just as we often say: at first I don't know what the song likes, and then I hear it is already the person in the song.
Take advantage of the fact that time is not old, take advantage of our youth, keep ourselves affectionate, and do not fail the family around us.
One day, you will be deeply grateful for your affection for your family at this moment in another time and space.
Content source public number: Wei Chen [ID: weichenip]
About the Author: Wei Chen, freelance writer, writing mentor. Normally quiet, occasionally humorous.
I hope that through words to bring you spiritual relaxation, may your life be more beautiful after encountering my words.