Text/Wei Chen
A person's embarrassment often stems from poverty.
In life, no one can escape the topic of economics.
In this society, money has become a reference, which can not only measure the height of a person's life, but sometimes even determine the direction of a person's life.
As the old saying goes: "The poor are in the downtown area and no one asks, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains." "This is the most straightforward manifestation of human relationships in front of the economy."
When people are developed, everything they do is smooth sailing, and everything they say is supported.
Once you fall into a trough, others will not take you seriously, and even the closest people around you may look down on you.
It is human nature to be poor and love the rich, and everyone seeks profit and avoids harm. Few people will give up the best option and go down the path that works against them.
Therefore, when people are in a low valley, they should not complain about the thin feelings of the people around them.
Everything is multi-faceted, and perhaps from your point of view, the other party is really thin, but it is clear to change the angle.
In life, everyone has the most important people and things in life, and we have no way to ask others how to choose.
What one person calls responsible may become irresponsible to another.
Everyone's growth is inseparable from experience, but it is not that the more experienced, the faster they grow.
Growing up is a process of continuous hard work to learn and improve yourself.
People must not stop learning when they are in a low point. No money can be earned again, and without cognition, it is difficult to make up for it.
If you want to live better and better in life, you must learn to "break through".
Everyone will encounter countless choices and many regrets in their lifetime.
In the adult world, nothing is as simple as it seems.
Too many people always perform for the sake of so-called decent choices, and become more and more dramatic in their complicated lives, until they finally forget their original selves.
The world is such that we have no way of defining anything, because over time you will slowly discover that the so-called explanation is nothing more than the wishful thinking of individuals.
No matter what life is like, don't give up on learning, only when people stop complaining, can they calm down and improve themselves.
If you look closely, those who will eventually make a comeback have one thing in common, and that is to insist on doing one thing.
Many people think that the success of others can be replicated. So they desperately imitate what others have done, but the final result is often unsatisfactory.
Success can no longer be replicated, because the result and the process are two very different things.
What people need to do when they are poor and poor needs to "persist", not insist on doing things or insisting on doing a specific thing, but insisting on doing something of their own choosing.
Things that follow the trend are usually difficult to succeed. The world has always used innovation to find a way out.
If people do not have a skill, they will live very hard, because they can be replaced by others at any time, and naturally they will not be treated differently.
What life needs is a good mindset. Persistence does not necessarily have a future, but if you do not insist there must be no future.
Personally, life, there is never perfection.
Don't feel like you can't do it because you're temporarily poor. Only by accepting yourself can you live your life well.
Life is like climbing a mountain, the mountain road is undulating, even if you are always upwards, it is inevitable that you will pass through the trough.
But life cannot be at a low ebb forever. It can also be said that the trough is a test of heaven.
As long as you are not afraid of difficulties and persist in patience, you will be able to overcome all difficulties one day.
A good mentality is that even if the days are very poor but the heart is not poor, life is your own, how you think in your heart, what kind of scenery will appear in front of you.
You know, the focus of tea tasting is not that you have a good pot of tea or a set of exquisite tea sets, but the elegant state of mind.
When people are poor, they must insist on doing one thing well.
Even if others think that this matter is meaningless, as long as it is chosen, it must be persevered to the end.
It is never others who can influence life, but oneself. If you want to change the situation of life, the real effectiveness is often accumulation and habits, not improvisational imitation and transformation.
People are most likely to give up on themselves when they have no money. If you can't stick to it at this time, you will lose yourself if you are not careful.
As the saying goes, "One step can't keep up, one step can't keep up." ”
Broken jars are addictive, and you don't stop to get out of the way.
Content source public number: Wei Chen [ID: weichenip] It is very easy to meet the author.
About the Author: Wei Chen, freelance writer, writing mentor. Normally quiet, occasionally humorous.
I hope that through words to bring you spiritual relaxation, may your life be more beautiful after encountering my words.