Text/Wei Chen
You must have heard the phrase "phase is born of the heart."
Many people understand it as a person's appearance is determined by his state of mind, and in fact the "phase" here is not the meaning of appearance, but a person's understanding of things.
What a person has in his heart, what he sees in his eyes is what he sees. Positive people see the sun shining, and people with dark hearts see desolation.
The world is just a mirror, and what the world in your heart is, the world in the mirror is what it is.
In many cases, we judge the right or wrong of a thing, the good and wrong of a person, not based on facts, but on the deep thoughts and prejudices in the heart.
Blessings are not given by God, blessings are born from the heart.
Regarding good fortune, instead of envying others, it is better to build your own heart.
In the blessed person, the following 5 characteristics often appear, and any one of them is worthy of congratulations.
Be kind to others
As the saying goes, "Plant melons to get melons, and plant beans to get beans." "It's science and it's cause and effect.
You know, the mountain never explains its height, it can still go deep into the clouds; the sea does not explain its depth, but it always accommodates the hundred rivers.
There's really no need to explain your heart too much, you just need to do enough and time will tell.
The "New Book" has a cloud: "Those who love to go out love to return, and those who are blessed to go are blessed." "Being a person, how you treat others, there is a high probability that others will also give back to you."
Whoever is good to others, he will be kind to them.
How much a person's blessings are, to put it bluntly, depends on how many seeds of goodwill this person has planted in his previous life.
Honor your parents
As the saying goes: "Blessed people live in a blessed land, and blessed people live in a blessed land." "A blessed person, no matter where he is, there will be good feng shui."
Born as a human being, instead of pursuing the treasure land of feng shui, it is better to be yourself and make people's lives more meaningful.
As the old saying goes, "Filial piety comes first." "A blessed man must also have filial piety.
The "Disciple Rules" has clouds: "Relatives have been, counselors have been more, Yi Wu color, soft wu sound." "It tells us that people who are not sages make mistakes, and even their own parents have times when they do wrong.
In the face of parents' faults, we must face them directly, but when pointing them out, we must speak softly and be pleasant.
Filial piety is not about blind obedience, but about avoiding mistakes that lead to disasters.
A person who honors his parents will certainly not be too bad in his blessings.
Positive and optimistic
Lin Huiyin wrote in the poem: "Don't lose this past enthusiasm. ”
In this life, we all long for our lives to be vibrant and full of spirits.
However, life never goes well, and we may be hopeful about everything, but reality often brings us despair.
In the face of blows, some people are stagnant, and some people are indomitable.
Life is never just one color, and it brings us both light and darkness.
Blessed people can maintain their inner enthusiasm in the dark, and enthusiasm is an immortal flame, which can burn away all indifference, drive away the cold in life, and thus make life warm.
The luck of the person who loves to laugh must not be too bad, and the positive person, the blessing is always with him.
Be loyal to your partner
It can be said that marriage is a topic that everyone cannot escape in their lives. Even if you have not yet started a family, your parents, siblings and relatives will show the appearance of marriage to varying degrees.
As the saying goes, "Home and everything is happy".
Having a happy family, life is happy from a certain point of view.
Whether male or female, if you want to live happily, you must be loyal to your partner.
Good love will be encountered by many people, but a good marriage is difficult to maintain.
How to have a good partner in marriage is not a particularly mysterious topic.
The feelings between people are mutual, and what you want the other person to do to you is to treat each other in the same way.
In marriage, fidelity to one's partner is the most effective practice.
Respect for children
The ancients said, "The house of accumulation of goodness will have a remnant of celebration, and the house of accumulation of unkindness will have a remnant of disaster." ”
What a family looks like is often the result of long-term accumulation.
Respect is a person's cultivation, respect for others is respect for oneself. In a family, no matter how intimate the relationship, learn to think differently and maintain respect.
From ancient times to the present, parents who are too strict will cause setbacks in their children's lives to varying degrees.
As a parent, don't make decisions for your children when they reach adulthood.
Everyone has their own life, and excessive control over their children's lives often ends up backfireing.
Respecting children can be a blessing for both parties.
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About the Author: Wei Chen, freelance writer, writing mentor. Normally quiet, occasionally humorous.
I hope that through words to bring you spiritual relaxation, may your life be more beautiful after encountering my words.