Text/Flying Fish
Original/plagiarism is a must
01
In this life, the more you think too much, the more you will make yourself not good, and even add a lot of trouble to yourself, that's it.
Remembering a story, a farmer got up in the morning to go out to the vegetable market to sell vegetables, he walked out of the door, remembered that he had not brought dry food, so he went back and took a few burnt cakes and put them in his pocket.
However, halfway to the road, he suddenly remembered that there was still hot rice dumplings at home, and he felt that he had brought a baked cake for what, and the hard one was not delicious, so he went back halfway back to replace the burnt cake with rice dumplings.
Before he could get to the market, he remembered that the rice dumplings would harden after a long time, and it would be even worse.
So he returned home with this basket of vegetables, not expecting to come in the doorway and see his son eat his burnt cake, the fire came up at once, and even scolded his son.
The farmer tossed and turned like this for half a day, the dishes were not fresh, so angry that he did not want to sell them, and he could not eat all day.
A person who thinks too much will be like this, clinging to some trivial things, thinking about it, making up his mind, and finally he will miss his own things, and the gains will not be worth the losses.
Thinking too much is also a kind of torture, there is a kind of tiredness, called mediocre self-disturbance. There are too many worries, the whole person will be restless, and more will lose more fun of being a person, however, the heart is simple, life is not so tired.
02
In this life, people have always been like this, they need to experience some things before they can see through some things.
Some people say that only if you have been in pain, you will know.
However, some people can grow up at once, some people can be destroyed at once, and some people still need to suffer repeatedly.
Friends talked to me about the topic, that is, there will always be some people around her who are easy to lose their minds, very emotional, and easy to fall into.
There is a person who has been in love with his first love for five years, although he did not live together, but he also had a relationship, last year her mother was seriously ill, the boyfriend began to calculate on the money, but also to control the girl's salary, and then the two people broke up.
After she resigned, taking care of her mother, the state has been bad, all aspects have been affected, and has not put down the person, and then the other party looked for her to reunite, she softened her heart, so they were together again, but soon after, the man often could not contact people, in fact, the man was stepping on two boats, after the breakup, found someone else, and came back to find her.
She was hurt again, and decided to blackmail the man and never contact him again.
In fact, only after experiencing some things, can you really see a person, really understand some things, and can you really see through life, treat feelings rationally, and learn to love yourself and no longer be easily hurt by others.
03
Life has always been like this, just as the so-called coming to Japan is long, it cannot withstand the impermanence of the world.
Some people say that they always thought that the thin water was long, the coming to Japan was long, and all things could wait, but they found that life is subtraction, one day less, one side, one side, no one knows which will come first tomorrow and accidents.
Therefore, the most feared thing in life is actually to wait, to meet with people, to go to the appointment on time, and to go back to see the holiday that their parents said they were good, and to arrange the time in advance. Don't make excuses because you are busy, obviously want to go out for a few days, but consider various factors, after all, you can't go, obviously want to say something to someone, but swallow, or did not say it.
Regrets in life are formed in this way, don't wait later, you must live in the present, cherish the present, life is impermanent, can not be repeated, do not live up to Shaohua and do not live up to Qingqing.
04
Life, as always has it, there is always some suffering, and surviving the past is a blessing, and not surviving is a disaster.
Everyone's life is destined to have some disasters to spend themselves, only to stand up, grit your teeth and persevere, survive the past, in order to make the days better and better, because the blessing will be later.
However, some people, unable to withstand a little setback, just give up, or even encounter a little difficulty, they can't think about it, and life is buried like this.
In this life, suffering is inevitable and cannot be escaped, and everyone needs to experience some suffering and survive in order to usher in good luck.
The road of life is like eating bitter melon, bitterness is really bitter, but if you calm down to taste, but there is a fragrance, life does not experience sour, sweet, bitter, spicy and salty are not a complete life, learn to enjoy this five-flavored life, talent will feel more happy.
05
In this life, in fact, it is just like this, reminiscing in the past, growing in the aftertaste, and moving forward in growth.
Everyone's life is from the wind and rain, the years are staggering, life is miserable, but always have to laugh at life, as Su Shi said, who is afraid, a smoke and rain for life.
In fact, everyone has stumbled from life, the mountains and rivers are doubtful, and the willows are dark and the flowers are bright and another village.
In this life, people are not long, short is not short, in the end no one can escape life and death, living is lucky, fortunate to live, stay to live well, even if it is obstacles and difficulties, we must also bravely go on.
Life, but so, gains and losses, successes and failures, comings and goings, sorrows, joys, pains, sorrows...
In this life, it is enough to try to live well.
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