I don't know if you find it, the friends around you, and even yourself, seem to follow a rule, that is, there are more parents of the opposite sex.
That is, boys look more like moms and girls look more like dads.
Of course, there are also some people who are just the opposite, girls look like moms, boys look like dads.
So, in the end, who will the child look more with?
As a parent, of course, I want to pass on the good parts of myself to my children, such as big eyes, high nose bridge, and fair skin.
It can often backfire.
Obviously, the parents' face value is very high, but the child specifically picks the original copy of the party with low appearance, looks small, the nose bridge is collapsed, the skin is black, you say that the angry person is not angry?
Colleague Xiaoyun has always been depressed because the child looks too ugly.
Xiao Yun is the kind of beauty from small to large, with big eyes, high nose bridge, fair and transparent skin, while her husband has small eyes, a big nose, and some dark skin.
When Xiaoyun was pregnant with her first child, the whole family hoped that the child could inherit Xiaoyun's high appearance.
But after the daughter was born, her mother-in-law said that it was simply a copy of her father.
Originally, I expected that my daughter would become more beautiful when she grew up, but I didn't expect that the more she grew up, the more she looked like her father.
The father and daughter walked out the door, and no one else had to ask to know that this was bound to be two fathers and daughters, because they looked so similar.
Xiao Yun was also helpless, and occasionally wondered, if he gave birth to a son, would he look like himself?
After the introduction of the two-child policy, Xiaoyun began to prepare for the second child.
When her son was born, she was still full of expectations, this time the child should be like me, the future must be a handsome guy.
The family has called this child "little handsome man" since childhood, but no matter how much they call, they can't stop the fact that their son is more and more like his father.
Still small eyes, big nose, dark skin.
The family was helpless to say: It is really a waste of Xiaoyun's good genes!
Similar examples are not uncommon.
Two days ago, I saw a group of family portraits of deyunshe baked cake couple on Weibo.
In the photo, a family of six, grandparents sitting on the sofa, grandma holding grandchildren, baking cake couple holding children, standing behind the two elders, the family is happy.
Look carefully at the photos, you will find that the grandmother and the wife of the burnt cake are very good looks, and they are both big beauties.
And Grandpa and Burnt Cake, can not say exactly the same, can only say very similar, are the same single eyelid, small eyes.
Looking at the two children again, it is also a perfect copy of the single eyelid + small eyes of Grandpa and Dad.
Two generations of beautiful daughters-in-law have not been able to reverse the family's appearance, who can you find to reason?
This may be the so-called genetic strength.
Now back to the original question: Who among the genetic parents of the child has more looks?
What we usually see seems to be that boys look like their mothers, and girls look a little more like their fathers.
But some experts said: This is really not necessarily true, you have to follow the fate!
Who inherits the child's appearance, in the final analysis, depends on the father and mother who have more dominant genes.
The moment sperm and egg meet, they all compete to pass on their dominant genes to the next generation.
And who has more dominant genes and who has strong dominant genes can make the child more like himself.
But which of the parents has more dominant genes and is stronger, no one knows before the child is born.
This is similar to opening a blind box, which can only be followed by fate.
For example, Qi Wei and Li Chengxuan, the daughter and Qi Wei are like a mold carved out.
Even Li Chengxuan himself said that it felt like raising a Qi Wei when she was a child.
As LUCKY grows bigger and bigger, the child slowly becomes stable from cute, longer and more beautiful, which is simply a miniature version of Qi Wei.
Looking at it again, Tian Liang and Ye Yiqian's daughter CINDY and son Tian Chenyu are like copies of Tian Liang.
If the parents are high in appearance, no matter who the child inherits, it is most likely to be a high value.
If the parents' appearance is high and low, then the child's appearance may be high or low.
If you can let the child inherit to the parents of the high value of the one, of course, is a good thing, people are visual animals, the child's high appearance, the future will definitely be a plus, whether it is in the job search or marriage will have an advantage.
But what if the child is "unlucky" to inherit the low appearance of the parents?
In fact, the definition of appearance value is far more than the facial features and body so narrow, and there is a richer extension.
In a broad sense, the appearance value actually refers to an overall feeling that gives people.
Even if the child's facial features are very average, parents can still find ways to give their children extra points.
As long as the following 3 points are done, the child's overall appearance will not be low to where.
Pay attention to your child's living habits
Lifestyle habits include eye habits, sleeping habits, etc.
Parents should pay special attention to allowing children to protect their eyes, especially after the child goes to primary school, must pay attention to the child's posture of writing homework, correct it in time, and do not let the child use eye fatigue.
The eyes are the windows of the soul, and children with good eyesight will be brighter and more agile, and they will look more energetic.
Another example is sleeping habits.
Some children are accustomed to sleeping with their mouths open and breathing, and over time, it will affect the development of the child's face and make the child's appearance slip.
Parents should correct their children's bad sleeping habits in time.
If the child is breathing with his mouth open due to poor breathing or rhinitis, parents should take the child to the hospital for diagnosis and treatment in time.
Pay attention to your child's manners
Children with similar appearance, one with a straight posture and one hunched over, the former will make people feel that their appearance is higher.
Because the tall child will give people a confident, sunny, positive feeling, will be more likeable, even if the appearance is average, there will be its own aura, even more attractive than those children with high appearance but poor manners.
Parents usually pay attention to the child's walking posture and sitting posture, and correct the child's bad manners in time.
Of course, if conditions permit, children are also interested, may wish to let children practice dance, martial arts, are conducive to creating a good manners.
Cultivate a child's optimistic and humorous personality
A person who loves to laugh and humor, like warm sunshine, makes people can't help but get closer.
Even if you look average, you will like it.
For example, Huang Bo, in the field of actors with a high degree of internal volume, the star path did not go smoothly at the beginning.
He is not handsome, and he can even be said to be a little ugly, but because of his superb acting skills, and the humor and high emotional intelligence he shows on various occasions, his whole person exudes brilliance and is full of personality charm.
And he has also been loved by many people, and his career development is getting better and better, which is more powerful than many high-value traffic stars.
Write at the end
Although most of a person's appearance comes from the inheritance of his parents, as a social person, in addition to the visible features of facial features and body shape, there are also potential characteristics such as personality, personality, and cultivation.
It is useless to have a beautiful appearance and not a rich interior.
After all, the appearance is easy to age, and the personality charm that has been precipitated for a long time will make a person more and more attractive and become an irreplaceable competitiveness based on society.
Parents do not need to be anxious about the child's appearance, no matter the child's appearance, is our favorite baby, even if the innate hardware conditions are average, we can also help the child shape the inner, improve the personality, improve the modification, to obtain the comprehensive appearance of the improvement.
Is that right?
Hello everyone, I am a worm mother, a multi-platform original parenting blogger, a middle-aged girl who wrestles with 8-year-old children every day, focusing on sharing dry parenting goods, and the social life observation of an ordinary mother.
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