Many children are born unfortunate, they not only do not have superior talent, but also congenital deformity, appearance and ordinary people have a big gap, from childhood to bear a different vision, if the original family is very fond of it, the child may be happier in this life, if the original family father does not kiss the mother does not love, then the child may live in the depths of the water for the rest of his life.
The mother deliberately lost the 3-year-old "rabbit lip daughter", and 20 years later, people recognized it in the sea and regretted it
A paragraph on the Internet, from a mother's self-report, 26 years ago, the 3-year-old rabbit lip daughter was deliberately thrown on the street, when the child was born, the whole family collapsed, the two old people were not in good health, and seeing the child was getting sicker and sicker.
The family also has a 1-year-old son to raise, the husband's salary is difficult to maintain the family's expenses, the pressure of life is overwhelming Bao Mom, but also because of the idea of son preference, Bao Mom carried her 3-year-old daughter to the street, and then deliberately lost her daughter, regretting coming back to find her daughter but could not find it.
Unexpectedly, 20 years later, I recognized my daughter in the sea of people, because the daughter had an obvious black mole on her neck, and her appearance did not change much, so the mother recognized it at a glance.
But the daughter is no longer the "rabbit lip girl" she was, the rabbit lip has been completely repaired, and she has become lively and cheerful, confident and generous, and talking and laughing with friends. The mother saw that her daughter was now more and more regretful, and she wanted to find her child.
For the mother's self-statement, netizens give the opinions are very unified, do not recommend that the mother disturb the child's current life, do not interfere with each other is the best result, the girl can now be confident and generous, is the adoptive father and mother how much love to care for the harm caused by the family, since the original choice to abandon her, now do not disturb her life.
How to avoid having a "rabbit lip" child?
One: During pregnancy, mothers pay attention to living habits
Pregnant mothers must also pay attention to living habits for the sake of children during pregnancy, first of all, eat a balanced diet, do not eat spicy, cold, greasy food, and follow the doctor's advice to supplement some trace elements appropriately.
Secondly, sleep habits, most young people like to stay up late, but after pregnancy, pregnant mothers still go to bed as early as possible and get up early, and finally some bad habits, such as smoking and drinking, must also be vigilant after pregnancy.
Second: do not use chemicals without authorization
The impact of chemicals on pregnant women is very large, which will cause fetal malformations, but it is not that the headache and brain fever after pregnancy should be hard, can not take medicine, pregnant colds should be treated in time, according to the doctor's advice to take medicine.
Three: pay attention to obstetric examination
Now the level of obstetric examination is very high, such as rabbit lips can be detected by four-dimensional color oversized deformity, once the test results are not good, parents can choose to give birth or not to give birth to a child, and are not ready to be responsible for the child's life, then do not give birth, because giving birth and then abandoning the harm is greater.
What should parents of congenital deformities do?
One: Guilt
First of all, parents should not feel that the child with congenital malformations is a burden, the child's congenital malformations may be caused by genetic factors, or because of the bad habits of the mother during pregnancy, so parents should feel guilty when facing the child, and should not be bored with the child.
Two: more patience, more careful
Children are born with deformities, parents should be like ordinary children, do not put the "deformed children" hanging on the lips, but also to treat them differently, more patient than ordinary children, more careful, children will not learn to teach five times ten times, one day will learn, deformed children are sensitive, parents should take care of them.
Three: Teach children a skill
Parents will one day leave their children and cannot take care of their children for a lifetime, so parents should teach their children a skill, even if they are born with congenital deformities, they have the ability to support themselves after leaving their parents, which is the so-called "parents are far-reaching for their children".
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